Mentally ill women

[Music_czar]

I’ve probably slept with close to a hundred or so. I’m not sure. But it’s not a qualifier or a measure of masculinity.
It’s not immiature. It’s spot on. You are warning and reinforcing your beliefs for you. If you know anything about sociopaths, there’s no defense.
Watch the videos of sociopaths. All you are doing is keeping men from accepting their responsibility in their demise.
So no. You are not helping men here. You are holding them back. That is a destructive act and I am treating it as such.

The only comment truly destructive in this thread is your suggestion to “suck it up.”

Taking abuse and accepting toxicity in a relationship is never the answer.

And also.. I alluded to your lack of experience interacting with women and how damaging they can be, as a divorced man you should know that. I was not necessarily talking about sex, although your focus on that subject shows how immature your viewpoint really is.

 

[Ranger]

Taking abuse and accepting toxicity in a relationship is never the answer.

You are smarter than this. That is the exact opposite of what I believe.
He won’t leave his other half in most cases until he has made the transition to responsibility.
Once he understands that his “training” in this civilization has caused this, unlearns that training, then learns new concepts, only then is he no longer in jeopardy.

The mistake being made is trying to teach him new things over false training and ideas that he swears is true in his subconscious. This causes a conflict in his mind. Conflict and confusion equal the inability to act. You are actually sticking him right where he is.
You are pulling their attention off of what he should be doing, unlearning and learning, and putting his attention on “dangerous women”.

I am not fooled. You are sticking men with this garbage.

 

[machoMax]

50% divorce rate and half the nuclear families are fuvked up too. The American family is a joke.

Unfortunately, but that is true.

 

[Spaz]

Calm down guys.

There's just 2 schools of thoughts here. Both equally passionate in their convictions.

Let's summarised it down.

The 1st school of thought r adamant that men recognises variables of toxic behaviours in mentally ill women and kick them out ASAP!

Examples given so far was throwing pizzas, calling the cops on you, being bullied and there might be others that I've truly forgotten. Let's assume there's dozens if not hundreds of red flags as women has different characters and no crazy is the same anyway. In essence men has to memorise all these red flags that others has experienced and pointed out.

The 2nd school of thought is talking abt sustainability.

Focusing on how men should conduct themselves regardless of BPD or not.

The moment the man feels he's being bullied either emotionally or physically then he must rise to the occasion and say STOP or NO.

And when she breaks his boundaries too often, then he must decisively cut her loose.

That's it. Nothing fancy.

Have I got it right guys ?

If so, then let's allow members of SS or any of SS visitors reading this decide which path they choose to take.

I trust they hv the wisdom to do so.

 

[Von]

With all the BPD threads, you guys r giving out the impression that there's a huge percentage of women in the USA that's being inflicted with this syndrome.

Its gotten me seriously trying to find one and fvck some sense into her head with my d1ck. Then I'll finish it off with an everlasting impression in her @ss !

Unfortunately, I've yet to locate one in Asia....

The sample here migth not represent the général population.

After all, Sosuave is a forum for guys with issues... Hence all women have issues.

Real life: Everybody has issues.

SoSuave: Some guys have more issues than average.

We can agree of the market and relationship, hookup/consumer, bpd etc...

Still at the end of the day: You attract women that are like you

 

[Billtx49]

in lieu of prioritising your own ""awareness"" agenda.

I thought one of the main reasons this forum exists is to educate men about womens actions, most are mentally healthy, some are not. If you want to criticize experienced men that’s your choice, but it doesn’t do much for other mens ability to learn.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Fvck me why do I run into them? Two women that I've known for about a year I had a feeling their screwed up, I've kept them at arms length, two of them have messed up family lives. Both women have similar situations they were bounced back and forth between their mothers and fathers growing up, multiple remarriages, fathers and mothers that were not their biological ones. It just proves when a woman grows up in a unhealthy family it messes them up mentally they can't have a stable relationship it just plain fvcks them up.

I had no intention of getting involved with either of the women more than just being friends I wish I didn't even go that far, I have a feeling they wanted something different. I'm keeping my distance from the worst one ignoring her she doesn't seem to like it much, pretty sure she knows I'm ignoring her.

