Rate my Looks?

[nicksaiz65]

I'm more concerned about your eyes than anything else. They have a bit of a sad look to them. I would retake some photos while thinking of positive stuff. Also, not so close-up. These phone cameras have fairly wide lenses which are not flattering to the face. If you want to do closeups, it's best to use a 50 mm lens on a regular dslr camera.

Also, a bathroom picture isn't ideal. See if you can get some outdoor shots with your face in-focus and the background blurred. That can make all the difference in the world.

Other than that, you have no innate problems in the looks department.

Yeah a lot of these pictures were taken during finals week in school so that’s probably why I look so depressed haha. And once I get some new clothes I’ll definitely look into those blurred nature shots

 

[nicksaiz65]

Let me tell you a secret about SMV. It has a lot more to do with just looks, although looks are probably priority #1.

You dont control your SMV but you do indirectly impact it. What does that mean? It means that the better looking version of yourself will get hotter chicks. It means the more money you make and the higher status you have gets you hotter chicks. The more positive you are and the better you socialize gets you hotter chicks.

How does that impact your SMV? Its simple. When other chicks that are 7's see you with a chick that is an 8, they want a piece of the action. If you are with a 9, the 8's and other 9's want a piece of the action.

Your SMV is equated by the women you are seen with. Whether that be snap pics, fb pics, seen out in public with these better looking women, etc.
That is how your SMV is established but you can do the things needed to self improve and attract better looking women who will raise your SMV for you.

If you are hitting a 6 then you better have her come over after dark, no snaps, no social media pics and if she brings you lunch at work tell her to park on the street and you come get it from her lol.

If she is a 9, have her bring that lunch into your office and watch how fast any hot woman you work with wants to fvck you.

We have all heard people say that as soon as they got into a relationship with someone, chicks out of nowhere started showing interest. The key with SMV is that you have to attract and be seen with chicks that are on the same level or higher and those other chicks will start knocking the door down.

I just watched an AMS Video about this exact topic. Very true. Even if she’s just your friend other women are influenced tbh

 

[HankHill]

@nicksaiz65 - I agree with @Atom Smasher and others, get contacts, go a bit further away, perhaps an activity pic (not a selfie) and smile!

@Glassguy I don't know about the SMV thing man, I know AMS preaches it but I'm fairly successful in life money wise and it really isn't even a point of discussion. Then again, I don't flaunt it, I drive newer but normal cars, my house is in a nice neighborhood, it's avg looking but neat and clean etc. As for getting the 9s to attract the 7/8s...hmm how the heck do you get the 9s in the first place lol? isn't that the chicken and egg situation? Unless the 9s are your friends and cousins...I don't know if that works once she finds out who these women are lol

As for OLD - I mostly only do OLD. I don't have too many issues getting dates with 7-8s. It's usually with women that reach out first where the dates tend to materialize. Sending messages is a waste of time but on some OLD apps you have to swipe-right/like etc in order for your profile to appear in front of the women you like.

Getting laid, now that's another story...not that easy unless she's really into you or she's just looking for a hookup. Most women looking for a hookup though would rather do that with the Chads (if she's a 5 her Chad is at least an 8, if she's an 6-7 her Chad is a 9-10) and OLD makes it very easy for them, it's like an escort service in disguise for women. For the normal guys (6 to 8) you have to show you're investing in her (at least a few dates, time etc), buy her trust and the whole song and dance because she's got plenty of options why should she pick you over the others? That's where your personality comes in, it should be something she likes better than the rest.

Lastly, sex is 100% controlled by women, it's just the reality of it. Best to make sex a lower priority, I've found that when I did this it happened easier but since I started hanging out here and tried to 'escalate' etc it didn't work that well. When your priority is what women have/control you're now in her control. If you take the control back by simply going with the flow of things she's going to wonder why you're not all over her like the guy on her last date etc. Women want the validation, and you can validate them by showing your cards too early and they then move on to the next challenge.

 

[Spaz]

Your eyes...betrays you.

Have a more focused look. Actually anything will be better then that. Seriously, chg it.

