Absolutely. No mercy. But it just flows naturally for them. No right or wrong in it. They truly operate on “This is how it works.”
so you belive we can't control instincts? we can't control our action? or these people choose to do something knowing it will not a good thing.
If folks cant change or adjust their rulesets and behaviors theres no reason for self-help and people never move past addiction. So i do not agree. After being stupid for so long many people do wise up.
Yeah but after that sex need was met by the affair partner there is no need. So husband will make her increasingly angry over time as he moves in for sex.
I've actually been involved in one of these. I was 21 and my cousin (31) introduced me to his married couple friends. We would all hangout at the bars and the wife was always super flirtatious with me, grinding on me while her husband stood by watching. It was VERY awkward and I would have to turn her down at times. Her response was "oh he doesnt mind. He wants me to have fun." It went as far as to her telling me to grab her ass. The guy would buy me rounds. It was the weirdest **** ever for awhile. I was 21 though. Still young. Now I'm pretty much immune to **** like that.
again they jsut control thenselfs better they the very least learned something, and its not easy, remember some people pass they addition with problem, some keep struggling they whole life, and some just can't.
Those reputation can remain. But your actions can change. If a group holds an old reputation against you change groups. Move somewhere new. Your desires and wants may have fully changed to never return. Why be distracted by the bull****?
I didn’t say that. Men are more able because of how we are wired. Linear thinkers. Problem solvers. We see consequences for punching that a$$hole in the face. What would happen if we took this action. Etc.
that is the thing the past have a way to catch up to you when you least expect, or you accept you mistakes and be ready to deal with it or you will jsut flee your whole life,
You have that right to check. And sometimes you do need to move. You cant keep moving but if your no longer doing the bull**** the people in your mew area will know the changed you. On crime and marrying a ho or carousel rider. I wouldnt be too excited to consider one of those if the action was in the last year, thats them. But if the action was greater than 3 years followed by changed behaviors you may consider. And if its over 7 years ago followed by consistent new and changed behaviors they changed. Its like credit on a credit report. You can always knock them for having a bad several years. But i may not knock them if it was far enough in the past.
In 2018, 99% are *****s and not marriage material. Even if she was the NAWALT, the idea of swearing away resources and sexual access is retarded.
Most men i think don't know better. They've been fed the blue pill since they were children so they think they're doing the right thing.
See to me this is different than Hypergamy. That is outright evil behavior. My one beef with the manosphere is this idea of women being held completely unaccountable for cheating. “Well if she cheated you weren’t good enough or her Hypergamy got triggered.” Or some similar line of bs. If we’re talking about marriage then there is a certain about of maturity that should be expected with an individual who decides to take those vows with another person. I mean yeah I’d love to f*ck the next random hottie who gives me eyes from across the room but if I’m married I’m going to think “wait a minute. I’m married. That is simply off limits” and move on from the thought. Are women incapable of that level of morality? I mean what the hell is going on here?
Fvck what a man thinks. Thats what women are doing. Steamrolling mankind as a whole. Theyll cheat for the sake of cheating the guy doesn't even have to be more attractive. Its outright disrespect and malice towards husbands.
That’s why I’m firm in my belief that the behavior we’re seeing from women is nothing short of “drunk on power”. I really think we’re seeing the ugliest side of women because our society enables this type of behavior not because woman are inherently this machiavellian. do You agree with this @mrgoodstuff ?
but we've never had them as enabled as they are now. At least Adam could have said no and not have someone show up, throw him in jail, ruin his career, family and shame him into oblivion. If Adam had said no like he should have, we'd not be in this position now.
Yeah. I’ve just got to finally get over it somehow. Feel like I’m close to really internalizing it but still have setbacks.
