article: Why So Many Women Cheat on Their Husbands

[mrgoodstuff]

That’s why I’m firm in my belief that the behavior we’re seeing from women is nothing short of “drunk on power”. I really think we’re seeing the ugliest side of women because our society enables this type of behavior not because woman are inherently this machiavellian. do You agree with this @mrgoodstuff ?

Oh yeah! And seconded on the DRUNK part.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah, nothing helps for me.

One thing is though, we spend too much time thinking about women in general. A lot of AFCs aren't really THAT frustrated. They're content with their lot more than we are. Essentially, actual MGTOWs minus the whining. These types might actually get rewarded with some stability eventually.

Second thing, I guarantee we are not willing to go years sexless/companionless to hold out for unicorns.

Finally, do not have the time, skill, and desire to have a huge harem of quality.

Is there really this huge lump of "quality" out there that wont cut your nuts off?

 

[btownbuck2012]

Yeah, nothing helps for me.

One thing is though, we spend too much time thinking about women in general. A lot of AFCs aren't really THAT frustrated. They're content with their lot more than we are. Essentially, actual MGTOWs minus the whining. These types might actually get rewarded with some stability eventually.

Second thing, I guarantee we are not willing to go years sexless/companionless to hold out for unicorns.

Finally, do not have the time, skill, and desire to have a huge harem of quality.

I think the reason I drive myself crazy with this stuff is that I know I have the potential. I’ve pulled some very quality women, looks wise only, and I know if I put more time in approaching I could get really good at it but I’m completely worn out with the dancing through hoops to get laid. If I had the money I would just bang top notch escorts. I also have this need for companionship itch that I can’t seem to scratch.

 

[Ranger]

See to me this is different than Hypergamy. That is outright evil behavior. My one beef with the manosphere is this idea of women being held completely unaccountable for cheating. “Well if she cheated you weren’t good enough or her Hypergamy got triggered.” Or some similar line of bs. If we’re talking about marriage then there is a certain about of maturity that should be expected with an individual who decides to take those vows with another person. I mean yeah I’d love to f*ck the next random hottie who gives me eyes from across the room but if I’m married I’m going to think “wait a minute. I’m married. That is simply off limits” and move on from the thought. Are women incapable of that level of morality? I mean what the hell is going on here?

I understand. It is their hypergamous duality. Their minds are wired to justify it and protect it. Completely different wiring.
What is your definition of Hypergamy? If it isn’t Hypergamy then there was never any question of a man’s child through the ages until recently.
Hypergamy is actually a full concept of reproduction. It took me a while to fully get it. That concept of reproduction was and is a highly successful breeding strategy.

What is evil, is a question that is hard to answer as it has to be compared to a moral code.

Without controls on Hypergamy civilization could not be created or persist as we know it now. Men will not work unless they have a reason to work.
Family and structure is a very good reason to work.
Early civilization as we know it, take Greece. Aristotle and Socrates both spoke of the duality of women. Women as a whole. Not some women or a few women. The Bible, if you follow the Judeo Christian ideals, is chocked full of it.
The evidence has always been around. Always.

Once controls were put on it, civilization could be created.

I know that this won’t change your viewpoint. I won’t even try. Hypergamy is just a word to describe the prehistoric or pre-civilization breeding strategy. All kinds of animals still battle for breeding rights. Lions will kill all the cubs of the male that just got defeated in battle with the new master male. The pride starts all over.

All animals breed in some form. How are the best genes transferred down? How does the female know? Behaviors. Strength and vitality.
It is actually a very brilliant and effective strategy.

Now throw in civilization. Women’s Hypergamy had controls on it until the 1960s. At least social stigma for being a tramp. A man won’t marry her. She moves to a new town.