 

[Glassguy]

Getting laid, now that's another story...not that easy unless she's really into you or she's just looking for a hookup. Most women looking for a hookup though would rather do that with the Chads (if she's a 5 her Chad is at least an 8, if she's an 6-7 her Chad is a 9-10) and OLD makes it very easy for them, it's like an escort service in disguise for women. For the normal guys (6 to 8) you have to show you're investing in her (at least a few dates, time etc), buy her trust and the whole song and dance because she's got plenty of options why should she pick you over the others? That's where your personality comes in, it should be something she likes better than the rest.

Lastly, sex is 100% controlled by women, it's just the reality of it. Best to make sex a lower priority, I've found that when I did this it happened easier but since I started hanging out here and tried to 'escalate' etc it didn't work that well. When your priority is what women have/control you're now in her control. If you take the control back by simply going with the flow of things she's going to wonder why you're not all over her like the guy on her last date etc. Women want the validation, and you can validate them by showing your cards too early and they then move on to the next challenge.

Total myth my man. Getting laid is easy.

Women want sex. They just use their anti sloot defenses as a shield that is easily bypassed if you know what you are doing. I will guarantee you that the average woman does NOT wait 3-5 dates to have sex with any man who has a high SMV.

You are correct about OLD. SMV matters but it is full of 5's and 6's that are looking for men who make $100k and are 8's and 9's. As I said in a recent post, all (or at least almost) women are narcissistic in how they over value themselves. That is the absolute downfall to OLD because these 5's and 6's actually get attention (free attention at that) from guys who are 8's. But on the flip side, you might find a plate or 2 if you are the 8 and she is the 6. Get my drift? You just dont broadcast that you are hitting a 6 because that will lower your SMV in real life.

You will get sex a lot less if you are not putting a value on sex or getting sexual with a woman. She will immediately identify you as someone who isnt going to lead and escalate. They want to smash dude. The good guy gets friend zoned and the fvckboy gets laid. Its just the way it is.

I think some guys shouldnt swallow the red pill. They should stay blue pill and be beta providers because they dont have it in them to escalate, manipulate and dominate. And that's ok, us red pillers appreciate smashing those chicks on occasion who have some beta provider in the back ground feeding them full of free attention without getting laid. We get the action, they provide the free attention to the ladies.

Once you swallow the red pill, there is really no going back to the blue pill after you take it. "Relationships and dating" have a new meaning as it should, because both have seriously changed since most men have lost their manhood over the past 10-15 years.

It isnt about PLEASING women and letting them use sex as a bargaining chip. Its about pleasing yourself. They want sex nearly just as bad as men. They just want men who are going to be a man and go after it.

 

[R.U.G.]

I saw @devilkingx2 do one of these so I figured I’d do one too. These are my OLD pictures. I’d like to get an unbiased view of where my SMV stands.

I’ll be leaving these up for exactly one day before I pull the link. That way I hopefully won’t get doxxed too horribly. Can’t have employers seeing the type of Red Pill stuff we talk about lol

[REMOVED]


Brave man. First, you look a bit like Steve Urkel. If that's what you're going for, cool. If not, get better frames which are in style an and change the shirt. Women, especially black ones, would think of you more of the studious type; rather than the mysterious bad boy they want to fvck.

As for your baby fat, you need to cut. Cut the crappy foods and sweets. Add 2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar along with water and lemon twice a day. Once in the morning and once before bed. That will help speed up your metabolism and burn some of that fat off in a few weeks.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Brave man. First, you look a bit like Steve Urkel. If that's what you're going for, cool. If not, get better frames which are in style an and change the shirt. Women, especially black ones, would think of you more of the studious type; rather than the mysterious bad boy they want to fvck.

As for your baby fat, you need to cut. Cut the crappy foods and sweets. Add 2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar along with water and lemon twice a day. Once in the morning and once before bed. That will help speed up your metabolism and burn some of that fat off in a few weeks.

