She told me she's pregnant. I'm ignoring her.

[vanballmoos]

Is she fat? I knew a guy who had a fat chick as his harem (it was a single-gal harem, LOL), and he would hit it from time to time. Supposedly she was on The Pill, but she still got pregnant. Now they're a family of 5, and wifey is spherical.

no. she has an amazing body.

 

[vanballmoos]

So update:

She sent me a long message to 3 different places. She said that wasn't sure if I had blocked her or not on my phone so she tried other places. Long story short she pretty much just explained herself again. How she wished she had spoken up sooner about wanting to take a test but she had been putting it off for so long because she was afraid and was just avoiding it by going out because she was worried about the results. She said that she knew I would be deciding what I wanted to do about the relationship so she knew she had to take the test to let me know when we talked and couldn't put off knowing if she was pregnant any longer. She just wanted to do the decent thing and let me know that she was pregnant. She apologized if her behavior came off as childish that was never her intent.

Said that she knows that there are things that I want to do and how I wanted to move to another city (we had talked about her moving with me) and things that I still wanted to do so she would never prevent me from doing that and how she has things that she would like to do as well so knows for certain an abortion is the right thing. She's planning to get it done this week and isn't asking for any financial help. She is disappointed that if I am ignoring her that I haven't provided any emotional support because it sucks how this all turned out. How she wishes we could still be together and how she hates how things turned into a mess and is ending this way. She closed out with saying she will let me know when the abortion is done.

 

[devilkingx2]

That poor woman...

 

[ohrein]

You should be wrapping it with any woman you don't want kids with, period. Don't do that again.

 

[sosousage]

shes killing the child! AWFUL

 

[Murk]

What an unfortunate thread

 

[old_skoolr]

That poor woman...

By what I've read, it seems she is the responsible one in this relationship.

 

[bizzym]

I was in your position with a woman pissing arround with a pregnancy, and was just lucky to have a wiser head in my dad, or i would have been all over the place.

Reading the comments, good grief.

Anyway my dad ended up on the same position, dumped her stupid arse, then had me like 4 years later. I couldn't have asked for a better father.

So when i got in a spot of the same bother myself, he had already dealt with it and kept my head on straight, with the realities of the situation.

None of this "man up, be a fbcking slave" gimp sh1t i'm sadly reading in this thread now.

But then subsequently some probably came from broken homes to go on encoraging broken homes in an undesirable mess.

She should get the abortion. She should sort her bloody act out regarding contraception. You shouldn't trust her again. End of.

Worst advice ever. What you’re suggesting it what little boys do, not a man. We told OP to man up because men don’t avoid situations. They step up and handle it one way or the other. I hope no one ever listens to your advice.

 

[vanballmoos]

By what I've read, it seems she is the responsible one in this relationship.

She’s not. She’s just trying to trap me to get me to talk to her.

 

[soulforge]

First off all.. OP is a fukin douch bag!

You have been emptying your load in her Vag and now your surprised at the possibility of her getting pregnant.. You do realise how pregnancy works right?

OP ignores her plea to talk and discuss this SERIOUS matter, hides and runs away from dealing with things like a man, then gets BUTT HURT when she unfriended him and decided to move on.

Is he for real?

She could be lying or she could be telling the truth.

Op needs to talk to her, in order to find out what the situation is.. My guess is, more than likely she is pregnant.

Just because she put some heels on and went for a night out, does not disprove her claim that she is pregnant.

Did OP state, that her getting pregnant was inconvenient for him? Well he should have thought of that, when he was dropping jizz bombs inside her unprotected.

Douch bag!

 

[sosousage]

First off all.. OP is a fukin douch bag!

You have been emptying your load in her Vag and now your surprised at the possibility of her getting pregnant.. You do realise how pregnancy works right?

OP ignores her plea to talk and discuss this SERIOUS matter, hides and runs away from dealing with things like a man, then gets BUTT HURT when she unfriended him and decided to move on.

Is he for real?

She could be lying or she could be telling the truth.

Op needs to talk to her, in order to find out what the situation is.. My guess is, more than likely she is pregnant.

