Younger hottie with gay best friend

[The_Ace_01]

Guys...I need advice or a swift kick in the pants if you're in SATX.

Im getting ready to turn 36. I known this chick who's 24 for about 2 years now. We have traveled together and have done typical dating things. We have gone through dry spells so to speak..off and on type scenarios and I have even been ghosted by her when I asked her to move in with me. She eventually contacted me again and we started this weird relationship again.

Here's my issue: In the beginning it was difficult to kiss or have sex with her because she's not the affectionate type but we eventually did and is was so damn good which is opposite of what I am used to.. women throwing themselves at me. I was kinda thrilled to chase so I already knew how she was towards giving affection. But this last time since we reunited, she only wants to hang out with her gay guyfriend/his lover who I feel she madly in love with (pictures of her and him together next to her bed) but denies it because he's gay, so she doesnt have to be a third wheel, no sex just the constant rub my back until I fall asleep requests which is super frustrating. About a couple weeks ago I ended it through text telling her I was done if this is the way she wants to be and she didn't respond. A week later she said she would rather talk about it person and not through text but the conversation never took place and she showed me a little more affection (no sex)but it still feels the same. She turns her back to me everytime we are in bed and never wants to bang me. Shes so damn gorgeous and accomplished. I always remember and long for the early times but what should I do to get this girl to want to bang my brains out all day everyday or should I just give her the chop? This is tough to do simply because she's a 10 and she tells me she loves me and wants to spend time with me but when we are actually together she gets on her damn Snapchat and Instagram and cares more about what her gay friends are up to. I feel like a damn massusse or elderly companion more than anything.
All I really want to is bang whenever I want and words of affirmation when im done with business so I was hoping y'all could share a strategy on how to get that or just tell me I'm wasting my time ..move on but I worry that someone as young and hot as her will never come along again. It sucks and it's tough to let go.

 

[Spaz]

So she sometimes gives you some pity s€x.

Sounds pitiful right ?

 

[dude99]

Guys...I need advice or a swift kick in the pants if you're in SATX.

Im getting ready to turn 36. I known this chick who's 24 for about 2 years now. We have traveled together and have done typical dating things. We have gone through dry spells so to speak..off and on type scenarios and I have even been ghosted by her when I asked her to move in with me. She eventually contacted me again and we started this weird relationship again.

Here's my issue: In the beginning it was difficult to kiss or have sex with her because she's not the affectionate type but we eventually did and is was so damn good which is opposite of what I am used to.. women throwing themselves at me. I was kinda thrilled to chase so I already knew how she was towards giving affection. But this last time since we reunited, she only wants to hang out with her gay guyfriend/his lover who I feel she madly in love with (pictures of her and him together next to her bed) but denies it because he's gay, so she doesnt have to be a third wheel, no sex just the constant rub my back until I fall asleep requests which is super frustrating. About a couple weeks ago I ended it through text telling her I was done if this is the way she wants to be and she didn't respond. A week later she said she would rather talk about it person and not through text but the conversation never took place and she showed me a little more affection (no sex)but it still feels the same. She turns her back to me everytime we are in bed and never wants to bang me. Shes so damn gorgeous and accomplished. I always remember and long for the early times but what should I do to get this girl to want to bang my brains out all day everyday or should I just give her the chop? This is tough to do simply because she's a 10 and she tells me she loves me and wants to spend time with me but when we are actually together she gets on her damn Snapchat and Instagram and cares more about what her gay friends are up to. I feel like a damn massusse or elderly companion more than anything.
All I really want to is bang whenever I want and words of affirmation when im done with business so I was hoping y'all could share a strategy on how to get that or just tell me I'm wasting my time ..move on but I worry that someone as young and hot as her will never come along again. It sucks and it's tough to let go.

You ended it. Which was good. You went back, which wasn't.

First thing i noticed from your message was you care more than she does (bad) and you put her on a pedistle which is worse.

Sounds to me, she wants you to be her gay friend and she wishes the gay friend was her boyfriend.

After she texted and said she wanted to talk in person and not through text, you should have deleted the text and gone on with your life.

She isnt attracted to you. She wants you to be her buddy, her pal, her advice giver. Youre in the friend zone. Walk away.

 

[djdfuser]

.......and never wants to bang me.

WTF, dude? Never mind the gay dude, read that 100 times.

 

[The_Ace_01]

You ended it. Which was good. You went back, which wasn't.

First thing i noticed from your message was you care more than she does (bad) and you put her on a pedistle which is worse.

Sounds to me, she wants you to be her gay friend and she wishes the gay friend was her boyfriend.

After she texted and said she wanted to talk in person and not through text, you should have deleted the text and gone on with your life.

She isnt attracted to you. She wants you to be her buddy, her pal, her advice giver. Youre in the friend zone. Walk away.

WTF, dude? Never mind the gay dude, read that 100 times.

The only reason why I put up with it so long was bc so so hot. Those don't come along too often. I just need to approach more. Wish y'all could show me the ropes out here in Texas.

 

[dude99]

The only reason why I put up with it so long was bc so so hot. Those don't come along too often. I just need to approach more. Wish y'all could show me the ropes out here in Texas.

When you treat the 10s the same as the 8s the 7s and so on you show the girl, she isnt special. You show her you are the prize. You show her you have the ability to walk away and not look back, they will treat you better

Catering to her B_lls#!t because she was hot, gets you the results you received.

Never put them on a pedestle. Treat them all the same.

 

[highSpeed]

The only reason why I put up with it so long was bc so so hot. Those don't come along too often. I just need to approach more. Wish y'all could show me the ropes out here in Texas.

Not sure why you would continue to put up with a situation where you are getting nothing but frustrated. I get it, she's hot and you want to bang her but guess what, she gets it too. If she hasn't put out yet, turns away from you and doesn't put out, who cares what she says? Others have said better and way before me but believe me, if she wanted to get it on with you, she would move heaven and earth to do so, end of story. Anything else is just an excuse.

 

[Dr.Suave]

She´s sounds a like a massive focking waste of your time. Regardles of how hot she is, the juice is not worth the squeeze. Get a ***** with higher interest and sex drive than you.

 

[The_Ace_01]

Y'all are great. Thanks for advice. I kinda knew it all along but I just needed to hear it from the experts.