Thanks for the feedback. That’s an issue that I’ve been thinking about. Personality wise, I’m definitely the nerdy studious type for sure. So I dress kind of accordingly(although I’d still say I’m stylish.) Thing is, most black women want that super masculine thugmaxxxed dude. I can get the masculinity part from the gym, but I don’t know if I should try to emulate that “bad boy” persona.

Back in the day I used to drink water and lemon just because I preferred the taste. Never done the apple cider vinegar though. I had no idea that the lemon water could help you cut weight though!

 

[HankHill]

Total myth my man. Getting laid is easy.

Women want sex. They just use their anti sloot defenses as a shield that is easily bypassed if you know what you are doing. I will guarantee you that the average woman does NOT wait 3-5 dates to have sex with any man who has a high SMV.

I'm not disputing at all that women don't want sex almost as much as men but they can have it anytime, anywhere with just about anyone- unlike men. So, when you have something available in abundance your standards tend to get higher and you become more picky. They won't sleep with the guy who's acting like a desperate horn dog, she wants to sleep with the guy who's comfortable in his skin. In 2018 women know the game far too well, they're far more social creatures than men, they know all about the RedPill, PUA stuff by now. They have their own 'red-pill' books and their own game.

I'll give you two fairly recent examples, one woman told me she hadn't had sex in over 6mos since her last relationship ended and she'd been on over two dozen dates since then. She said she misses sex but she'd much rather hold out for the right guy, she also said 'women are a lot of work in bed, most guys won't take the time, they're there just for their little fun'. Another woman told me her friends keep pressuring her that she should just go out and get laid since she can't find 'the one'. The same woman also said how a guy she went out on a date with was too forceful in kissing her on the first date and made her very uncomfortable, the same guy drove a Porsche. I playfully said 'so it sounds like the guy does well for himself and your friends think you should get laid, I'm not seeing a problem here' and she immediately said 'sex is easy, as I'm sure you would agree...but it's about respect. If someone is respectful and there's chemistry I would love that but when someone acts like that it's a huge turn off'. I said 'well, may be the guy really liked you and wanted to show it?', she said 'most guys are just looking for you to jump in the sack with them, it just doesn't work that way for me'.

Don't get me wrong though, escalation is important but as I said those that claim they're smashing every woman on the 1st date, I have a hard time believing that unless she's promiscuous or hugely turned on by them.

 

[R.U.G.]

Thanks for the feedback. That’s an issue that I’ve been thinking about. Personality wise, I’m definitely the nerdy studious type for sure. So I dress kind of accordingly(although I’d still say I’m stylish.) Thing is, most black women want that super masculine thugmaxxxed dude. I can get the masculinity part from the gym, but I don’t know if I should try to emulate that “bad boy” persona.

Back in the day I used to drink water and lemon just because I preferred the taste. Never done the apple cider vinegar though. I had no idea that the lemon water could help you cut weight though!

Yea, in this day and age you need to look the part. Stick with solids moving forward. Make sure you pants fit and you have nice shoes. As for the eyewear, check out warbyparker.com or Costco to check out some other styles. Better yet, look at some popular black celebs and go with what they are wearing if it fits your body type.

Yes, apple cider vinegar will help with weight has it speeds up your metabolism. Just remember to drink it with at least 8oz of water/lemon. If it's too bitter for you, add some raw honey; not that fake honey crap. Use a straw as well to protect your teeth's enamel. Try it for a few days days, I will be you will lose at least 2 lbs to start. Apple Cider Vinegar also curbs your appetite so you do not eat as much.

 

[AttackFormation]

I'm not disputing at all that women don't want sex almost as much as men but they can have it anytime, anywhere with just about anyone- unlike men. So, when you have something available in abundance your standards tend to get higher and you become more picky. They won't sleep with the guy who's acting like a desperate horn dog, she wants to sleep with the guy who's comfortable in his skin. In 2018 women know the game far too well, they're far more social creatures than men, they know all about the RedPill, PUA stuff by now. They have their own 'red-pill' books and their own game.

