I met someone through friends last night

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You're smarter than most people.
guess what? me dating the average 7-8/10 my age IS me dating down


how many of them make 200K a year and have a paid for house? 90% of women in their mid 20s can barely pay their bills. It's bad enough that I'm willing to dip way way below my league when it comes to finances/success/being established in life, you guys want me to dip way below my league in looks and age also. No thanks
 

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You sir are a pompous little turd. Some of the women you demean have more class in their minimal wage jobs than you ever will have no matter the balance in your accounts.
 

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You sir are a pompous little turd. Some of the women you demean have more class in there minimal wage jobs than you ever will have no matter the balance in your accounts.
that's honest reality of the situation

I really don't care how much income my wife makes. The Armenian woman in NY I want to meet is in country with a tourist visa. She doesn't have 2 pennies to her name - I would totally marry her and give her the world

but you guys make it seem like I'm asking for the world when all I want is a decent looking woman my age with a nice body and similar ethnicity/personality/character traits/etc... to myself. I mean jesus christ, did we forget what society we live in? A good looking high resource male is supposed to be the absolute king of the world.
 

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GREAT person but too chunky to date. I don't think face would be cute enough even if she lost the weight but anyways we were all having a long in depth conversation. She was instantly all over me. We had a conversation about online dating and I said that I can't do it because I look terrible in pictures (which I do) and she goes "I strongly doubt it. You're extremely good looking".


Anyways, it shocked me how obvious it was that she badly wanted to meet someone. I dunno if it was desperation but I could tell she wanted to meet someone. Is that only because she's not very attractive? I always assumed most women have no interest in meeting anybody because they already have 2503580258205 guys hitting on them everywhere they go. Is that the case with anybody good looking but the average or chubby chicks can be just as desperate as men to meet someone?
hahaha i thought dave is leaving SS because the thread title sounds "OHH IVE FINALLY MEET SOMEONE THROUGH FRIENDS"

long story short your friends dont respect you and think they can put you with desperated fattie, they think you, big dave with money and muscles is on same social hierarchical level as some fattie

LOL !
 

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Not if he is a delusional lunatic with a wack combination of narcissism and crippling approach anxiety.
nothing wrong when someone doesnt want to have anything in common with fat girls

its like "FFS lets end the meeting now each minute im losing my social status points"
 

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You are amazing. Complain about no sex for 18 months, meet someone and reject her as not up to your delusional standards. Wow.
the moment he would accept that fat hoe he would lose respect from all of his friends. Men going out with fat chicks are desperate. why would you settle for less when you can settle for more? you wouldnt unless the fat girl is all you can get, then you would do it out of no option, and it would be clear signal to your parents, your friends and anyone on the planet that you are desperate and loser

(and i dont really have anything against fat people at all lol but thats the sad reality when it comes to man-woman relations when woman is fat)
 

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but you guys make it seem like I'm asking for the world when all I want is a decent looking woman my age with a nice body and similar ethnicity/personality/character traits/etc... to myself.
Have you ever actually met such a woman?

Are you searching for an abstract concept which does not exist in the real world, or are you searching for an actual physical woman you can give examples of in the real world? (No, not celebrities or models you've never met)

I would really love a hot single girl who's really into video games and I've met lots of people with 0-3 of those four traits (hot, single, girl, gamer), but never anyone with all 4, so I'm definitely not about to devote my life to finding something I've never seen
 

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Have you ever actually met such a woman?

Are you searching for an abstract concept which does not exist in the real world, or are you searching for an actual physical woman you can give examples of in the real world? (No, not celebrities or models you've never met)

I would really love a hot single girl who's really into video games and I've met lots of people with 0-3 of those four traits (hot, single, girl, gamer), but never anyone with all 4, so I'm definitely not about to devote my life to finding something I've never seen
girls succ at video games, they only play zuma,cards, some mini facebook games and candy clash saga and other not-very-demanding-titles.

some sources say same % of women and men play games but whenever i launch any online game 99% are males how come?

either sources lie or females just play candy clash saga on facebook and thats it.

when I played moba whenever i got a girl in team (rarely) she was on most irrelevant useless support role and did nothing entire game. funny how quickly they are to call you sexist or discrimating or something when you dont want to play with a female in your team (especially close to your character) when 99% of them pick supports AND is useless lol
 

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guess what? me dating the average 7-8/10 my age IS me dating down


how many of them make 200K a year and have a paid for house? 90% of women in their mid 20s can barely pay their bills. It's bad enough that I'm willing to dip way way below my league when it comes to finances/success/being established in life, you guys want me to dip way below my league in looks and age also. No thanks
Women don't care about that sh1t as much as you'd like to think. Being insecure is a huge turn off and will trump a lot of positives. Women will date broke. A$$ dudes and even prop them up for a while if she finds him attractive enough.

