video: I'm 37 and I've never had a girlfriend

[MatureDJ]

 

[R.U.G.]

Sad to watch; let alone listen. 37. No job for 9 years. Lives with his mom. Obese. Gee, I wonder what the problem is?

 

[Focal core]

It called enmeshment with mother.. Pretty common

 

[R.U.G.]

A/K/A a millennial loser. No excuse for why he dropped out of college and didn't go back. Doesn't have a job. Doesn't live on his own @ 37 years old. A pathetic loser. His mom made life way too comfortable for him. Her fault for turning him into the pathetic person he is today.

 

[corrector]

The video is about how women are teasing him around that already have boyfriends, how he's not getting traction on dating sites (i.e. actually 80% of guys don't but that's another story). Do not get other comments because if he's not even meeting, let alone, dating any woman then why would his living situation or unemployment even matter to them. He asked out women in his past job and got nowhere as they had boyfriends.

This guy made allot of claims about women jerking him around and people on here just side with the women by default. He got flakes and teases.

 

[Papa_smu]

Poor guy, I hope he finds his path out of current misery. Maybe he'll have a Monte Cristo moment... or a Monte Cristo. Hopefully, the former

 

[redskinsfan92]

Dang, I mean I've never had a gf, but I've been on dates and have kissed. Frankly, I seriously need to work on approaching.

This guy though has other issues to work. No gf is not his problem. He needs to get a life purpose, job, and workout.

 

[Focal core]

A/K/A a millennial loser. No excuse for why he dropped out of college and didn't go back. Doesn't have a job. Doesn't live on his own @ 37 years old. A pathetic loser. His mom made life way too comfortable for him. Her fault for turning him into the pathetic person he is today.

True.. Usually with emotionally unhealthy mothers that turn him (usually the son) into surrogate father. Mainly for validation.poor adult child.

 

[Dingo]

Sad.. Waste of oxygen...

 

[R.U.G.]

Instead of posting videos bytching and whining on how his life sucks to get sympathy from who knows.. He should be getting back into school or doing a trade. Focusing on his purpose in life. Hitting the gym or at least walking around the town to lose some of that fat. He's too entitled. He never had to work for anything in his life. Now, look at what that has got him. 37 year old virgin, no eduction, no job, no life living at mommy's house.

If that were me, and it would never be, but let's say that was me, and I tub of useless garbage like this bro, I'd shoot myself. I'd never let myself become like this. No one ever helped me in life. Why does this bro need help? Why can't he help himself? He has two arms, two legs, somewhat of a brain inside of his head. Why can't he help himself? He's not ugly, just obese. Doubtful he's stupid, he's just lazy.

What am I missing? The entitlement of the younger generation (fvck, he's five years younger than me), is disgusting.

 

[sosousage]

you guys rage at him but this video shows hypergamy and rat race are real.

hes fat, probablynot too social, bad clothes and haircut. no job.

and these are the reasons why he had no gf


on the other hand. a lot of fat women in relationships, with sometimes not bad looking men

how come?


will watch in a moment.

 

[sosousage]

Dang, I mean I've never had a gf, but I've been on dates and have kissed. Frankly, I seriously need to work on approaching.

This guy though has other issues to work. No gf is not his problem. He needs to get a life purpose, job, and workout.

see and i am younger than you and I had

 

[redskinsfan92]

see and i am younger than you and I had

Had what?

 

[Focal core]

What am I missing? The entitlement of the younger generation (fvck, he's five years younger than me), is disgusting.

You didnt missed anything other than the guy has been isolated since he was very young by her own mother. His failure to launch due to his emotionally underdevelope (thanks to the mother who doing a stellar job at it) and his skewed perceptive to think that her mother happiness solely depends on him and ceased to exist if he left home.And NO i repeat NO healthy heterosexual female wants a passive guy.

I bet he got raised by a narcissistic family. The guy is the victim here.

Im no psyche theraphist either. But i have much interest and knowledge.

 

[corrector]

He never had to work for anything in his life. Now, look at what that has got him. 37 year old virgin, no eduction, no job, no life living at mommy's house.

The video said that he had a job in the past. But you are too busy judging the guy and can't bother to listen to what he has to say.

 

[corrector]

And NO i repeat NO healthy heterosexual female wants a passive guy.

What healthy women are really out there? The types that like to flirt with other guys while they have bfs? Or that could toss a guy for another guy if she gets a better deal, despite all of the magical moments together? What issues has he raised that bigdave17 has not raised on here?

You see bigdave17 and this guy has the same predicament, and nobody can help either get a gf. You can say that bigdave17 and ricardthefrog are both passive and dealing with their deficiencies in different ways. One may be going with women he doesn't really like in the past, the other can pay for escorts.

