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A while ago my girlfriend told me she had a weird dream about being with another woman (sexually). It made me have a weird feeling because while that does not bother me too much, the thought came into my head "is she having these sorts of dreams about guys too". So I asked her about it, and she said: "I have never dreamt about another guy since I've been with you". And that reassured me for the time but now I'm thinking that maybe she was just saying that as a white lie or something. I dunno why this is f**king with my head so much, but if she is dreaming of other guys I feel that it is an indication that she's thinking of other guys because my game is weak and needs to be fixed. I dunno, maybe it's not like that. No indications of low interest level in the relationship and I don't often get AFC around her, I usually keep this sort of crap to myself. Can anyone reassure me please?
 

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People have no control over what they dream. This is the dumbest thing I've seen posted in a long time here.
 

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A while ago my girlfriend told me she had a weird dream about being with another woman (sexually). It made me have a weird feeling because while that does not bother me too much, the thought came into my head "is she having these sorts of dreams about guys too". So I asked her about it, and she said: "I have never dreamt about another guy since I've been with you". And that reassured me for the time but now I'm thinking that maybe she was just saying that as a white lie or something. I dunno why this is f**king with my head so much, but if she is dreaming of other guys I feel that it is an indication that she's thinking of other guys because my game is weak and needs to be fixed. I dunno, maybe it's not like that. No indications of low interest level in the relationship and I don't often get AFC around her, I usually keep this sort of crap to myself. Can anyone reassure me please?
Well, this whole thing was AFC to begin with. She possibly lied, who really knows.

News flash, women are sexual, not us much as men, and IMO they possibly do dream about other men while dating. You know why? Because we may do it too. However, drop the subject and dont let it bother you. She's with you, that's enough. Her dream is possibly her subconscious trying to explore her sexuality, at least she told you which is good. Seriously, don't ever ask her if shes dreaming of other dudes, thats very low confident, the reality is she probobably is and nothing you can do. Its a dream.
 

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People have no control over what they dream. This is the dumbest thing I've seen posted in a long time here.
Marbel, people can control the subject of dreams. Ever hear why commercials at 3am get lauder? To influence the mind. Do some research.

Its not a dumm question. IMO its better to ask then to continue a dead end road.

As a matter of fact, I read on one of your post that "you" gave advice on just grabbing a cleaning lady by the hand and taking her to the bedroom unsolicited - mr. Harvey Weinstein....
 

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Within a few minutes mummy has arrived and given a nice womanly advice.

Very fast service.
 

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People have no control over what they dream. This is the dumbest thing I've seen posted in a long time here.
Insecurity at it's peak. But also possibly trolling.
 

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Come on OP! Instead of being insecure you should´ve use the opportinity of this "dream" and turn it into a hot threesome.
 

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so the fact that your gf is dreaming about other guys fk**ng her and getting wet over it doesn't bother you?
 

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You cannot actively control your dreams

But your dreams are reflective of your mind/thoughts.

I dreamed about monsters coming out of the darkness when i was afraid of the dark, and i dreamed about girls i was into and spending a lot of time with
 

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You cannot actively control your dreams

But your dreams are reflective of your mind/thoughts.

I dreamed about monsters coming out of the darkness when i was afraid of the dark, and i dreamed about girls i was into and spending a lot of time with
U r right, no one can control it.

I'm reminiscing...

In my youth I used to dream of killing the devil, those graphic scenes of war, battles, impossible odds, I died a few times only to reincarnate stronger and more determined, it was a glorious dream. I had those after I was exposed to some horror flick, a possession.

Later I dreamt of ruling the entire world, but that wasn't enough, I wanted all the planets and stars too, that was after watching star wars.

It's all in good fun. Nothing 2 be taken seriously.
 
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