Whats your number limit with Plates, contacting women, etc?

[ALnotAI]

Stop talking out of your ass. Everyone knows you don't get laid and probably never had a girlfriend. You're an incel obsessed with posting on pickup forums lol. You are definitely a SPAZ and you definitely SPAM this and every other pickup forum.

In any of my postings, you'll notice that I've never gave any thought/post towards ranking of women. This is one of the rare times I'm posting abt it.

We'll I used to do that, talk abt it when in my teens and especially so during the times I lacked s€xual experiences, you know, ohhh thats a 10! and my fellow buddies will all nod their heads in agreement, we talked as if we've fvcked dozens, you know those locker room banters but as time and experience grew, women r either s€xy or not, is she tight or not, high mileage or not, that's it.

The preoccupation with HB's 5,6,7,8,9 -10 imo speaks volumes of any man's experience and expertise irl.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm pretty sure I know who this poster is anyway. It's the same one who spams EVERY pua forum out there with dozens of accounts at the same time, and you've been banned from every single one lol.

Guys this SPAZ account is an OCD psycho who is absolutely obsessed with pua and literally creates dozen os accounts EVERYWHERE and basically posts 24/7 on pickup forums. This poster lives at home, has no job, and lives on the internet his entire day and life.

More details forthcoming. I doubt I'll waste my time much. Much more satisfying to see him rot away on the computer.

Spaz analysis is spot on though. Very Good consultation.

 

[Spaz]

I think it’s assumed, unless otherwise stated, that two people in the casual dating phase are still meeting up with other people. Most women assume this in the beginning of dating and they keep their options open. If they feel that it’s a FWB situation,they keep their options open. If they don’t see the situation progressing into anything meaningful, they keep their options open. If they are just using the guy for sex/money/ social status, they keep their options open. If they are not that into the guy but it’s something to do or an ego boost, they keep their options open.

Any woman who seems ok with being a perpetual plate to you, and is not keeping her options open, is most likely dumber than a bag of rocks with low value low self esteem. Or you are her side plate and she is in relationship with someone else.

Women don’t like to share men, and typically, have no interest in being in some guy’s rotation when a better deal is available which is probably why you don’t see a lot of very hot higher value women sticking around as one of many plates. They don’t have to settle for that.

Of course they don't like sharing men.

I got found out eventually, some skip and went their own way, some got super mad and got into fights with the others (then became bff lol), some said let the best women win, some got mad but wanted to be no.1 and insist I keep my "others" discreet out of the public eye etc.

As for the scale you guys keep talking abt and being obsess by it, just so you know, take any plain Jane or even a decent looking scullery maid from the street, with a proper grooming and some great makeup artistry, she'll turn into a HB10. Add some mannerism skills, she'll be a HB10 with an attitude in matter of days.

I know it and so does many man with experience knows it, which is why I'm not easily fooled by a women's mere appearance. The beauty of a women is such; plain but beautiful, shapely without the need for revealing cloths and feminine as in her movements and mannerism. That's the one I want and drawn to.

 

[Spaz]

Yeah, it's a pickup guy from the Sacramento area. He never gets laid but loves going to Gay Pride Parades all over Cali lol. He's been banned from every pickup community and forum he's ever been a part of. He used to spam Casanova crew like crazy and basically lies and makeup sh1t and lie through this teeth. He says random, crazy sh1t to try to get a reaction. Look up "sexter" from Casanova crew.

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Someone else said I was the gay dude hanging out in Bangkok.

Come'on make up ur mind lmao

 

[Spaz]

I'm pretty sure I know who this poster is anyway. It's the same one who spams EVERY pua forum out there with dozens of accounts at the same time, and you've been banned from every single one lol.

Guys this SPAZ account is an OCD psycho who is absolutely obsessed with pua and literally creates dozen os accounts EVERYWHERE and basically posts 24/7 on pickup forums. This poster lives at home, has no job, and lives on the internet his entire day and life.

More details forthcoming. I doubt I'll waste my time much. Much more satisfying to see him rot away on the computer.

Uh huh. Okay I believe you.

Now don't be shy, let it all out...1 by 1

 

[Roober]

I think it’s assumed, unless otherwise stated, that two people in the casual dating phase are still meeting up with other people. Most women assume this in the beginning of dating and they keep their options open. If they feel that it’s a FWB situation,they keep their options open. If they don’t see the situation progressing into anything meaningful, they keep their options open. If they are just using the guy for sex/money/ social status, they keep their options open. If they are not that into the guy but it’s something to do or an ego boost, they keep their options open.

Any woman who seems ok with being a perpetual plate to you, and is not keeping her options open, is most likely dumber than a bag of rocks with low value low self esteem. Or you are her side plate and she is in relationship with someone else.