So why is everyone on here picking on this guy? If he became as people idealize, he's just become another bigdave17 on here and then post countless threads of how he can't get the right gf, or like richardthefrog and ask why he can't get it for free without going on SA or a adult classified site.

 

[R.U.G.]

You didnt missed anything other than the guy has been isolated since he was very young by her own mother. His failure to launch due to his emotionally underdevelope (thanks to the mother who doing a stellar job at it) and his skewed perceptive to think that her mother happiness solely depends on him and ceased to exist if he left home.And NO i repeat NO healthy heterosexual female wants a passive guy.

I bet he got raised by a narcissistic family. The guy is the victim here.

Im no psyche theraphist either. But i have much interest and knowledge.

No excuse. The man should know he needs to pull his own weight. No man @ 37; let alone 22, should be living with their parents rent free unless he has a medical issue or disorder. He's just lazy and entitled.

The video said that he had a job in the past. But you are too busy judging the guy and can't bother to listen to what he has to say.

Yea, years ago. What happened? No more jobs at the job store?

What healthy women are really out there? The types that like to flirt with other guys while they have bfs? Or that could toss a guy for another guy if she gets a better deal, despite all of the magical moments together? What issues has he raised that bigdave17 has not raised on here?

You see bigdave17 and this guy has the same predicament, and nobody can help either get a gf. You can say that bigdave17 and ricardthefrog are both passive and dealing with their deficiencies in different ways. One may be going with women he doesn't really like in the past, the other can pay for escorts.

So why is everyone on here picking on this guy? If he became as people idealize, he's just become another bigdave17 on here and then post countless threads of how he can't get the right gf, or like richardthefrog and ask why he can't get it for free without going on SA or a adult classified site.

I hear Mormons, Indian's and the Amish are okay. Then again, it's due to their upbringing and not watch pop-culture. If I had kids, they'd not be watching anything but PBS or public broadcasting like C-Span. No phone until they start work. There are kids, like 5 years old, with a freakin iPhone. My first iPhone was 4 years ago. It's all about how a person is raised. Clear and simple. I know a lot of men who are literally lost in life because their parents coddled them. I have some in my family too. When their parents pass on, they are lost. I've tried to talk to them and their parents, I am told I do not know, I do not have kids. My reply, yea, this is why.

BigDave at least seems to have a job and lives on his own. I give him credit for that. The frogman went to prison. I am sure that had a lot to do with his personality. Neither are bad guys.

 

[corrector]

Yea, years ago. What happened? No more jobs at the job store?

That is aside the point. That is a major point you conceded on, re-read your post.

I hear Mormons, Indian's and the Amish are okay. Then again, it's due to their upbringing and not watch pop-culture. If I had kids, they'd not be watching anything but PBS or public broadcasting like C-Span. No phone until they start work. There are kids, like 5 years old, with a freakin iPhone. My first iPhone was 4 years ago. It's all about how a person is raised. Clear and simple. I know a lot of men who are literally lost in life because their parents coddled them. I have some in my family too. When their parents pass on, they are lost. I've tried to talk to them and their parents, I am told I do not know, I do not have kids. My reply, yea, this is why.

This guy doesn't sound "lost in life", that's your interpretation of his video. His complaints are no different than BigDave.

BigDave at least seems to have a job and lives on his own. I give him credit for that. The frogman went to prison. I am sure that had a lot to do with his personality. Neither are bad guys.

Aside the point as well. So a bad guy in your books is someone who gets along with his parents, or is "lost in life"? So, I guess people like Hitler are good guys because they didn't live with their parents?

 

[Fzatf]

If he was at least going to college or learning a trade he would be on a path to getting a career and living on his own. He shouldn't even worry about women until he's got his life in order. While in school he can cut down on the calories and exercise so he is better situated for dating in the future.

It's a very sad place to be and his mom has made life too easy for him to the point that he would be lost without her. Now it's his responsibility to fix himself.

 

[corrector]

If he was at least going to college or learning a trade he would be on a path to getting a career and living in his own.

Or be in more debt that he can't pay back assuming he even gets a loan in the first place. There is only one thing worst than being unemployed. Being unemployed with a big student loan debt you can't pay back because you don't have a job.

He shouldn't even worry about women until he's got his life in order.

That's blue-pill talk. He's not gaining any skills by not dealing with women until x,y,z,. His life is in order enough to make videos and post them on youtube. Guess what, other people who have jobs or are not living with their parents also complain they can't get girls, and even make videos and post them up on youtube.

Think about this. You have a manosphere, MGTOW, incel, black-pill, etc.... oh, move out of your parent's house, problem solved. Everyone that's part of MGTOW really just lives with their parents. Really buy that ignorance?