Take a lady on a hike

[RickTheToad]

So there is this one lady, 26 latina from Peru that's been contacting me since we met a few weeks ago. Not overly crazy about it, as she's a little overweight, not crazily overweight maybe 12 lbs or so, but she's only 5'' 1'. I didn't care for what she was wearing, as her boobs were hanging out last time during our drinks where everyone else could see (they prob a large C, maybe a D). It seems like there is strong attraction from her to me, as she's contacting once every few days, I respond, sometimes not. I have some attraction to her; though, if she was a little better in shape, I'd have more attraction. Apparently, she started spin class again or something.

I was thinking of inviting her on a hike this weekend during the day and see how it goes. I am also working on some other ones, but this one is live. It's about a 1.5 mile hike and it's only a couple miles from where she lives. What does one talk about on a hike?

 

[HankHill]

I think a hike can be a great idea if there's a comfort level or the trail is very public, women get scared going on hikes with people they've barely met, understandably. Two, unless you know she's an avid hiker, make sure it's not a challenging terrain. May be give her two options to pick form a hike, a bike ride etc.

 

[RickTheToad]

Interesting response from her. I first asked her availability this weekend, and she said she's working Friday, wedding on Saturday, but you can come if you like (???), or we can meet after, but I am going to a friends b-day party in the city. You can some to that if you are open to it. I just replied let's go for a hike at the with the so and so trails. No response.

 

[HankHill]

I would've taken her up on the 'meet after' offer. I think hike to most women screams "I'll get raped and murdered in the woods".

At this point, just say something like "hmm, scratch the hike, looks like the weather will be too hot. How about we grab a coffee/drinks/food on sun at 5pm" or something like that.

 

[Bible_Belt]

She's offering to take you to two social functions, which means she likes you, and you have to be a weirdo about it. You're coming off as anti-social and no fun.

 

[HankHill]

She's offering to take you to two social functions, which means she likes you, and you have to be a weirdo about it. You're coming off as anti-social and no fun.

Of course she's inviting him to the wedding (Rick is going to the bday party from the way I read it) and introduce him as her date to her friends and the social circle to get an ego boost but they barely know each other. I think the first couple of times it should be one on one.

 

[RickTheToad]

She's offering to take you to two social functions, which means she likes you, and you have to be a weirdo about it. You're coming off as anti-social and no fun.

Dude. I met her for 40 minutes. Not really ready to go to a friend's wedding or birthday party with someone I've only met for 40 minutes. Not sure how you can think these are okay activities to take a basic stranger to.

 

[RickTheToad]

Of course she's inviting him to the wedding (Rick is going to the bday party from the way I read it) and introduce him as her date to her friends and the social circle to get an ego boost but they barely know each other. I think the first couple of times it should be one on one time.

I declined both. Too soon to go to a friend's birthday party or wedding. I even asked others about that where I worked, and they thought it was a bit awkward for her to invite me to both. I need to know a lady a bit more than 40 minutes before meeting her family and friends. I thought the hike was a good idea.

 

[sazc]

She's into you.

Sounds like her weekend is pretty busy. We're you expecting her to ditch her other activity to go on a hike? I wouldn't see her doing that, which is probably why you got silence when you suggested it. She's probably trying to decide if you are suggesting she give up one of her activities.

Do what was suggested and ask her if she's free for a drink

 

[RickTheToad]

She's into you.

Sounds like her weekend is pretty busy. We're you expecting her to ditch her other activity to go on a hike? I wouldn't see her doing that, which is probably why you got silence when you suggested it. She's probably trying to decide if you are suggesting she give up one of her activities.

Do what was suggested and ask her if she's free for a drink

No, of course not. She said she was working Friday, so that day was out and had a wedding Saturday during the day and a friend's birthday party at night. She invited me to both, but since I do not really no her outside of 40 minutes or so, I didn't feel comfortable going to either. I then suggested we go for a hike on Sunday.

 

[Mazer]

I don’t like hikes until after you have banged the woman. Let me explain. You are both hiking, usually during the day, which makes it a harder lay. You two are getting sweaty which is going to make it difficult to get her to put out. Some bishes are worried their vag is going to smell of sweat and she won’t feel comfortable. You can tell her she can shower at your place but most won’t because she doesn’t know you well enough, creepy. My opinion.

 

[AJ84]

No, of course not. She said she was working Friday, so that day was out and had a wedding Saturday during the day and a friend's birthday party at night. She invited me to both, but since I do not really no her outside of 40 minutes or so, I didn't feel comfortable going to either. I then suggested we go for a hike on Sunday.