Women don’t like to share men, and typically, have no interest in being in some guy’s rotation when a better deal is available which is probably why you don’t see a lot of very hot higher value women sticking around as one of many plates. They don’t have to settle for that.

I've wondered about this with my current and ex girlfriend. From what I've gathered, both did not date at all when single, and they never suggested any inclination contrary to that. My current gf talks a ton, is about as much of an open book as I've ever met, and was literally single when she was single. Hit the gym, hung out with girlfriends, hiked, and all sorts of things. She has no idea what OLD or dating is all about.

She even stated that once we started talking, she didnt even consider anyone else. She dug a bit, and had initially assumed the same with me, but realized the meaning behind my "I dont remember". Maybe it's her upbringing? Traditional japanese, solid family structure, and security where there wasn't a constant need for affection from the opposite sex.

Has anyone else encountered a woman or man that only talks to one person at a time? It seems very old school. Is our society so desperate for attention that we seek it constantly from others, providing a security blanket from fragile psyches?

 

[Spaz]

I've wondered about this with my current and ex girlfriend. From what I've gathered, both did not date at all when single, and they never suggested any inclination contrary to that. My current gf talks a ton, is about as much of an open book as I've ever met, and was literally single when she was single. Hit the gym, hung out with girlfriends, hiked, and all sorts of things. She has no idea what OLD or dating is all about.

She even stated that once we started talking, she didnt even consider anyone else. She dug a bit, and had initially assumed the same with me, but realized the meaning behind my "I dont remember". Maybe it's her upbringing? Traditional japanese, solid family structure, and security where there wasn't a constant need for affection from the opposite sex.

Has anyone else encountered a woman or man that only talks to one person at a time? It seems very old school. Is our society so desperate for attention that we seek it constantly from others, providing a security blanket from fragile psyches?

If it's from a traditional background then yes.

Japanese and Chinese women that's been brought up traditionally as in clinging to their centuries of traditional values have certain set of standards that's both alluring and yet maddening.

If you were "caught" cheating now, they'll be mad at you and punish you in various ways. But they will also insist that you don't shame them, as in if you hv other "desires" , don't bring it home or flaunt it.

The "old" school you mentioned is not old per se, it's just their value system that they truly believe in differs from the majority.

My current plate of more then 10 years is Chinese and she refuses to wear any clothing deemed "too revealing" and yet when she dolls up for social gatherings men are always drawn towards her. She enjoys the attention but always maintains that "respectful" stance.

My former Japanese girlfriend was the same too. Although all that bowing stuff gets old to me.

 

[ALnotAI]

Your "Japanese" girlfriend lol, what a joke. You mean your made in Japan blow up doll. Everyone knows you're a virgin, dude. This is just getting ridiculous.

If it's from a traditional background then yes.

Japanese and Chinese women that's been brought up traditionally as in clinging to their centuries of traditional values have certain set of standards that's both alluring and yet maddening.

If you were "caught" cheating now, they'll be mad at you and punish you in various ways. But they will also insist that you don't shame them, as in if you hv other "desires" , don't bring it home or flaunt it.

The "old" school you mentioned is not old per se, it's just their value system that they truly believe in differs from the majority.

My current plate of more then 10 years is Chinese and she refuses to wear any clothing deemed "too revealing" and yet when she dolls up for social gatherings men are always drawn towards her. She enjoys the attention but always maintains that "respectful" stance.

My former Japanese girlfriend was the same too. Although all that bowing stuff gets old to me.

 

[Spaz]

Your "Japanese" girlfriend lol, what a joke. You mean your made in Japan blow up doll. Everyone knows you're a virgin, dude. This is just getting ridiculous.

Japan is just north of me (wrote abt her way back, look it up lol)

Oh wait, you've the guy who thinks I'm somewhere in the states? Lmao

 

[Murk]

Spaz is in Pattaya with a new ladyboy each night for £2

 

[Glassguy]

This is a topic that probably doesnt come up enough for discussion but should. Once you have gotten to a certain level, most of the dates you set up will not flake, most of the dates you go on will want to see you again and most of the new women you contact will want to go on dates.

This brings us to a very good but tough situation. You have more interested women than time for them.

Once you have had sex with enough of them, what is your plate limit? What is your maximum number of dates in a week limit? How do you manage your rotation?

This plate management topic is not discussed enough on here. But once a guy finds himself in this situation, it becomes a little harder to manage while maintaining interest.