What is evil? If Hypergamy was/is evil, how are we still here? Every person in your genetic line lived long enough to procreate. You’re here.
This in itself is an oversimplification. Until a man truest understand all the neuances of Hypergamy he is still clouded in mystery. One of the women I am seeing now doesn’t drink coffee or drugs and doesn’t use swear words. I won’t mention her religion. She is a very devout Christian but yet she crawls into my bed. She has a husband. She has him domesticated and she is unsatisfied. This is Hypergamy.
I would always hold a woman accountable to cheating or her number of sex partners. She is always accountable for that. Dismiss them. Throw them to the curb. It won’t damage her or hurt her in any way. She will have another in no time. That’s what she does to survive.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah but in our society women are "running down" men as a whole. No matter who you are. This is the mass impetus in play at the time.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Haha, best I ever did was I had 3 women I had crushes on at once. Turned out one was incompatible and one a skank. Now I have too much oneitis for the remaining one and trash options, which is usually how it goes.

Did they have crushes on you? Thats whats important.

 

[btownbuck2012]

I understand. It is their hypergamous duality. Their minds are wired to justify it and protect it. Completely different wiring.
What is your definition of Hypergamy? If it isn’t Hypergamy then there was never any question of a man’s child through the ages until recently.
Hypergamy is actually a full concept of reproduction. It took me a while to fully get it. That concept of reproduction was and is a highly successful breeding strategy.

What is evil, is a question that is hard to answer as it has to be compared to a moral code.

Without controls on Hypergamy civilization could not be created or persist as we know it now. Men will not work unless they have a reason to work.
Family and structure is a very good reason to work.
Early civilization as we know it, take Greece. Aristotle and Socrates both spoke of the duality of women. Women as a whole. Not some women or a few women. The Bible, if you follow the Judeo Christian ideals, is chocked full of it.
The evidence has always been around. Always.

Once controls were put on it, civilization could be created.

I know that this won’t change your viewpoint. I won’t even try. Hypergamy is just a word to describe the prehistoric or pre-civilization breeding strategy. All kinds of animals still battle for breeding rights. Lions will kill all the cubs of the male that just got defeated in battle with the new master male. The pride starts all over.

All animals breed in some form. How are the best genes transferred down? How does the female know? Behaviors. Strength and vitality.
It is actually a very brilliant and effective strategy.

Now throw in civilization. Women’s Hypergamy had controls on it until the 1960s. At least social stigma for being a tramp. A man won’t marry her. She moves to a new town.

What is evil? If Hypergamy was/is evil, how are we still here? Every person in your genetic line lived long enough to procreate. You’re here.
This in itself is an oversimplification. Until a man truest understand all the neuances of Hypergamy he is still clouded in mystery. One of the women I am seeing now doesn’t drink coffee or drugs and doesn’t use swear words. I won’t mention her religion. She is a very devout Christian but yet she crawls into my bed. She has a husband. She has him domesticated and she is unsatisfied. This is Hypergamy.
I would always hold a woman accountable to cheating or her number of sex partners. She is always accountable for that. Dismiss them. Throw them to the curb. It won’t damage her or hurt her in any way. She will have another in no time. That’s what she does to survive.

Yeah man I hear you and good point. This anger I have towards this “evil” I’m talking about is at the end of the day me trying to reprogram my mind. What I’m really angry at is being sold a bill of goods that women are different than what they actually are. That’s the biggest mindf*ck of them all.

 

[Ranger]

Want to know something crazy?
I’ve seen it with my own eyes. A woman is having an affair.
Her girlfriends, mother, daughters. All of them will cover for her with outright lies.
Women are a communal species. They will not expose or give up Hypergamy. Just in case they want or need to exercise it in the future.

 

[meldiamond]

Honest question: why do you keep posting here when you have zero success with women? Someone like yourself who has no relationships whatsoever with women, no platonic contact even, is going to become incredibly bitter and hateful and a toxic presence.

https://www.thecut.com/2017/09/why-women-cheat-esther-perel-state-of-affairs.html

 

[Ranger]

Yeah man I hear you and good point. This anger I have towards this “evil” I’m talking about is at the end of the day me trying to reprogram my mind. What I’m really angry at is being sold a bill of goods that women are different than what they actually are. That’s the biggest mindf*ck of them all.