I'll give you two fairly recent examples, one woman told me she hadn't had sex in over 6mos since her last relationship ended and she'd been on over two dozen dates since then. She said she misses sex but she'd much rather hold out for the right guy, she also said 'women are a lot of work in bed, most guys won't take the time, they're there just for their little fun'. Another woman told me her friends keep pressuring her that she should just go out and get laid since she can't find 'the one'. The same woman also said how a guy she went out on a date with was too forceful in kissing her on the first date and made her very uncomfortable, the same guy drove a Porsche. I playfully said 'so it sounds like the guy does well for himself and your friends think you should get laid, I'm not seeing a problem here' and she immediately said 'sex is easy, as I'm sure you would agree...but it's about respect. If someone is respectful and there's chemistry I would love that but when someone acts like that it's a huge turn off'. I said 'well, may be the guy really liked you and wanted to show it?', she said 'most guys are just looking for you to jump in the sack with them, it just doesn't work that way for me'.

Don't get me wrong though, escalation is important but as I said those that claim they're smashing every woman on the 1st date, I have a hard time believing that unless she's promiscuous or hugely turned on by them.

Women have an insatiable craving for attention and validation to uphold their self esteem, yet at the same time they experience that the flattery they entice from men is indiscriminate and hollow. A narcissist craves narcissistic supply but receiving it still makes them insecure, they cannot get over the dread that they are not as exceptional, as magnificent as they want to imagine themselves and their paranoia that the courting they receive is not genuine, or should not be. Women are the same way, although they might go through phases where they choose to disregard it or haven't yet realized it. But deep down they know... they are not as "special" and the flattery not as real or meaningful as they want it to be. And this is the source of their insecurity, no matter how many men they can date.

This is why you will see so many ads of women saying in some way or other that they want to "feel special". The narcissistic insecurity ever threatens to break down the reality they want to imagine... that they possess no magical quality, no divine princess birthright, but are actually much the same as the other 3,5 billion female mammals in the world of their species... and it scares them.

 

[Glassguy]

They won't sleep with the guy who's acting like a desperate horn dog, she wants to sleep with the guy who's comfortable in his skin.

Exactly. A guy with lots of options IS comfortable making a move on a woman. I am not talking about acting like a sexual predator, I am talking about kino and escalation if you read a woman's interest level correctly and she is showing the sexual interest.

one woman told me she hadn't had sex in over 6mos since her last relationship ended and she'd been on over two dozen dates since then. She said she misses sex but she'd much rather hold out for the right guy, she also said 'women are a lot of work in bed, most guys won't take the time, they're there just for their little fun'.

Anti Sloot defense. I am not buying it. I dont care what she says, she wants to fvck. She is telling you get fvck her right, make sure that its not all about you and make her c*m. Period.

she immediately said 'sex is easy, as I'm sure you would agree...but it's about respect

Case and point to my comment before. Translation to this is "If he is hot enough and he makes my panties dripping wet by being an attractive MAN and acting like a MAN (sexual build up, kino, escalation) she will fvck him.

The "One" she is looking for is a beta provider. She isnt fvcking him. She is fvcking an alpha.

So what the guy drove a Porsche. He didnt sexually excite her. He didnt even make it as a potential beta male provider for her.

Attraction + charisma + building sexual tension + confidence + abundance mindset = you are getting laid. A lot.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Yea, in this day and age you need to look the part. Stick with solids moving forward. Make sure you pants fit and you have nice shoes. As for the eyewear, check out warbyparker.com or Costco to check out some other styles. Better yet, look at some popular black celebs and go with what they are wearing if it fits your body type.

Yes, apple cider vinegar will help with weight has it speeds up your metabolism. Just remember to drink it with at least 8oz of water/lemon. If it's too bitter for you, add some raw honey; not that fake honey crap. Use a straw as well to protect your teeth's enamel. Try it for a few days days, I will be you will lose at least 2 lbs to start. Apple Cider Vinegar also curbs your appetite so you do not eat as much.

Alright I’ll definitely get on all of that. Do you think that dressing like a bad boy and talking like a nerd would cause a congruency issue though?

