Field Report#16 : Finger girl in nightclub!!!

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:eek::eek: I thought about that for a bit too.......and it was dark sooo.....but arent trannys usually by themselves...........not with girls........

I doubt she was.
I wonder if a dog could be trained to sniff out a tranny. Man, that would be one hell of a business.

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her(?) : "I thought we were going back to your place."

you: "I have this dog you need to meet first........."
 

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Something doesn't add up. Literally. The OP Ryan has been on this forum for eighteen fvcking years! Yet, still asking for basic advice on pickup? This is definitely long game trolling.
 
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The music is loud........how could I of built rappor twith her?
Go out for fresh air or something? I’m not trying to come off snarky but really count your blessings here. Don’t do stuff like that unless she’s taking your hand and shoving it down her pants on the dance floor.
That kind of making out is something that can wait until you get a girl alone after the flirting, kissing, signs of high interest etc.
A girl doesn’t need you to finger her on the dance floor in order to get her in the mood for sex, which I assume was the intention. That’s like the move you do right before sex.
You’re comfortable approaching women which is one step ahead of most guys but just scale it back and make moves based on her signals and the context. So if she kisses you kiss back, run your hand down her back. Do the grind thing and if she’s grinding back suggest taking the night somewhere else then see where it goes.

And wash you hands before sticking them up there with the next girl you do this with hopefully in a less risky way. You would be surprised at how something as seemingly little as not washing your hands before fondling her lady parts will turn her off, it’s like a girl putting her fingers in your mouth after they touched every surface in a club.
 
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I don't do nightclub game, but I'm curious here: What in your view constitutes a "clear signal" that a woman wants to be fingered on the dance floor (short of her initiating such an action herself)?
Her initiating the action herself is the only sign I would go by if I was a guy grinding up on a girl I didn’t know in a night club. Not worth the risk any other way. I know how women think and I know how that situation could turn. Not worth it and really, not necessary to generate sexual interest.
 
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I would explain it to you but you wouldn't get it and would only make you get defensive.

Find a successful man that is good with women, has high self esteem and an abundance mentality and follow him around. Then you'll understand.
Kind of hard-headed to think that anyone who doesn't agree with you just "doesn't get it," don't you think?
 

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Most girls in clubs, normally would of pushed me away....or there friends would of pulled them away....but this girl...no...
so you've done this type of thing before, to other women (who may/may not have been intoxicated) and your "yardstick" of measure as to if they are okay with this behavior is that the female didn't leave or her friends didn't intervene? That's what makes this appropriate?
 

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"She didn't leave or push me away so it's okay to do this"

One more to ponder

"I'm going to stick my fingers up this complete stragers vadge, in the middle of the dance floor, in the middle of everyone, to test her IL. If she doesn't leave, I'll know she has high IL"

Is that what you said to yourself just before?

You didn't even EVER make eye contact with her this whole time, did you?
 
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Why even bother asking female opinions?

They think they're "masters of the game" but they're morons.
No Richard, we don’t but anyone with half a brain can see that sticking fingers up an unknown girl’s vagina on a dance floor is risky and not usually how to attract a woman to sex unless she is initiating that, and she wasn’t.
I don’t expect you to understand because you would just pay some hooker to stick your fingers in her. This guy, though what he did was risky, is actually trying to generate actual sexual interest, not throw money at her to bend over and start acting.

So why don’t you give him advice on what he did wrong and what he could of done better in that situation?
 
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No Richard, we don’t but anyone with half a brain can see that sticking fingers up an unknown girl’s vagina on a dance floor is risky and not usually how to attract a woman to sex unless she is initiating that, and she wasn’t.
I don’t expect you to understand because you would just pay some hooker to stick your fingers in her. This guy, though what he did was risky, is actually trying to generate actual sexual interest, not throw money at her to bend over and start acting.

So why don’t you give him advice on what he did wrong and what he could of done better in that situation?
1. Sticking fingers in someone isn't risky. No std transmission that way.

