Libido

[Fruitbat]

Right, slightly embarrassing but my libido is off the cliff.

I have gotten fat and pretty much noted it dropped with every lb I gained.

I had this when I got fat in my 20s. Not to the same extent.

I am 36. Literally I can take it or leave it, recently I would say I feel in the mood once a month. Once a week with a bit of effort.

Has anyone gone through this or is this middle age approaching?

Other than losing weight, anything else?

I have a hot wife and I worried I was losing interest but I have limited interest in anyone. It's not her issue.

 

[Spaz]

If u r taking medications then that could explain a lot.

 

[Ranger]

If you’ve quit smoking your testosterone will also hit the bottom.
But drugs are a major issue. Especially if they are for blood pressure.

If you are gaining weight this can also be a sign of lowered testosterone. I would say you are on a blood pressure medicine if I didn’t know better. With that stuff you can kiss it goodbye.
Easy to fix with diet.

 

[spinich]

Any one do the penile injections? Supposedly erection on demand. Asking for a friend......

 

[smokeforfun]

I would go consult a endocrinologist. Maybe your hormone levels are messed up, have fun trying to lose weight and put on muscle with high estrogen and low testosterone. I've been through that and it was exhausting I almost wanted to kill myself. Got off cigarettes, alcohol, started eating healthy, got supplements and there is a big difference now.

 

[sosousage]

im not fat at all and im young but my libido is also gone gone gone dont mind it, it was God's plan

 

[Spaz]

Do you have s€xual fantasies sosousage?

 

[sosousage]

Do you have s€xual fantasies sosousage?

no

 

[Spaz]

Well having fantasies abt certain women does raise a man's libido...

You don't find certain attributes in a woman attractive?

 

[smokeforfun]

no

how can you not have any at all

 

[Desdinova]

Mine isn't excessively high, but I attain that to a high sex count and the fact that masturbation is a lower stress and more satisfying option. A few years back, I started seeing sex as just partner maintenance. I can go without it and could care less if I ever fvcked another woman, but she highly enjoys the sex. Just buckle down and fvck her every couple of days. The interesting part is that when your libido is lower, you hold the sexual control. She will never be able to use sex as a bribe.