Yep. I raged. It is necessary. The biggest lie I was ever told. I was almost in tears at one point because it seemed almost futile.

 

[meldiamond]

Want to know something crazy?
I’ve seen it with my own eyes. A woman is having an affair.
Her girlfriends, mother, daughters. All of them will cover for her with outright lies.
Women are a communal species. They will not expose or give up Hypergamy. Just in case they want or need to exercise it in the future.

You have to call them out. I did so unintentionally this weekend. I had talked to some married woman a few weeks earlier. She was not attractive, just idle chit chat to pass the time. She told me she had moved into town and bought a new house with her "friend."

So she shows up to a party this weekend. She is introducing everyone else to her husband. I say hi to her from across the room. She is totally frightened, like she saw a ghost. So, she had been telling me about her "friend," but to everyone else he is a "husband." 100% liar. It's just routine behavior.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You have to call them out. I did so unintentionally this weekend. I had talked to some married woman a few weeks earlier. She was not attractive, just idle chit chat to pass the time. She told me she had moved into town and bought a new house with her "friend."

So she shows up to a party this weekend. She is introducing everyone else to her husband. I say hi to her from across the room. She is totally frightened, like she saw a ghost. So, she had been telling me about her "friend," but to everyone else he is a "husband." 100% liar. It's just routine behavior.

You couldve approached "so this is your friend?"

 

[btownbuck2012]

I was almost in tears at one point because it seemed almost futile.

How did you bounce back from that low? Or I guess a better question would be how did you finally fully accept the reality of the situation?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah I feel very close as well, like I'm RIGHT there but then get in these cold streaks.


3/3 but 2 incompatible. The 1/3 left is d1cking me around haha.

We spend too much time thinking about and talking about this.

 

[meldiamond]

You couldve approached "so this is your friend?"

Why do people post fantasy hate/revenge posts like this when they are unwilling to do it themselves. It's just so hypocritical.

Anyway, I saw the guy before - he showed up to another social invite on his own, no wife. He seems like a really cool, chill guy. Why he would want to marry an ugly fattie and commit to her for life is beyond me. And buying her an expensive house on top of that.

 

[Ranger]

How did you bounce back from that low? Or I guess a better question would be how did you finally fully accept the reality of the situation?

That’s a good question. The most important part is to get the concepts deep into you. I listened to the Rational Male five times in less than three months in audiobook.
If you only get something half way, you will hang up because it disagrees with your programming. That is the killer. You are hung up. There’s a conflict going on in your mind and reasoning.

The best part is you don’t have to learn pick-up. Once you have it, everything comes together. The real man starts coming out. You will find that women are almost child like in their simplicity.

The feminine mystique just rolls away like the flimsy curtain it is. It is at this point that you can build a new life. A new system. You strat getting those long dead dreams back. Then you start walking. You pick your head up and you go on. You owe women nothing. Not even respect. Look at DEE. Read some of his posts. You never owe your respect. Never. Don’t let anyone shame you for ignoring all their protests or shaming.

If you say she’s a damn SLVT. That’s what she is. Your reality rules. You are a free man.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Why do people post fantasy hate/revenge posts like this when they are unwilling to do it themselves. It's just so hypocritical.

Anyway, I saw the guy before - he showed up to another social invite on his own, no wife. He seems like a really cool, chill guy. Why he would want to marry an ugly fattie and commit to her for life is beyond me. And buying her an expensive house on top of that.

It wouldnt be a hateful thing to do.

 

[meldiamond]

It wouldnt be a hateful thing to do.

Try it yourself and report back. Don't live vicariously through others. Catch a married woman lying about her relationship status and tell her about it in front of her husband. Have you ever done this? Of course not.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Try it yourself and report back. Don't live vicariously through others.

Agreed it is a way to remain weak. Noted.

 

[Ranger]

Try it yourself and report back. Don't live vicariously through others. Catch a married woman lying about her relationship status and tell her about it in front of her husband. Have you ever done this? Of course not.

Women never hesitate if it’s a cheating man. Lol
Unless she wants to fuk him too.