This is the second post where you have reservations about meeting a new woman who is interested ( the first was the tennis date right?)
I get the wedding thing, it would be a weird first date but the bday party? I once had a first date at a guy’s parents’ 25th wedding anniversary. Get out of your comfort zone and seize opportunities with women that are showing interest before some other guy does.

 

[RickTheToad]

This is the second post where you have reservations about meeting a new woman who is interested ( the first was the tennis date right?)
I get the wedding thing, it would be a weird first date but the bday party? I once had a first date at a guy’s parents’ 25th wedding anniversary. Get out of your comfort zone and seize opportunities with women that are showing interest before some other guy does.

Going to a strangers wedding or 26th birthday bash with no one I know? Going to pass. It's just strange. It's also in the city. That's pretty far from Bridgeport, CT to Brooklyn, NY. 1.5 hrs. each way by car, over 2 hours each way via train. Total cost: fuel/tolls/parking = $100 bucks +. Train and parking = $106. Sorry AJ, not as rich as you.

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[RickTheToad]

I don’t like hikes until after you have banged the woman. Let me explain. You are both hiking, usually during the day, which makes it a harder lay. You two are getting sweaty which is going to make it difficult to get her to put out. Some bishes are worried their vag is going to smell of sweat and she won’t feel comfortable. You can tell her she can shower at your place but most won’t because she doesn’t know you well enough, creepy. My opinion.

Hiking and sweat always brought out pheromones. Never had a lady turn down sex after a hike. I recall one time she walked into the shower with me. It was a nice surprise. Though, she had a very hairy bush. Sigh.

 

[AJ84]

Hiking and sweat always brought out pheromones. Never had a lady turn down sex after a hike. I recall one time she walked into the shower with me. It was a nice surprise. Though, she had a very hairy bush. Sigh.

So you are not ready to attend a bday party with a woman you met for only 40 minutes but suggesting a hike to get sex is ok hahaha. That won’t be weird for her of course she will ready to have sex on a first date hike with a guy she only met for 40 minutes prior.

If you’re just looking for quick lays seek women who are also looking for the same and bypass the whole dating thing which you seem to be very picky about anyway. Seems like you are complicating the crap out of just meeting up with women who are actually interested in you!

 

[marmel75]

I declined both. Too soon to go to a friend's birthday party or wedding. I even asked others about that where I worked, and they thought it was a bit awkward for her to invite me to both. I need to know a lady a bit more than 40 minutes before meeting her family and friends. I thought the hike was a good idea.

Dude you sound like a square...now I see part of your problem...are you a programmer or engineer? Sounds like the type of stuff they do(I'm a programmer...I laugh at some of the stuff I hear from these dudes I work with)

If a chick invites me to a wedding I'm there...thats basically an easy lay either with her or one of her friends there

 

[sazc]

No, of course not. She said she was working Friday, so that day was out and had a wedding Saturday during the day and a friend's birthday party at night. She invited me to both, but since I do not really no her outside of 40 minutes or so, I didn't feel comfortable going to either. I then suggested we go for a hike on Sunday.

Ah, I missed that you suggested the hike on Sunday

 

[RickTheToad]

Dude you sound like a square...now I see part of your problem...are you a programmer or engineer? Sounds like the type of stuff they do(I'm a programmer...I laugh at some of the stuff I hear from these dudes I work with)

If a chick invites me to a wedding I'm there...thats basically an easy lay either with her or one of her friends there

Primarily, I work with animals at a municipal Zoo in CT. I also am in the reserves. Animals and combat, same thing.

 

[RickTheToad]

So you are not ready to attend a bday party with a woman you met for only 40 minutes but suggesting a hike to get sex is ok hahaha. That won’t be weird for her of course she will ready to have sex on a first date hike with a guy she only met for 40 minutes prior.

If you’re just looking for quick lays seek women who are also looking for the same and bypass the whole dating thing which you seem to be very picky about anyway. Seems like you are complicating the crap out of just meeting up with women who are actually interested in you!

It's a bit different. If you met a guy once and then he asked you to come to a wedding with you and then a birthday party after two drinks an an appetizer, you wouldn't find that a little, well, strange?

 

[sazc]

It's a bit different. If you met a guy once and then he asked you to come to a wedding with you and then a birthday party after two drinks an an appetizer, you wouldn't find that a little, well, strange?

Yes. No doubt, no question. It reeks of insecurity but it also communicates that she likes you.

Personally, I would never take a stranger around my close friends. You simply don't know him well enough to know if he's going to act a complete fool, jerk, loser, drunk, etc.