That's actually a very logical hypothesis, incredibly so.I’ve read through this. I understand where you are coming from Spaz.
First off Hypergamy is a biological response. It can’t be reasoned with. HOWEVER, the age gap for you and your woman may be perfect. 18 years?
First off 35 year old men should be marrying 18-21 year olds. 21 may even be too old and I will tell you why.
Girls at a young age, now jump on the c@ck carousel very early. Most will have 20+ partners by 21. In some cases, much higher.
Here is the problem with this and it is also biological. Biology and physiology can’t be bargained with or reasoned with.
A woman will sexually imprint with a man or men. Every one c@ck she sucks or rides, to a greater or lesser degree, imprints on her and is equal to about 20 girls when the guy rides. That’s 1/20
This means that men have imprinted sexually on her. This is some serious damage to a woman. Men don’t have this biological DNA driven holder that keeps her bound to a man until he gets killed or fails as a man in her eyes. Society has manipulated what failure is to an absurdity.
A woman with more imprints is emotionally not able to imprint to any depth that will keep her partnered up. She will always pine, very secretly, for that one or two that ran away. She will, as long as she’s able, search for the type of man who imprinted on her the very first time. Not the first time she had sex in some cases. The first to imprint deeply.
Even if she was to even find the original guy, he’s changed and she can and will drop into depression.
My take. I do not hate women. I LOVE them. I had my rage and then my epiphanies. I think their scemes and plots are adorable. Up to a point. She nags? She’s gone.
I find it really sad and in a way, heart breaking that these woman are truly damaged beyond repair. How do you remove 40 or 50 or way more breeding imprints from a woman’s soul and heart?
When I was a young teenage my mother was sitting on a chair in the living room and she said...
“My god. Women are destroying themselves. We are what holds the world together and we are destroying the world.”
I've actually written somewhere in the forums, if u care to check that men should ideally date or marry women base on; 1/2 + 7 and below.
Example; 30 (ur age)/2 + 7 = 22 years old and below.
Meaning a 30 year old man would have an equal EQ as a 22 year old woman.
The higher the EQ a man has the higher the probability a relationship would last.
The man would hv tremendous leadership advantage here even if he is not what we would call a typical leader but to her he is.
Anyhow back to your theory on the imprint, I've heard abt this way back in the 90's and truthfully I've pondered over it, me imprinting women sounded so cool back then haha
But it's rooted in the studies of animals and their mating habits. Female animals, has limited ability to analyse and would therefore be highly dependent on their instincts, one of which is using sexual imprint as a guide to favouring whom to mate with.
I highly suspect the hypergamy theory being derived from watching monkeys. I've spent much of my childhood in a real jungle with real monkeys to recall observing some startling similarities.