The music is loud........how could I of built rappor twith her?
Go out for fresh air or something? I’m not trying to come off snarky but really count your blessings here. Don’t do stuff like that unless she’s taking your hand and shoving it down her pants on the dance floor.
That kind of making out is something that can wait until you get a girl alone after the flirting, kissing, signs of high interest etc.
A girl doesn’t need you to finger her on the dance floor in order to get her in the mood for sex, which I assume was the intention. That’s like the move you do right before sex.
You’re comfortable approaching women which is one step ahead of most guys but just scale it back and make moves based on her signals and the context. So if she kisses you kiss back, run your hand down her back. Do the grind thing and if she’s grinding back suggest taking the night somewhere else then see where it goes.
And wash you hands before sticking them up there with the next girl you do this with hopefully in a less risky way. You would be surprised at how something as seemingly little as not washing your hands before fondling her lady parts will turn her off, it’s like a girl putting her fingers in your mouth after they touched every surface in a club.