And if I’m gonna be real, I don’t think thugmaxxxing will work for me. That’s just not me. I’ve tried it before. I’m honestly probably just gonna go for a sexy nerd persona. I mean I like classical music, not really a fan of mumble rap... I’m just not a “hood” person. Although I could at least look like one.
Leather jackets are freaking dope. I’ve absolutely gotta get me one.
If you’re a smart and maybe even kinda geeky guy, just own it dude. It’s not a negative attribute. We live in an anti-intellectual climate lately and it breeds this dumb idea that being smart is a disadvantage somehow.
It’s only bad to be geeky if you’re also weedy and weak-willed, which tends to be the case with many intelligent people because they don’t have the time/willpower to build up physique and personal skills (hence the nerd stereotype). But if you’re well rounded being intelligent/geeky is a plus to most women.
In fact many girls will go nuts for you if you show off your intellect. Any guy can say “i wnt 2 fakk u?” and she will get tons of guys who are thick and send that nonsense to her all the time.
Then you turn up and you’ve read her fave book and can explain some flirty BS about how you think quantum physics relates to good sex and suddenly she‘s fascinated by that because it’s unique.
Regarding dressing up gangsta...if you’re not actually a tough inner city type it just looks ridiculous. My view a lot of the time when I see these “thugs” is “Wow, that tryhard idiot from the suburbs listened to some classic Tupac and now he thinks he’s Al Capone LOL.”
Fairly sure 90% of girls also make this assessment...except maybe the really dumb and trashy ones that you don’t want anyway.