Had my fill with mentally ill women with my BPD ex I don't need anymore, I've run into a few other mentally ill women over the last few years since the ex, they wanted more than I was going to give. You don't know how screwed up the women are till you do some digging, I've got good senses to tell if a woman is whacked, its figuring how bad she is. I don't go seeking these women for damn sure, why can't a guy be-able to snap his fingers and mentally ill woman disappear.

Got a question why is there so many sick women out there? trying to find a half decent one that's not screwed up in the head.

When your entitled and dont have to pay for your damages you get more sick.

 

[Music_czar]

That is complete horsesh1t. If you gave a fvck about helping anyone, you'd not ignore the gents background in lieu of prioritising your own ""awareness"" agenda.

Incredible.

No it is not complete horsesh*t, it’s prioritizing the message and ensuring men who come here are able to read the importance of the warning rather than ignorantly focusing on the details of the OP’s own situation.

You’re ignoring the forest for the trees, a very myopic and narrow viewpoint indeed.

 

[Music_czar]

Idealism at the expense of others. Trying to claim that awareness is willfull ignorance.

Oh yeah, fvck the guy. What does it matter?

Can one be surprised that the lad has seen no progress, if that's what he's been met with?

But ultimately people do need to think for themselves. Just as people need to accept their own responsibility inset, they also need to accept responsibility for that too I suppose.

I’m not saying fvck the guy.. you are.

This thread is an important resource for a lot of men.. even if the OP - as you claim - is a lost cause.

 

[Music_czar]

Your complete dismissal of the actual thread creator says more than i should need to tbh.

It's not about people at that stage - members with issues nor is it any proper reflection on women. It's a nonsense.

I didn’t dismiss him at all nice try to deflect from the thread.

You claimed there is no point in giving OP advice I responded by stating even if it doesn’t help him it will still help others. Now stop being a nuisance.

 

[5string]

Since I last posted on this thread, I checked and found out that out of the total population of Americans, 1.6% has BPD, of which 70% r women.

Even with a 1% chance, some men get to strike BPD multiple times....

Truly amazing...

That’s what the books say. Might I add that this is an underdiagosed disorder. Clinicians are reluctant to label these defective women.

Here is the question.....How many of you guys have encountered these gals? Do they meet ALL or MOST of the criteria. I have run into more than one for sure. I bet most you have as well huh?

Now, after answering the above, still believe in this 1% sh!t?

 

[Spaz]

That’s what the books say. Might I add that this is an underdiagosed disorder. Clinicians are reluctant to label these defective women.

Here is the question.....How many of you guys have encountered these gals? Do they meet ALL or MOST of the criteria. I have run into more than one for sure. I bet most you have as well huh?

Now, after answering the above, still believe in this 1% sh!t?

Okay, I'll play along. Let's do it even better for the sake of discussion. We r after all here for the betterment of men.

Let's say 30% or even higher at 50% of women being a hypothetically BPD.

There's 2 schools of thought in this thread on how to address it.

Which then would be the better option ?

 

[Ranger]

That’s what the books say. Might I add that this is an underdiagosed disorder. Clinicians are reluctant to label these defective women.

Here is the question.....How many of you guys have encountered these gals? Do they meet ALL or MOST of the criteria. I have run into more than one for sure. I bet most you have as well huh?

Now, after answering the above, still believe in this 1% sh!t?

You boys are running out of women. Pretty soon the only thing for you will be the walruses. Or married women. Lol
Just think about all those dangerous women out there. They have Prozac in those little handbags with those cute little zippers.
I’m sure some girl men out there will transgender up for you.

 

[Music_czar]

That’s what the books say. Might I add that this is an underdiagosed disorder. Clinicians are reluctant to label these defective women.

Here is the question.....How many of you guys have encountered these gals? Do they meet ALL or MOST of the criteria. I have run into more than one for sure. I bet most you have as well huh?

Now, after answering the above, still believe in this 1% sh!t?