For instance, I got to a point using OLD where I was getting lots of numbers, setting up lots of dates, having a very low flake rate(like 1 in 20) which meant I was meeting a lot of the women and almost all of them wanted to see me again. Out of maybe 10 dates, 9 of them wanted to see me again. I can't manage 9 women so I ended up cutting it down to 7. For about 2 months I was seeing all 7 and banging all of them in rotation...once every 10 days with my top plate or two in there twice.

This literally became physically exhausting to the point my d!ck started hurting from having so much sex. It was sore when I woke up, it hurt to pee(not from catching anything I'm clean) and it got to the point I was having to turn down dates and sex...

I'm just wondering what everyone else's experience with this is and how did you manage your plates. Whats the most you had in rotation at once? How did you maintain interest, etc.

Hopefully this can be a thread where guys can discuss what to do once you have a lot of women interested in you instead of how to get a lot of women interested in you...

This is a good topic. I think it really depends on several variables:

1.) How much time you have (career, kids, hobbies, etc). The more free time you have, the more plates you can spin in any given time.

2.) It depends on the chicks/plates: some women will literally chase you forever. Some will throw in the towel after only several weeks of not getting enough attention from you.

3.) It depends on your location: If you live in a rural area, word will get out fast that you are a player or only wanting sex without any type of commitment. Some women will be ok with this and chase you. Some will avoid you that could potentially be good LTR prospects. If you live in a bigger area, you have many more women at your disposal and you can literally do whatever you want because you will be spinning lots of plates that are in no way affiliated with your social circles.

For me, I tend to stick around the 3-5 number. Any more than that and I am burning opportunities due to lack of time.

But I am always looking for new candidates, so I may be "talking to" as many as 10+. I know that plates wont hang around forever so I am looking for new and better replacements. Always.

 

[Spaz]

Spaz is in Pattaya with a new ladyboy each night for £2

That's expensive. I like to negotiate, I'll take them at wholesale price of £0.50 lol

 

[marmel75]

This is a good topic. I think it really depends on several variables:

1.) How much time you have (career, kids, hobbies, etc). The more free time you have, the more plates you can spin in any given time.

2.) It depends on the chicks/plates: some women will literally chase you forever. Some will throw in the towel after only several weeks of not getting enough attention from you.

3.) It depends on your location: If you live in a rural area, word will get out fast that you are a player or only wanting sex without any type of commitment. Some women will be ok with this and chase you. Some will avoid you that could potentially be good LTR prospects. If you live in a bigger area, you have many more women at your disposal and you can literally do whatever you want because you will be spinning lots of plates that are in no way affiliated with your social circles.

For me, I tend to stick around the 3-5 number. Any more than that and I am burning opportunities due to lack of time.

But I am always looking for new candidates, so I may be "talking to" as many as 10+. I know that plates wont hang around forever so I am looking for new and better replacements. Always.

So do you think this is why women complain that guys talk to them forever but wont ask them on a date? I get the feeling that this might SOMETIMES be the case but more often guys are just afraid to meet because they are afraid the woman wont want to talk to them anymore if they don't like them in person.

I've found its much harder to get a woman out on a date once you have been talking to her for a while at least in my experiences with this when i tried it...how do you manage this without them losing interest in meeting?

 

[Spaz]

So do you think this is why women complain that guys talk to them forever but wont ask them on a date? I get the feeling that this might SOMETIMES be the case but more often guys are just afraid to meet because they are afraid the woman wont want to talk to them anymore if they don't like them in person.

I've found its much harder to get a woman out on a date once you have been talking to her for a while at least in my experiences with this when i tried it...how do you manage this without them losing interest in meeting?

Depends on the context and ability of the guy to make a woman interested. I'll post a snapshot of a message I just received, I invited 1st but got no reply, then she countered tomorrow.

Deleted text - business related.

 

[Glassguy]

So do you think this is why women complain that guys talk to them forever but wont ask them on a date? I get the feeling that this might SOMETIMES be the case but more often guys are just afraid to meet because they are afraid the woman wont want to talk to them anymore if they don't like them in person.

I've found its much harder to get a woman out on a date once you have been talking to her for a while at least in my experiences with this when i tried it...how do you manage this without them losing interest in meeting?

Its situational. Sometimes I ask them out in a short amount of time and sometimes I just string it along and then ask them out. Stringing along being 3-4 days of messaging here and there.

I can tell you this- if they get sexual early I jump on it (no pun intended). Horny women will move on quickly if you dont act like a man and take advantage.

My current situation is this: I am talking to 10+ women and actively seeing/banging 3. So I dont have a tremendous amount of time to take on new plates. So I might message here and there for a few days to gauge her interest level and even more importantly, my interest level in her.

If she makes the grade I will ask her out. If not, I dont waste time on it and work on others.