Sade. I don’t want to knock you but don’t you have any self respect for yourself? Why would you even consider this and going to their wedding after she cheated on with the guy she is marrying. I’m going to say something right now. First don’t be happy for them. Be mad. She screwed you and ****ed another guy whom she is marrying. You know how I deal with my exes. I’ve made it very clear over Facebook don’t contact me. I know some of their friends so I’m pretty sure that I won’t be a back up plan or a captain save a hoe. This is not immature. This is having self respect and being honest. Sade not to ripoff The Empire Strikes Back but you have to unlearn what you have learned through your life. For get this nice being happy for the BS be angry. I’m not telling you to destroy their wedding or doing anything harmful to anyone. However one thing you are emotionally doing to yourself is harmful to yourself. I was in a similar situation like this when I was in my early 20’s and I’m 47 now. My ex didn’t get married but if you do not go through these emotions it will affect you for as long as you suppress them.