hot girl at gym with headphones on who clearly doesn't want to get bothered - how do you make a natural/comfortable approach?
hot girl at bar with 10 friends there - how do you make a natural/comfortable approach that's not excruciatingly awkward?
I've been in both situations.
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"Hot girl at the gym with headphones who clearly doesn't want to get bothered"... I have to stop you right there, Those are assumptions in your own mind, Women in the gym usually have a b*tch face on yes but from experience, that doesn't mean that they wouldn't be open to meeting someone.
In this case, You have to approach her when she is on her way out or on her way to the locker room and introduce yourself. "Excuse me, I didnt want to bother you during your workout but I thought you were beautiful, what's your name?" I'm willing to bet she will smile and open up to engage in a small conversation to which you keep it going to get the phone number and land her on a date. If she says "Ohh, haha, thank you! I'm sorry though I have a boyfriend" You simply cut it and say "Oh alright, It was nice meeting you though" and keep it moving.
The gym scene can be tricky only because if you end up fvcking with a chick there and things go south, You'll have to deal with the awkwardness going forward. It's happened to me and to others I know. It's on you if you want to proceed with that.
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"Hot girl at bar with 10 friends there - how do you make a natural/comfortable approach that's not excruciatingly awkward?" Awkward is in your mind. I have approached groups of 3 - 5 - 8 - 10 - 16 Women and I tapped the one I liked on the shoulder and introduced myself and I was clear about why I went over there to introduce myself. A Man with solid backbone won't care if there's 100 Women in a group, He's going in! You have to go with the mindset of, "Yes ladies, I have the big c0ck you ALL crave" Show some damn confidence in yourself. I have a great physique and Women grope me in bars and lounges, if you have the body you say you do, You should be cleaning up. Women are just as horny if not HORNIER than us Men and they want to meet a dominant Man with backbone. I can guarantee that if you went into that group, They would all be shocked because hardly any Man has the sack to approach like that.
Stop complaining and take action. I have a small business in motivational wall art and one of my favorite designs says "Are you REALLY going to take action? or are you just talking sh*t!?" - it was made for guys like you. Stop talking and make it happen before time flies by and you are looking back regretting that you never made a move.