You aren't understanding my point. Gay thoughts are not possible in a person who is straight. It doesn't matter if you have never so much as touched a another man in your entire life, its not the act that defines your sexuality, its the attraction, and if you find your self aroused or curious about other men, you are on the gay spectrum and there's no getting away from that.We might think it's a gross and representative of a complete breakdown of manhood. If his gay thoughts are due to the dating bs then it's weakness. Stay on your purpose, hoez CHASE.