2. I would never stick my fingers in a hooker.

3. I've been with girls for free, also. I just don't find the nonsense hoops to jump through to be worth the "prize" if having sex. (Especially when I'm better in bed than the girl anyway). Plus, it's probably an impossible task for a 31 year old to have a rotation of hot, young babes in their early 20's without paying for it.

Advice to him: Good job. Sounds fun. Why did she not escalate? Because that's not normal behavior. That's just "club fantasy" stuff. It's possible that what she did with you is more than she's done with any guy at a club ever.
 
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I get results without paying for sex. You dont. Do the math.
You've never posted a picture of a girl I would even want to talk to. It's like you're in denial of the fact that they're average looking.

Plus, I could have been with 3 girls for free in the past 3 months. I was only with 2 because I didn't feel like driving 90 minute roundtrip or to go on a date first.
 

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You can get herpes on your fingers by sticking then in someone's vadge.

You get your fingers infected and you start touching things because "hey you got some blisters on your fingers, how did that happen?" And you spread, spread, spread that sh1t around, even to your wankie when you hold it to pee.

Brilliant!
 
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You can get herpes on your fingers by sticking then in someone's vadge.

You get your fingers infected and you start touching things because "hey you got some blisters on your fingers, how did that happen?" And you spread, spread, spread that sh1t around, even to your wankie when you hold it to pee.

Brilliant!
Oh well.
 
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1. Sticking fingers in someone isn't risky. No std transmission that way.

2. I would never stick my fingers in a hooker.

3. I've been with girls for free, also. I just don't find the nonsense hoops to jump through to be worth the "prize" if having sex. (Especially when I'm better in bed than the girl anyway). Plus, it's probably an impossible task for a 31 year old to have a rotation of hot, young babes in their early 20's without paying for it.

Advice to him: Good job. Sounds fun. Why did she not escalate? Because that's not normal behavior. That's just "club fantasy" stuff. It's possible that what she did with you is more than she's done with any guy at a club ever.
I meant risky in a sexual assault conviction/registered sex offender way. It’s like a witch hunt right now for men. I’m not a guy and I feel paranoid every time my single brother who is a bit of a player goes out clubbing with his buddies. But he would not do what the OP did though but still it’s very scary with the #metoo getting way out of hand.

That’s a good point re the club fantasy stuff. There’s a chance that she never did that before and was drunk and it maybe kind of freaked her out a bit, hence bailing on him, because it isn’t normal for girls to let random guys finger f**k them on a dance floor.
 
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I meant risky in a sexual assault conviction/registered sex offender way. It’s like a witch hunt right now for men. I’m not a guy and I feel paranoid every time my single brother who is a bit of a player goes out clubbing with his buddies. But he would not do what the OP did though but still it’s very scary with the #metoo getting way out of hand.

That’s a good point re the club fantasy stuff. There’s a chance that she never did that before and was drunk and it maybe kind of freaked her out a bit, hence bailing on him, because it isn’t normal for girls to let random guys finger f**k them on a dance floor.
Oh well. I don't know why I care so much in the first place.
 
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You can get herpes on your fingers by sticking then in someone's vadge.

You get your fingers infected and you start touching things because "hey you got some blisters on your fingers, how did that happen?" And you spread, spread, spread that sh1t around, even to your wankie when you hold it to pee.

Brilliant!
Totally true! Herpes is not that hard to catch. I’m kind of a germ phob so when I read what he did the first thought was actually ‘did he have clean hands? What did he touch half the night before sticking his dirty fingers up there?’ All those door handles and table tops... not to mention the restroom...
 

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Totally true! Herpes is not that hard to catch. I’m kind of a germ phob so when I read what he did the first thought was actually ‘did he have clean hands? What did he touch half the night before sticking his dirty fingers up there?’ All those door handles and table tops... not to mention the restroom...
In all honesty, I've never thought to myself "hmm are his hands clean?"

But now I will, thanks a"lot" lol
 
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