She told me she's pregnant. I'm ignoring her.

[bizzym]

Okay then. This thread is now pointless.

You hv decided.

Yea, until OP comes back freaking out about child support. He’s an idiot to not make sure she goes through with the abortion smh.

 

[Spaz]

He has made a choice and he must be brave to live with the consequences.

It's time we all move on from hereon. No use lingering further.

 

[soulforge]

How? She just wanted sympathy and told me about the pregnancy/abortion to manipulate me to call her.

You sir are a douch!

All this could have been prevented, if you simply had a pair of balls, picked up the phone and said, hey lets talk about this!

You was happy enough dumping your load in her, without contraception, but when chit hits the fan, you behave like a fukin COWARD.

Manipulating you into taking her call? Lol if you wasn't such a spineless bich, she wouldn't need to take desperate measures in order to get to talk to you.

An abortion is probably the best option for her, otherwise she would be stuck with a weakling excuse of a man, like you for the rest of her life!

 

[Billtx49]

You sir are a douch!

All this could have been prevented, if you simply had a pair of balls, picked up the phone and said, hey lets talk about this!

You was happy enough dumping your load in her, without contraception, but when chit hits the fan, you behave like a fukin COWARD.

Manipulating you into taking her call? Lol if you wasn't such a spineless bich, she wouldn't need to take desperate measures in order to get to talk to you.

An abortion is probably the best option for her, otherwise she would be stuck with a weakling excuse of a man, like you for the rest of her life!

Agree completely. Don’t even know why he’s on a mens forum, unless he’s seeking validation for his poor behavior.
Let’s get his name right though, douche usually ends with an e unless it’s connected to the word bag which then becomes my preferred name for him…

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

So a few weeks ago she told me that she was worried that she was pregnant, but she didn't think so. I asked her why and she said her body has just been feeling off lately and she's been nauseous. Around that time she said that wasn't sure if she wanted to stay with me or not. I asked her what she wanted, she stalled, so I broke it off. She sent me a message explaining that she was just scared and tried to push me away. I told her I would decide on what I wanted to do about our relationship. I told her I would call the next day but didn't. Then a few days later I told her the same thing and didn't call. I guess she finally got fed up so I told her I would definitely let her know on Monday if I still wanted to be with her or not. Well I didn't call on Monday. Tuesday night I sent her text saying I was sorry for not having texted her that day and that I would call her tomorrow after work. I go check on Instagram and she unfollowed me smh.

I sent her a message saying to scratch what I had just said. She put the nail in the coffin and she's childish. I said some other stuff but told her that I swear on everything I wont respond to any texts or phone calls so don't even try and then wished her good luck in life.

10 minutes later I get a text from her saying she was sorry and she took my silence as being done so she unfollowed me. Then I get another text saying she's just been freaked out because she's been worried that she's preggo and believing it was over, having to see me constantly on social media would just hurt so unfollowing me was self preservation. She apologized again. Called a few times. Sent another text saying she was sorry and she wasn't trying to be childish and I didn't understand her thought process-"to think things are over, to think you're pregrnant, and having a constant reminder would just hurt. Since I didn't hear from you I took that as as I sign that I needed to move on." She said she had tried to hint as this to me weeks ago but because we weren't talking it didn't seem like an appropriate time to bring it up and it would've looked weird if she had. Then she said that her friend had been pushing her to get a test done and then sent me a screenshot of her friend asking the day before if she got the test. She said how she's been freaked out that she thought she would have to go through the abortion alone and unfollowing me would make it easier if she didn't see me since she thought it was over. She kept texting begging me to just talk to her and she called a few more times. Her last messaged said please call me back talking about prengancy over text isn't appropriate. I never picked up or responded to her.

The next day she sends me a picture of the postive pregnancy test. She's holding the positive test in front of her toothbrush holder in her bathroom. She sent a message saying she had wanted to talk about it on Monday when I was supposed to call and said again how she wasn't being childish, and this (the pregancy) is the reason why she was freaked out. I didn't respond to her message. She sent me a DM but I never opened it. That was two days ago.

I'm not wrong here right?

DNA proof or did not happen.

Google 'pregnancy test for sale.'

A lot of western women are disgusting. My boy went through this last summer. She was psycho and had a dyke haircut. Total slu and attention *****.

Don't **** psychos.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yea, until OP comes back freaking out about child support. He’s an idiot to not make sure she goes through with the abortion smh.

I smash but I pull out and I nut on a girls face.

The prevalence of accidentally on purpose pregnancies in Western society is beyond disgusting.

How about that ***** Kylie. No clue who the father is. Ferrari with a broken engine. So many attractive but valueless women.


Dudes need to wake up.

 

[bizzym]

DNA proof or did not happen.

Google 'pregnancy test for sale.'

A lot of western women are disgusting. My boy went through this last summer. She was psycho and had a dyke haircut. Total slu and attention *****.

Don't **** psychos.

She gave op a heads up weeks ago. Unfollowed OP him before the actual break up. OP said this all went down at night then she sent him the positive test the next day. It’s physically impossible to order a test at night and it be there the next day. Either way she said she didn’t want to keep it. I doubt she’s faking it since she told OP she didn’t want to keep it and she unfollowed him before all this went down indicating she wanted out.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

She gave op a heads up weeks ago. Unfollowed OP him before the actual break up. OP said this all went down at night then she sent him the positive test the next day. It’s physically impossible to order a test at night and it be there the next day. Either way she said she didn’t want to keep it. I doubt she’s faking it since she told OP she didn’t want to keep it and she unfollowed him before all this went down indicating she wanted out.

