Please help me restart my life in late 30s

DEEZEDBRAH

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Ok, let's not use the word empowered. If it makes you feel better, let's use the word or phrase, they've got too much control. They took a situation where men may have had a slight advantage and "fixed" it by throwing it way in favor of the woman. What happens, and you can see this in any type of situation where the government is involved, they take a scenario where the law is being applied incorrectly or unfairly (read improperly) and "fix" it by going way in the opposite direction, down some rabbit hole that never should have been gone down, all in the name of being "fair and balanced."
Regurgitation of feminist doctrine isn't pushing back at madness.

Blacks were forced to sit at the back of the bus. Its blatantly obvious that this is wrong. It took puck back for change.

Having zero reproductive rights is clearly wrong.

What they accomplish, and this is unfortunately a very liberal trait, is the exact opposite of their stated intent. It's like trying to hammer in a nail with a jackhammer. You only need a hammer, a jackhammer actually breaks the structure you're trying to nail. And that's what liberals have done with family courts, divorce law, essentially anything to do with the contractual or legal relationship between men and women, they've broken the family. Men make mistakes but it has never been a situation where the state was actively involved in supporting men making a mistake. There were not laws in place that favored one sex over another in court, which is the case with women and modern family law. Women can screw the neighbor, take your kids, kick you out of the house and you have to pay for it all, completely supported by the state. There has never been a monolithic structure in place in this country that favored men in such a way
The current laws are against men. Women don't speak out against said treachery nor push back.

There is no ambiguity.

You're either with me or against me.

The government, family court, marriage, and custody are against men.

There's no push back. Cucks continue to pander to female entitlement. Marry cratered SMV when best year's are through.

Boycott is the solution.

**** marriage, monogamy, cohabitation, and cuckoldry.


You can never, ever, put women in charge of minding the store. You'll end up with society as a wreck if you do and that's what we are in the process of seeing, it's like a car wreck in slow motion and that's why most people are not up in arms, because we're slowly, at least at the beginning, destroying western society. Hopefully, we won't have to take a huge step back as a society to realize the mistake that we are making.
RooshV has been @ pickup and game for 17yrs give or take. He's single. Despite his best efforts, he is out shined and funded by cucks pandering to trade thots.


Stardusk made a video, 'red pill malaise.'

Essentially, the ambiguity that follows being disillusioned by female nature, the lies of the blue pill social conditioning, and the reality of being a plow horse for open hypergamy. Its a video that leaves more answers then questions once discarding the old contract of beta male cuck provider plow horse. Cog for the feminine imperative, the insurance policy for when Playboy stops calling.

He doesn't answer this question. Nobody can answer this. Its what men need in adaptation and evolution going forward.
 

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My experience was the complete opposite, so I highly disagree. I suppose it could go either way. I ended up hanging out with people who could do crazy sh!t and were drowning in top form vagina. Sure, there are very few people like that, but dedicate yourself to making connections in the pickup community for a period of time and you'll end up finding them. Frankly even the slow runners "served their purpose", since even they were committed to a certain point. Inevitably and unfortunately most people are lost cases (for many different reasons), I guess these are the ones you were referring to.
Been doing pickup for ages. Its flooded full of phaggots, phaghotry, cucks, and guys who don't go out but have a theory.

The lamest of excuses at free tour for not going out or approaching.

Met a wing off Mystery's forum. Dude almost got punched out by a fatty.

I am sure there are non Weirdo's but..
 

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Been doing pickup for ages. Its flooded full of phaggots, phaghotry, cucks, and guys who don't go out but have a theory.

The lamest of excuses at free tour for not going out or approaching.

Met a wing off Mystery's forum. Dude almost got punched out by a fatty.
They do exist I won't deny it.

I am sure there are non Weirdo's but..
More than you think :)
 

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I'd advice this; find threads by POOK, read it, valid stuff there - you don't need any further reading material.

The next step is forget women. Take that focus away. Your focus should always be you; ur job, health-fitness, ur looks, ur multiple hobbies (get those that mingles with people like surfing, biking, etc). Just be active.

And don't worry, women will try to attract a man that has multiple interests in his life and not a bore.
 

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All the things you listed sound good. You just have to start, do something. You will gain momentum over time.

Once you preoccupy yourself with different things you'll feel you have a "purpose", at this point your luck will change. Why is this significant? Because women are a derivative of you being on your purpose. Guys that only chase women and have nothing else going for them are total losers and no one, man or woman, will respect such a person.
 

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Without law, I think by default men had the upper hand - due to them being the only ones capable of providing throughout history, their natural strength, etc. Add to that women's beauty (i.e. SMV) fading over time, their weakness and vulnerability.

Laws did give women an unfair and rather irrational amount of power in an attempt to balance things, so the once fragile women became drank on that power and it became their turn to abuse it.