Not only is 1% a very low underestimate not taking into account women who are misdiagnosed, it also doesn’t take into account women who are in denial and don’t seek treatment. As we all know, BPD is heavily dependant on denial as a self defence mechanism and most women with the disorder by its nature will not seek treatment and diagnosis.

Women with these disorders are generally very promiscuous and will date dozens of men each which makes it easy to see why so many men come here shell shocked after their experiences with such vampires.

Also, BPD is not the only mental disorder that is dangerous to men in the dating game. Narcisissists and sociopaths are even worse. Then you have women who suffer from anxiety, depression, hpd, and bipolar disorder, among others, and these can all be equally destructive to men.

Then you have the women who while they may not qualify for an official diagnosis of mental disorder, still display many of the toxic behaviours of these illnesses and can be incredibly damaging to the men who date them.

Disregard the inexperienced opinions of men on this forum who are only here to bully, blame and shame. They don’t realize how hidden and covert a woman’s mental illness can be - it is often something that shows up very subtly over a long period of time until a big “holy fvck” moment may scare you into reality. Even then, psychological ties such as trauma bonds and self-blame can lead lots of men to stick around for more.. until they come to sites like this one so they can read up on what the hell theyre actually going through and learn how necessary it is to detach, and to recognize the warning signs so they don’t get involved with such women ever again.

Most of these women appear normal and lure you in with good times and great sex for many months and even years, which is what makes the mental disorders so potentially damaging. It is not always so easy to spot right away.

 

[Ranger]

Not only is 1% a very low underestimate not taking into account women who are misdiagnosed, it also doesn’t take into account women who are in denial and don’t seek treatment. As we all know, BPD is heavily dependant on denial as a self defence mechanism and most women with the disorder by its nature will not seek treatment and diagnosis.

Women with these disorders are generally very promiscuous and will date dozens of men each which makes it easy to see why so many men come here shell shocked after their experiences with such vampires.

Also, BPD is not the only mental disorder that is dangerous to men in the dating game. Narcisissists and sociopaths are even worse. Then you have women who suffer from anxiety, depression, hpd, and bipolar disorder, among others, and these can all be equally destructive to men.

Then you have the women who while they may not qualify for an official diagnosis of mental disorder, still display many of the toxic behaviours of these illnesses and can be incredibly damaging to the men who date them.

Disregard the inexperienced opinions of men on this forum who are only here to bully, blame and shame. They don’t realize how hidden and covert a woman’s mental illness can be - it is often something that shows up very subtly over a long period of time until a big “holy fvck” moment may scare you into reality. Even then, psychological ties such as trauma bonds and self-blame can lead lots of men to stick around for more.. until they come to sites like this one so they can read up on what the hell theyre actually going through and learn how necessary it is to detach.

Ok. Now you guys are down to hog heads and minors. You’re really running out of available women now.

 

[Music_czar]

Ok. Now you guys are down to hog heads and minors. You’re really running out of available women now.

Yeah thanks for your input, valuable stuff.

 

[Ranger]

Just having fun. It’s too rediculous not to. But you have to admit...if you remove these “sick” women the only think left must be a unicorn.
Doesn’t lie. Doesn’t monkey branch. Always faithful. Completely dependable no matter how whipped you get.
Won’t argue and cut you back with her sharp tongue. You know, a unicorn.

 

[Ranger]

Here are the top ten traits of a sociopath.
1 no remorse
2 charming
3 intelligent
4 liars
5 manipulative
6 narcissistic
7 no long relationships
8 spontaneous
9 lack of love
10 highly competitive

Now. Which ones are NOT commonly used by women?

 

[5string]

You boys are running out of women. Pretty soon the only thing for you will be the walruses. Or married women. Lol
Just think about all those dangerous women out there. They have Prozac in those little handbags with those cute little zippers.
I’m sure some girl men out there will transgender up for you.

More constructive, valuable info.

Funny, I never ran out women but did run out the crazies. Guess because I made a mistake, learned from it and never let it happen again.

 

[Ranger]

So you’re in a LTR and rocking. Cool.