I see someone who's converted to my line of thinking from the Cosby thread.
I made a good case point didn't I ?
lol, this is how I've always felt, you had nothing to do with it.
I wish I had good solutions for this. I have one friend who was repeatedly raped by her brother and another friend who was repeatedly raped by her father and another friend who's boyfriend took her into the woods while she was fall down drunk and raped her (they had never had sex before, she was a virgin). My ex's family members have all been sexually assaulted. ex MIL by her step dad, ex SIL by the same step dad, Ex by scoutmaster, Ex BIL by their neighbor. I have other friends whom have felt as if they were taken advantage of as well.
The only one who told was the girl who was getting raped by her father and my EX MIL. Both were slut shamed and told it was their fault (they were both about 14 when it started). The rest didnt tell because of the shame, doubt and the possibility of a he said she said. Probably other reasons as well.
A friend of mine was raped by someone who broke into her house in the middle of the night. He almost killed her via strangulation so she wouldn't fight back.
Then his defense was "it was consensual rough sex". He was a sex offender out on parole so that didn't fly.
I've never had a friend tell me they were going to levy false charges against a man, and I've never encountered that situation n my circle of friends, but I have a LOT of friend who were legitimately assaulted.