Dude, Rollo and the RMG series warned of fake tests. Furthermore, her being pregnant isn't dna proof it's mine.

Women in the West are disgusting. It sounds more like manipulation in either event.

My boy had a crazy do the same thing. Late twenties and he was mid twenties. She was in her epiphany phase noticing men losing attraction. Accidentally on purpose pregnant plus paid for abortion but there was never a receipt nor any proof it was done. Likely, not the first time she murdered her baby.

 

[bizzym]

Dude, Rollo and the RMG series warned of fake tests. Furthermore, her being pregnant isn't dna proof it's mine.

Women in the West are disgusting. It sounds more like manipulation in either event.

My boy had a crazy do the same thing. Late twenties and he was mid twenties. She was in her epiphany phase noticing men losing attraction. Accidentally on purpose pregnant plus paid for abortion but there was never a receipt nor any proof it was done. Likely, not the first time she murdered her baby.

No offense but you sound unstable.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

No offense but you sound unstable.

Your testosterone is really low.

You mad?

 

[soulforge]

No offense but you sound unstable.

I agree.. This is silly logic.. OP has been banging her without protection, strong possibility she IS pregnant.

Why is this so hard to believe.

 

[bizzym]

Your testosterone is really low.

You mad?

No lol.

 

[Ranger]

Such an odd thread. It’s kinda weird. It’s rather hard for me to think that way.
None of the OPs actions made sense. It’s kind of like how a little kid thinks that if he covers his eyes, you can’t see him just because he can’t see you.

 

[Ranger]

Telling someone who is neither interested in her nor having a kid with her, to offer unconditional support and encouragement to a woman who is supposedly considering her options is completely, absolutely mental.

Best thing you can do is state your position clearly, then keep well clear.

Inaction is a byproduct of fear. I don’t recommend anything. Had he tackled the issue right off the batt would have resolved it and eliminated any and all stress. He covered his eyes and pretended she didn’t see him.
Paternity tests are relatively cheap if she kept the child. Than it’s all on her if it’s not his.
If it’s his...well ooops.

I’m just not the a “well if I don’t look at it, it’s not there crowd.”
Nobody can force responsibility. It doesn’t work.

 

[bizzym]

Telling someone who is neither interested in her nor having a kid with her, to offer unconditional support and encouragement to a woman who is supposedly considering her options is completely, absolutely mental.

Best thing you can do is state your position, then keep well clear.

So OP got that pissed and send a whiny long emotional text because he isn’t interested in her? He definitely is. This is an ego and control issue for OP, not a lack of interest. If he wasn’t interested he would’ve been relived and kept going on with his life, but he didn’t. He was very emotional over an unfollow. He wants her he’s just playing chicken right now and as @Rangersaid he’s hoping the pregnancy will just go away.

 

[Ranger]

So OP got that pissed and send a whiny long emotional text because he isn’t interested in her? He definitely is. This is an ego and control issue for OP, not a lack of interest. If he wasn’t interested he would’ve been relived and kept going on with his life, but he didn’t. He was very emotional over an unfollow. He wants her he’s just playing chicken right now and as @Rangersaid he’s hoping the pregnancy will just go away.

It’s like he’s substituting a PUA communication methodology to a nonsequitar situation.

 

[Ranger]

Yet the saying is, "fools rush in".

In this case on a steed in shining white armour.



Okay...



Because that's generally what happens with women.

We sit down with them, have a logical chat, and everything gets sorted out in a jiffy. No stress or further issue at all. They certainly don't look to take a mile when you give an inch.

Nope. Best to be firmer than that imo. Keep your actions inline with your intentions.



You guys call that "no contact".



Okay....



You guys call that "no contact".



It quite clearly does work. A hell of a lot, in fact.

I’m not here to debate a rediculously unimportant self induced situation. Enforcing responsibility is half assed responsibility. A person willingly takes on a responsibility or hes worse than inept if it’s forced on him. Any manager knows this. You want a crappy job done? Force it onto someone who doesn’t want it.
You don’t like my position? I just don’t think I could bear it if you didn’t.

 

[Ranger]

Don't know why that is difficult to understand.

The law says it’s not up to him. It’s best to be smart and assume a reasonable position of influence and power. “To just ignore power does not excuse you from having it used against you.”
48 laws of power.
It’s not smart. Why is that so difficult to understand? It’s like “Here, go ahead and put my head in a guillotine. Here take all my money and stick my head on London Bridge.”

 

[Billtx49]

It's painfully simple.

If you don't want to be raising this kid, do not give her any hope or indication whatsoever that you do, or that you might reconsider doing so.

Don't know why that is difficult to understand.

What is easy to understand is regardless of how he acts, if she wants the kid he could get hit with 18 years of child support. I call that a serious potential problem worth dealing with as a man…

 

[fly5]

It’s like he’s substituting a PUA communication methodology to a nonsequitar situation.

I'm new to the forum and have been watching this thread for a while. I had to jump in.
I'm confused. Why are you saying OP is interested in her? He told her I guarantee that I won't answer your messages and calls then wished her well-that doesn't sound interested.