I believe things will become more balanced over time. For instance, since women are now (at least in theory) as capable as men to provide for themselves, upon divorce - the side who makes more money needs to take care of the other side. (this takes care of the stay-home dad scenario, among other scenarios)

There're of course a ton of other injustices that need to be set right.

The downside is, I don't believe the current generation will get to enjoy the fruits of true equality, neither in terms of law nor the social impact it will have. In that aspect we're pretty much f*cked and have to come up with things like "red pill awareness", which, with a lot of effort, can help tip the scale for individual men.

If true equality will ever come to be, I wonder how the society shaped by it will look like.
They do exist I won't deny it.



More than you think :)
If people's e standards are anything to go by, I guess I'll take your word for it.
 

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I wouldn't advise doing yoga or dancing. Find some people who want to go out sarging either in the wingman section of this forum or through other internet sites. Meet up and hit the bars regularly. Enjoy your life
 

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OP, you are very beta, and that is fine. You were conditioned that way. We need to fix this. You need to work on yourself. Find your purpose in life and go after it. You need to feed your mind and body with knowledge about real life. Read: The Rational Male. Watch AMS's videos on Patreon (https://www.patreon.com/alphamalestrategies). Workout. Eat healthy. Focus on yourself first. Everything else will just fall in line.
 

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I wouldn't advise doing yoga or dancing. Find some people who want to go out sarging either in the wingman section of this forum or through other internet sites. Meet up and hit the bars regularly. Enjoy your life
Reyaj, Salsa gets you in contact with half a dozen babes easy in a night. It's easy they either dance with you or not, and it opens them up.

The yoga is for when your already fit, so you have something for them to look at. It's just an addition to your fitness regiment, not to get babes.

I figure you saying this cause your saying these are feminine things. Plenty of women love great dancers, and plenty of women like a built guy.
 

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I just turned 40 and have had more sex w women this year than the last ten years. I also have had numerous FWB. Learn game, work on yourself and enjoy the ride
 

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BTW how are you making a six fgure salary but live frugal and don't have a car? That's an automatic turn off for both guys and girls. No one wants to hang out with that person who contributes little to nothing. You gotta be willing to spend a little. Not just on yourself either. Buy some rounds, pay for some Uber rides, etc.

LOL

really? could you expand your idea more?
 

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LOL

really? could you expand your idea more?
I thought it was pretty straight forward.

Everyone plays a role when in a group. One person may be considered the smart one, one may be the ladies man, one may be the generous one, one is the funny guy, the partier, etc. The OPs posts give the impression he (initially) doesn't have much to offer. But he does have a 6 figure salary. My suggestion was that it could be his way in.

In my social circle, buying rounds is a normal thing. Whether it be at random or losing a friendly bet. When we meet new people, we all notice when he/she pays for a tab or whatever it may be. Their likability doubles.
 
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I thought it was pretty straight forward.

Everyone plays a role when in a group. One person may be considered the smart one, one may be the ladies man, one may be the generous one, one is the funny guy, the partier, etc. The OPs posts give the impression he (initially) doesn't have much to offer. But he does have a 6 figure salary. My suggestion was that it could be his way in.

In my social circle, buying rounds is a normal thing. Whether it be at random or losing a friendly bet. When we meet new people, we all notice when he/she pays for a tab or whatever it may be. Their likability doubles.
Paying for a very close friend here in there is one thing (as long as it's reciprocated), but what you suggest sounds like a terrible strategy to "fit in", buying likability isn't likely to get him any real friends. Never heard of "the generous one" who's role is to pay for others, what happens if he decides to stop paying for stuff? There's a fine line between generousity and being a sucker, sounds to me like that line was crossed here.
 

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I just turned 40 and have had more sex w women this year than the last ten years. I also have had numerous FWB. Learn game, work on yourself and enjoy the ride
Curious is curious.

What age are these women? Like, we talking top form SMV or nearly? Baeeeees still in the twenties or are you knocking the dust off that puss and setting aside her walker?
 

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No more girls. If you don’t have your life handled why the **** would a girl want to be with you (at least a hot babe and don’t lie we all want a hottie). I’m going to be honest, it’s going to be harder for you. Hang around young hustlers in there. 20 that are HUNGRY and don’t be needy. The true hustlers won’t tolerate weakness and whiniest. View them as your mentor and get rid of your ego. Good luck
I second this about getting ones resources together but it shouldn't have to be the necessity.

I know guys like LS Cajun, absolute closers despite ****ty job, dead beat, broke ass, busta. I know a rental cop and a guy that delivers beer. Both are at poverty level banging either lots of young girls or a single hawtttty.

He should cultivate lifestyle simply out of his character rather then chase the corporate ladder front being a high earner to land Chad's booty call after her first few birthdays in her 30s.

I don't think neither of these characters are ideal candidate but, I would be hitting on baeeees tomorrow even if I was on my way to the unemployment office.

My **** won't suci itself.
 
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