If you are a healthy minded person, then the only way to "somewhat" stomach a cluster b is to be emotionally unavailable and stay chill when they have one of their episodes. Its not hard to do when you just want sex and good times but eventually the wheels come off that crazy biatch.
As soon as you get a committed relationship going the mask comes off and their crazy comes out. I don't care how strong your frame is, or how bad azz you are, you will be effected. Some of you that think you can control this schitt have never been with a full blown crazy girl otherwise you wouldn't say what you do. Eventually your being emotionally unavailable also triggers their insecurities/anxieties which bring out the super crazy melt downs.
Until you have been accused of fuhking her best friend, her throwing a pan of lasagna out the back door along with a chair, leaving and calling her friend and saying she is going to drive her car off the bridge all while sending you 50 texts a minute telling you how she hates your guts, then gets home and calls the cops and guess who got a phone call? Ole Howie did. And its always the dudes fault you know. Then when they hauled her off to 36hr mental lock up she blows up your phone with hate messages and cruel calls all the while you are trying to help her. Eventually they take her phone away from her but she was still mad when I heard from her again 3 days later.
I was only barely invested in her. Almost always kept my cool. I ran the show. Walked away many times when she went into one of her angry rants because there was no way you could talk to her. No amount of tough guy, cold as steel alpha frame was going to handle her.
If you have some experiences to that degree and were able to handle it, I'd like to hear how you did it.
So why did I stay in it.....because she was hot, lots of fun, we had amazing freaky hot wild unrestrained sex, very feminine, had a big heart, she was an awesome cook, took super good care of me when she wasn't angry, and she was highly supportive. I tried to work with her but she grew up in a household where anger was how they "resolved" things. She grew up spoiled rotten. Been in an out of counseling her entire life. Struggled with keeping jobs. The usual.