Just because she put some heels on and went for a night out, does not disprove her claim that she is pregnant.

Did OP state, that her getting pregnant was inconvenient for him? Well he should have thought of that, when he was dropping jizz bombs inside her unprotected.

Douch bag!

but child would be unhappy in such family anywayz

 

[soulforge]

but child would be unhappy in such family anywayz

Yeh it would.. both irresponsible parents

 

[17 shots]

Im so sorry this had to happen to you OP...RIP

 

[Spaz]

Im so sorry this had to happen to you OP...RIP

LOL

 

[Spaz]

Well OP, what action hv you taken so far 2 ascertain whether she's pregnant or not ? You'll need 2 be proactive here.

I'm more interested 2 hear that and we can move on towards what should be done.

 

[vanballmoos]

Well OP, what action hv you taken so far 2 ascertain whether she's pregnant or not ? You'll need 2 be proactive here.

I'm more interested 2 hear that and we can move on towards what should be done.

She sent me a long message to 3 different places. She said that wasn't sure if I had blocked her or not on my phone so she tried other places. Long story short she pretty much just explained herself again. How she wished she had spoken up sooner about wanting to take a test but she had been putting it off for so long because she was afraid and was just avoiding it by going out because she was worried about the results. She said that she knew I would be deciding what I wanted to do about the relationship so she knew she had to take the test to let me know when we talked and couldn't put off knowing if she was pregnant any longer. She just wanted to do the decent thing and let me know that she was pregnant. She apologized if her behavior came off as childish that was never her intent.

Said that she knows that there are things that I want to do and how I wanted to move to another city (we had talked about her moving with me) and things that I still wanted to do so she would never prevent me from doing that and how she has things that she would like to do as well so knows for certain an abortion is the right thing. She's planning to get it done this week and isn't asking for any financial help. She is disappointed that if I am ignoring her that I haven't provided any emotional support because it sucks how this all turned out. How she wishes we could still be together and how she hates how things turned into a mess and is ending this way. She closed out with saying she will let me know when the abortion is done.

 

[vanballmoos]

By what I've read, it seems she is the responsible one in this relationship.

How? She just wanted sympathy and told me about the pregnancy/abortion to manipulate me to call her.

 

[Spaz]

She sent me a long message to 3 different places. She said that wasn't sure if I had blocked her or not on my phone so she tried other places. Long story short she pretty much just explained herself again. How she wished she had spoken up sooner about wanting to take a test but she had been putting it off for so long because she was afraid and was just avoiding it by going out because she was worried about the results. She said that she knew I would be deciding what I wanted to do about the relationship so she knew she had to take the test to let me know when we talked and couldn't put off knowing if she was pregnant any longer. She just wanted to do the decent thing and let me know that she was pregnant. She apologized if her behavior came off as childish that was never her intent.

Said that she knows that there are things that I want to do and how I wanted to move to another city (we had talked about her moving with me) and things that I still wanted to do so she would never prevent me from doing that and how she has things that she would like to do as well so knows for certain an abortion is the right thing. She's planning to get it done this week and isn't asking for any financial help. She is disappointed that if I am ignoring her that I haven't provided any emotional support because it sucks how this all turned out. How she wishes we could still be together and how she hates how things turned into a mess and is ending this way. She closed out with saying she will let me know when the abortion is done.

That's her talking. It can be a total bullshiet or the truth. That doesn't matter.

I'm asking what you did to ascertain whether she is indeed pregnant or not.

Only then can we advise you on the next step you should take.

 

[vanballmoos]

That's her talking. It can be a total bullshiet or the truth. That doesn't matter.

I'm asking what you did to ascertain whether she is indeed pregnant or not.

Only then can we advise you on the next step you should take.

Nothing. I figure it’s a win win if I ignore her. If she’s lying she’ll just go away. If she’s telling the truth she’ll get an abortion.

 

[Spaz]

Nothing. I figure it’s a win win if I ignore her. If she’s lying she’ll just go away. If she’s telling the truth she’ll get an abortion.

Okay then. This thread is now pointless.

You hv decided.