 

[Glassguy]

Brave man. First, you look a bit like Steve Urkel. If that's what you're going for, cool. If not, get better frames which are in style an and change the shirt. Women, especially black ones, would think of you more of the studious type; rather than the mysterious bad boy they want to fvck.

As for your baby fat, you need to cut. Cut the crappy foods and sweets. Add 2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar along with water and lemon twice a day. Once in the morning and once before bed. That will help speed up your metabolism and burn some of that fat off in a few weeks.

I will have to try the apple cider vinegar. How long do you do that or is it just something you do all the time?

 

[R.U.G.]

Alright I’ll definitely get on all of that. Do you think that dressing like a bad boy and talking like a nerd would cause a congruency issue though?

Need to drop the nerdy persona all together. Or, at least become somewhat moderate. Despite what you see on tv, average women or above are not attracted to nerds. Well, if you become a billionaire, then it's a different story. Just mix it up with other types of people with your new wardrobe. Perhaps go to the barber and refresh the hair as well. You know how you spell success? Illusion. After doing it a few times, it will be come second nature.

I will have to try the apple cider vinegar. How long do you do that or is it just something you do all the time?

It's good to do at least every other day, but I do try to do it at least prior to going to bed. Zero side effects and it works. Tastes like sh!t, but if you add fresh lemons and raw honey (again, not the cheap bumble bee kind), it's tolerable for the 10 seconds or so. Many health benefits too.

 

[AttackFormation]

The "One" she is looking for is a beta provider. She isnt fvcking him.

LOL... great tagline. The "One"...

And yeah about the nerd vs bad boy stuff, swallow your moral indignation. You will have to turn yourself not into a poser, but more into the image of a "bad boy" to enjoy more success with women, period, because that's the image that women want. Remember it's not about who you are but the image they have of you, how you make them feel. So just start with small, gradual experiments that you feel are still authentic... facial expression, speech pattern (speak clearer, slower, deeper but sustainably so without strain), posture, clothing, mannerisms, thought patterns. I say that because I've been in the game and went over the same things.

 

[zekko]

@nicksaiz65 - I agree with @Atom Smasher and others, get contacts

Just as an FYI, you know, not everybody is eligible to wear contacts. Or for lasik surgery, for that matter.
So again I say, if women don't like the glasses, fvck 'em.
But I agree it would be ideal not to have to wear them.

 

[Soflobro#3]

You're black dude. You need to be more gangster, ect

 

[davidcarr]

You look like a pro wrestling fan. Ditch the glasses, get a gym membership and use it, and wear something cooler than a striped polo.

Can someone filter this through an etiquette translator?

 

[nicksaiz65]

Need to drop the nerdy persona all together. Or, at least become somewhat moderate. Despite what you see on tv, average women or above are not attracted to nerds. Well, if you become a billionaire, then it's a different story. Just mix it up with other types of people with your new wardrobe. Perhaps go to the barber and refresh the hair as well. You know how you spell success? Illusion. After doing it a few times, it will be come second nature.



It's good to do at least every other day, but I do try to do it at least prior to going to bed. Zero side effects and it works. Tastes like sh!t, but if you add fresh lemons and raw honey (again, not the cheap bumble bee kind), it's tolerable for the 10 seconds or so. Many health benefits too.

I had a feeling it would come down to that lol. Another Blue Pilled lie that I’ve been fed. My voice is extremely, extremely proper. I’m gonna basically gonna have to re-do my wardrobe and learn how to talk and walk more thug-like. It really could take a while. And I hate long hair, so I’ll trade in the buzzcut for some 360 Waves. Might as well grow a beard too so that I have that masculine look, right? The only way I can see my voice changing is recording myself and learning to talk again basically.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Just as an FYI, you know, not everybody is eligible to wear contacts. Or for lasik surgery, for that matter.
So again I say, if women don't like the glasses, fvck 'em.
But I agree it would be ideal not to have to wear them.

I really might just have to keep them. I like my glasses like you said. I can compensate for them in other ways