When I first came to Florida 3 years ago I had a 45 year old and 19 years old picking me up for dates and I was living in a halfway house. I even. Eventually told then both the i had been homeless a couple of months prior to that and they did not care after spending time with me.

You're approaching this whole thing wrong and setting yourself up for disappointment because even when you finally find one that fits your specific criteria, she might not end up being your type personality wise and or she might fvck you over. Women at good at acting and you have a lot of money. Your a target for a gold digger.
 
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Nope. They're a dime a dozen, Dave.

Every attractive woman that I personally interact with knows quite a few good looking guys with pretty impressive careers/resumes. Doctors, lawyers, Wall Street types, guys who work for NASA.... even guys who work security detail for US Presidents, I sh*t you not. A lot of these guys make 2 or 3 times what you and I make. Some even far more than that.

You might think you're the cream of the crop when you look around the barroom, Dave, but I assure you that any woman that would have you drooling already knows several good looking, successful men who are not in that same barroom at that moment. The worlds of these women extend far beyond that room and the gym. They are not limited to who is in front of them. They are not limited to you, even if you are king-sh*t in Bob's Bar & Grill.

Not one of these women, not one, will pave the way to make it easy for a slightly above average looking car salesman who doesn't have the balls to approach them "because of a billion obstacles in the way".

Do you know why?

Because there is nothing special about your salary.
There is nothing special about your looks or your physique.
There is nothing special about your friendly personality.
There is nothing special about your car.
There is nothing special about your olive skin or testosterone.

Every quality that you crow on and on about in virtually every thread you make here is not nearly as unique as you think. You seem to see yourself as a King on a playing field in which you realistically measure up as mediocre to the type of men these women have access to. You seem to think that, somehow, women should be impressed. That they should jump on the opportunity to be with you because you are so unique and special.

But you aren't.

Women have emotional and physical needs that any man's "demographics" alone will fail to deliver on, Dave. And I will not waste any more of my time explaining them to you.
@bigdave17 I recommend you read the above ten times every day until it sinks in. You (and most everybody) are SIGNIFICANTLY overestimating your value. Consider the answer to all dating ills to be to STEP UP YOUR GAME. Now and forever. Amen.
 

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The point of this forum is to discuss game, getting women, keeping the ones you want, getting rid of the ones you don’t, making and following your purpose in life, and not being thrown off Center. If I want a f*cking ugly woman, and my friends have a problem with it, they can f*ck right off. Because I’m going to be with whoever the f*ck I want and am not a validation seeking little b*tch . I don’t date fatties though because they don’t turn me on which is a dealbreaker for me. If you learn game, develop confidence, have a purpose, are decent looking, then you can get the girl you want. Simple as that. Once you start to learn what works (which is typically counter intuitive) you’ll be shocked. But in my opinion the reason you struggle is because you’re more than likely insecure, needy, and display weakness aka beta. You’re trying to extract value from the woman rather than bringing the value.
 

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The point of this forum is to discuss game, getting women, keeping the ones you want, getting rid of the ones you don’t, making and following your purpose in life, and not being thrown off Center. If I want a f*cking ugly woman, and my friends have a problem with it, they can f*ck right off. Because I’m going to be with whoever the f*ck I want and am not a validation seeking little b*tch . I don’t date fatties though because they don’t turn me on which is a dealbreaker for me. If you learn game, develop confidence, have a purpose, are decent looking, then you can get the girl you want. Simple as that. Once you start to learn what works (which is typically counter intuitive) you’ll be shocked. But in my opinion the reason you struggle is because you’re more than likely insecure, needy, and display weakness aka beta. You’re trying to extract value from the woman rather than bringing the value.

I want someone who looks like this





so if I learn "game", I can make her choose me instead of the movie stars and professional athletes asking her out? :D:D:D
 

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let’s just assume she’s a regular chick that isn’t being asked out by movie stars and pro athletes, but is hot as f*ck. So she’s going to have lots of options. Because a lot of guys chase girls like that. How you get a woman like that is being different than other men. There are ugly guys that date hot women. So there’s no reason a decent looking guy can’t. Telling a beautiful woman that she’s beautiful will never work, because they hear it all the time. As a matter of fact, I don’t even bother complementing them . I used to text a lot but have discovered that dries the p*ssy right up. Text to show you’re capable of having a conversation then use it for logistics only. I went on a date with HB7.5 last Friday. Set another day with her When I talked to her on Sunday. Told her I was going to bed have a good night, and didn’t text her after. Three days passed and I could feel the need growing in me like “what if she forgets about me”. I thought I needed to text her and started to plan on it. But she ended up texting me first. I met up with her today and she told me that she liked how I didn’t text her all the time and started making fun of all the dumb sh*t guys say to her in texts. I thought it was pretty cool. Then we made out. She’s coming over to my house in a few days and we’re going to drink and *watch movies*. I’ve been studying women psychology in dating hard and it’s really starting to pay off.
 
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