She told me she's pregnant. I'm ignoring her.

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For fvck sake bring her for a check up.

If it's true then you both decide.

If it's not true then dump her for being manipulative.

Either way take affirmative action. That's what a man does.

Be that man.
 

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As far as I know, they wont do a paternity test until the kid is born.

One of our female sosuavers, who doesn't post much any more, got pregnant multiple times while on the pill. It happens.
 

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For fvck sake bring her for a check up.

If it's true then you both decide.

If it's not true then dump her for being manipulative.

Either way take affirmative action. That's what a man does.

Be that man.
But she told this a-hole weeks ago that she thought she was. This shouldn't be a surprise to OP at all. It doesn't sound like she's faking it all to me. Usually women who fake it spring it on you-not tell you beforehand that they're worried.
 

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Doesn't matter. He needs to take action fast.

Verify 1st. Only then decide what you should do.

He needs to understand that this is for his own wellbeing and no one else.
 

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Doesn't matter. He needs to take action fast.

Verify 1st. Only then decide what you should do.

He needs to understand that this is for his own wellbeing and no one else.
I guess I don't understand how a man can admittedly say that he ejaculated in her every time and then question if she's genuinely pregnant. That blows my mind. He made his bed so he should lay in it.
 

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Im with the other posters. Take action now and formulate a game plan. Ignoring her does absolutely nothing.
 

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Im with the other posters. Take action now and formulate a game plan. Ignoring her does absolutely nothing.
So you're telling me that even though you know someone is lying about being pregnant you would still communicate with them?
She went out the night before in heels and a skirt. Who goes out if they're supposedly scared and freaked out because they're pregnant?
 

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Dude, there’s game and then there is just being a straight up c@nt... you are being C@nty McC&nterson from C@ntsville...

Literally, own up to your sh@t...
 

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I just read your post again.

She said she wanted to terminate the pregnancy. Why would you think she's lying?? She's not trying to keep it so she can't be lying to you. Wtf is wrong with you? This makes it worse.
 

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Haha.

OP is either too stupid or just trolling us all.
 

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I think OP is freaking out like anyone would. He's currently in the denial stage of grief that he may have ruined his life
 

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I think OP is freaking out like anyone would. He's currently in the denial stage of grief that he may have ruined his life
Again, you wouldn't think the girl was playing games if she's supposedly freaked out but she went out the night before?
 

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Again, you wouldn't think the girl was playing games if she's supposedly freaked out but she went out the night before?
Do you think that becoming pregnant would instantly make her intelligent and responsible?
 

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Determine the problem - professional pregnancy test.
Resolve the problem - your choice

It’s your life. Deal with it, or she will.…
 
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funny how the guy swifts blame on her BECAUSE she UNFOLLOWED HIm on instagram meaning = shes childish so i dont have to pay for child and its totally alright to ignore her and dissapear, LUL.

its funny how your thought process work. theres chance kids not your but you never know, anyway it sounds like two fit each other
 

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Do you think that becoming pregnant would instantly make her intelligent and responsible?
It’s not even that. Going out could simply mean she’s trying to get her mind off of things. People do it all the time.
 

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Determine the problem - professional pregnancy test.
Resolve the problem - your choice

It’s your life. Deal with it, or she will.…
But the girl already said she didn't want the baby.

thought she would have to go through the abortion alone
So what else could she want from OP except for his emotional support? OP is the worst.
 

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I feel sorry for the kid. Who wants a father like that ?

Be a decent father for this kid, OP.
Be a man.
 

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Is she fat? I knew a guy who had a fat chick as his harem (it was a single-gal harem, LOL), and he would hit it from time to time. Supposedly she was on The Pill, but she still got pregnant. Now they're a family of 5, and wifey is spherical.
 

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Is she fat? I knew a guy who had a fat chick as his harem (it was a single-gal harem, LOL), and he would hit it from time to time. Supposedly she was on The Pill, but she still got pregnant. Now they're a family of 5, and wifey is spherical.
yea I think if you're upwards of 200 lbs BC isn't as effective
 
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