Breaks up her little game when guys A and B know about each other. She loses at least one and maybe two.My exact thoughts. So showing up unannounced does what to the dynamic that she is trying to hold together?
Breaks up her little game when guys A and B know about each other. She loses at least one and maybe two.My exact thoughts. So showing up unannounced does what to the dynamic that she is trying to hold together?
Got to be careful with that sometimes a really evil Siren will "pit" two men against each other in a death match...gives her a power trip..I have seen it.Breaks up her little game when guys A and B know about each other. She loses at least one and maybe two.
Yep, if both men don’t recognize trash when they see it that could happen.Got to be careful with that sometimes a really evil Siren will "pit" two men against each other in a death match...gives her a power trip..I have seen it.
Oh hell yes. Seen it myself. Likes to watch the spectacle. The two are completely oblivious that they are manipulated. Figured that one out some time ago.Got to be careful with that sometimes a really evil Siren will "pit" two men against each other in a death match...gives her a power trip..I have seen it.
I was reading a story this morning of another BPD victim..Verne Troyer better known as "minnie me" from the Austin Powers movies (drank himself to death) I saw a pic of his "girlfriend" she screams BPD...I want to see a study done on how many men die each year from Siren encounters I bet it would be in the 10's of thousands.Suicides,murders,drug overdoses (there is no telling)Oh hell yes. Seen it myself. Likes to watch the spectacle. The two are completely oblivious that they are manipulated. Figured that one out some time ago.
Sometimes it’s the cheating wife or girlfriend coming clean and then acting like she was the victim and the damsel. Sucks the white Knight right up to the surface and it’s off and running.
LOL. This had me laughing.Yep, when they triangulate on you they usually allow for a day in between bangs. She was busy on tues., you can come thurs…
If you show up unannounced, you may run into other traffic.
I have already attributed a lot of suicides and domestic violence incidents to this.I was reading a story this morning of another BPD victim..Verne Troyer better known as "minnie me" from the Austin Powers movies (drank himself to death) I saw a pic of his "girlfriend" she screams BPD...I want to see a study done on how many men die each year from Siren encounters I bet it would be in the 10's of thousands.Suicides,murders,drug overdoses (there is no telling)
This subject has always fascinated me...I know a private Psychiatrist and I was talking to him about this subject and he told me that male Psychiatrists have been "sucked in " by just talking to female BPD losing their license committing suicide the whole 9 yards...some psychiatrists will refer them to a female doctor and won't touch them with a 10 foot pole...now that is powerful.I have already attributed a lot of suicides and domestic violence incidents to this.
Also why men die earlier than their wives. They really are destroyed. I don’t think it’s because they work too hard. A man was built to work and happier when he does accomplish those things.
I hadn’t thought of the drug scenario as of yet. But now I’m pretty certain you are correct. Heavy alchoholics just flat give up. Destroyed inside and always wrecking his life.
Damn that is powerful. A passive/female frame can get you dead.This subject has always fascinated me...I know a private Psychiatrist and I was talking to him about this subject and he told me that male Psychiatrists have been "sucked in " by just talking to female BPD losing their license committing suicide the whole 9 yards...some psychiatrists will refer them to a female doctor and won't touch them with a 10 foot pole...now that is powerful.
A big part of the problem professionals have is not much that comes out of her mouth is actually real. The disorder that effects her personality is so pervasive you eventually don’t know what to believe.Damn that is powerful. A passive/female frame can get you dead.
You’re right. That is fascinating.
Crap!!!!!A big part of the problem professionals have is not much that comes out of her mouth is actually real. The disorder that effects her personality is so pervasive you eventually don’t know what to believe.
Yeah. I’m good with it now. It’s all crystal clear now. When I looked at it the first time it was not working for me. There was no out. It was a circular argument with no escape. No chance of empowering a man to take charge.Looks like this thread will inspire other men thats been pulled into the crazies vortex to take corrective action before they fall in too deep and turn suicidal.
Thumbs up towards everyone here contributing.
This is definitely and clearly observable. I do know, from experience, that an argument with a woman is utterly wasted time and it’s used it set precedents in her favor and then enforced them as she sees fit.Yes, and it's done slowly over time.
You'll notice that you can have a fight that mirrors a fight in every way from prior in the relationship but the management and the outcome of the fight are opposites. You'll reference the old outcomes as if it is legal precedent, works initially but eventually won't make a dent.
The absolute most most conciliatory, measured women during the honeymoon will change until unrecognizeable.
By the end when interest level is lower you're dealing with someone that will not give you an inch even when you're objectively obviously correct. In your mind, she's the same person that always saw things your way in the beginning or at least was always able to compromise.
Yeah the whole cluster b thing is a nightmare waiting to happen for a normal brained individual who is unaware of what it is they are dealing with.This is definitely and clearly observable. I do know, from experience, that an argument with a woman is utterly wasted time and it’s used it set precedents in her favor and then enforced them as she sees fit.
Then inject confusion and uncertainty.
It is a game. She knows how to get you to react. If you win an argument it was to her favor and her next tool to crush you.
As long as you think she’s valuable. You can’t win. And even if you did? You haven’t won anything.
When you feel that trigger flip, she’s already communicated. If you can see and feel that, you can control the outcome. It’s not to win. You can’t think that way. You hold your place in space.I just have a small tip and it’s possible that I am completely wrong.
Let’s say you are talking to a woman. Any woman. All of a sudden, after she said something or somehow changes her body language. That right there IS the communication. Her words are a manipulative smoke screen. To even participate is to empower it. That initial trigger IS the communication.