Black and Hispanic Guys Are Never Rejected Harshly

[meldiamond]

edit: this seems to apply to all obviously ethnic "brown" guys including blacks, hispanics and samoans. Oddly, asian indian males seem to be excluded from this preferential treatment and they still get harshly blown out lol.

This is something I've noticed in the past year. Regardless of how ugly, disgusting or creepy the approach is, I don't think I've ever seen a black or hispanic (or samoan) guy or someone who's obviously "ethnic" get blown out harshly.

This past weekend, there was this super weird, incredibly fat jabbathehut looking mexican guy. His face was pockmarked with acne. He had multiple chins, and small beady eyes. Dude approached literally every single hot girl in the room. He got right in their faces, started touching them, being super forward and creepy. It's difficult to imagine a guy lower on the looks/value scale.

Not a single girl was rude. Not a single girl frowned. Not a single girl shoved him off. Almost all of them acknowledged him with eye contact. Most spoke to him (without yelling or telling him to **** off). Not a single guy from the girl's social circles intervened. No girl pulled the girls away.

And this is at a bar which is notorious for extremely harsh blowouts.

I've seen similar with black guys. None of them were as ugly as this mexican guy but most of the black guys I've seen out are all older, often 15-20 years older than the girls they are targeting. Similar dynamic: none of these guys is harshly blown out. All of the women are polite. There's one black guy in particular in one of my social circles. I'm not sure what he does for a living, but he shows up to every single event. He is very very fat. Below average in looks. Yet, all of the women in my circle are friendly to him. No one criticizes him ever, and he is often extremely sarcastic to everyone. Its like everyone is afraid of him, for whatever reason.

It's like all of a sudden, women especially white women, have reached an implicit agreement: be super nice and respectful to black and hispanic guys, even if they are extremely ugly.

Meanwhile I've seen some white and asian guys get blown out in a very embarrassing fashion. The girl will roll her eyes, yell, or otherwise make a scene.

It seems like there's a new political correctness codebook these women are following. I'll update this weekend but suspect little will change.

 

[corrector]

But are they pulling or are women throwing themselves to them like they are a Tyrone?

 

[devilkingx2]

one time a girl rejected me so harshly she outright embarrassed me in public and shattered my confidence for a month, and I'm a black guy

 

[jaymbrs]

Get the **** out of here with that. I'm hispanic and I've been rudely rejected. This thread is idiotic.

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

Men tend to not get rejected harshly by women outside of their race.

For example, I'm a white guy and have NEVER been rejected harshly by an Asian, black, or Hispanic chick. But I have had some bad rejections from white women.

My black friends have been rejected harshly by plenty of black women. But the rejections are softer when they approach other races.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Men tend to not get rejected harshly by women outside of their race.

For example, I'm a white guy and have NEVER been rejected harshly by an Asian, black, or Hispanic chick. But I have had some bad rejections from white women.

My black friends have been rejected harshly by plenty of black women. But the rejections are softer when they approach other races.

Sounds possible but it´s one of the things I´ve honestly never thought about.

 

[Who Dares Win]

In my opinion the kind of men who gets mistreated from women is the polite civilized guy which most of the time happens to be a white one.

Not sure about the states but here in europe you see middle easterns and africans approaching women not any different than a client approaching the meat at the butcher yet the women somehow politely reject (fear of their reaction or respect for their manliness..hard to say), on the other side the helpless white guys are openly mistreated and even mocked.

I still believe that what women despise the most is weakness and doubt, Im not talking about confidence so dont be confused...you can be confident and weak at the same time.

I dont believe it has anything to do with racism since clubs are usually places outside social norms.

 

[17 shots]

You're paying way too much attention to other guys around you... you're suffering from what's known as "Big Dave" syndrome

As of right now, there is no cure

 

[BreezyB84]

As a black guy this is definitely not true. I think the way we approach may be a little more "refreshing", but I'll keep it 100, I've be blatantly rejected by white women.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Not true at all. As a black dude I’ve had some awful rejections too. Not every black guy is naturally Tyrone, a lot of us have to work for it through sites like this.

 

[user43770]

edit: this seems to apply to all obviously ethnic "brown" guys including blacks, hispanics and samoans. Oddly, asian indian males seem to be excluded from this preferential treatment and they still get harshly blown out lol.

This is something I've noticed in the past year. Regardless of how ugly, disgusting or creepy the approach is, I don't think I've ever seen a black or hispanic (or samoan) guy or someone who's obviously "ethnic" get blown out harshly.

This past weekend, there was this super weird, incredibly fat jabbathehut looking mexican guy. His face was pockmarked with acne. He had multiple chins, and small beady eyes. Dude approached literally every single hot girl in the room. He got right in their faces, started touching them, being super forward and creepy. It's difficult to imagine a guy lower on the looks/value scale.

Not a single girl was rude. Not a single girl frowned. Not a single girl shoved him off. Almost all of them acknowledged him with eye contact. Most spoke to him (without yelling or telling him to **** off). Not a single guy from the girl's social circles intervened. No girl pulled the girls away.

And this is at a bar which is notorious for extremely harsh blowouts.

I've seen similar with black guys. None of them were as ugly as this mexican guy but most of the black guys I've seen out are all older, often 15-20 years older than the girls they are targeting. Similar dynamic: none of these guys is harshly blown out. All of the women are polite. There's one black guy in particular in one of my social circles. I'm not sure what he does for a living, but he shows up to every single event. He is very very fat. Below average in looks. Yet, all of the women in my circle are friendly to him. No one criticizes him ever, and he is often extremely sarcastic to everyone. Its like everyone is afraid of him, for whatever reason.

It's like all of a sudden, women especially white women, have reached an implicit agreement: be super nice and respectful to black and hispanic guys, even if they are extremely ugly.

Meanwhile I've seen some white and asian guys get blown out in a very embarrassing fashion. The girl will roll her eyes, yell, or otherwise make a scene.

It seems like there's a new political correctness codebook these women are following. I'll update this weekend but suspect little will change.

Pretty sure you're a troll.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Pretty sure you're a troll.

Yeah this thread is total BS honestly. Despite what the media tries to tell you, not every black guy is Tyrone

 

[user43770]

Yeah this thread is total BS honestly. Despite what the media tries to tell you, not every black guy is Tyrone

I'm not talking about this thread. I'm talking about all of his threads.

 

[Murk]

I'm half black and never been rejected harshly, I have many blacks friends, some have been rejected harshly, most of us are very cool and sociable though so never get harsh treatment. It's about social cues and savvy. Too many people are weirdos without knowing it, no self awareness.

It comes down to the approach, if you approach well then even if it's a no the situation is calm. If you come across as a prick, desperate and needy then yeah you deserve a blow out.

Yes this guy is defo a troll

 

[EyeBRollin]

I'm black and never really noticed how "harshly" a woman rejects me. A rejection is a rejection. Just move on.

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

Out of all races, I see white women are the most willing to fvck outside their race.

This is not true at all.

The interracial dating stats say otherwise.

White women are easily the LEAST willing to date outside of their race. Start talking to non-white women and you'll see.

 

[Murk]

This is not always true. You can come across as a cool social guy and still get the b!tch shield. There are plenty of women with resting b!tch faces that will gladly get "revenge" on you for things other guys did to them. On the other hand, you can come across as a douche and still get women. A lot of women are attracted to that.

The clubs are not always logical and straight forward. A lot of times the absolute worse guys get the women. It can be downright upside down.

I really don’t pay negativity from women any mind and I’m certainly not going home and thinking about it days/weeks/months after the fact.