Survey: How Many Women Openly Approach You?

[Albert Steam]

I mean she initiates talking or touching.

"Forcing" you to talk or touch you (by invading body space or staring for indefinite period of time) also counts.

Vote.

 

[Murk]

Hit n miss, most if not all times I go out, half the time they will be hot. If you go out with positive vibes, look like you're having fun and seem approachable you should have no problem.

 

[IKO69]

As far as strangers directly touching or talking to me not very often. It's not something I am honestly cognizant of and keep track of but it would make for a good experiment. I might start a log. I live in Boston and am out there every day or so for about two hours. I get a couple of women per day who don't "look" at me, as in as our paths are about to cross they look down. This can be 50/50 so I don't think much of it. I only care about invitations from women who are obviously interested. There is usually 1 woman or so per week who will directly smile at me when I look at them (who aren't like elderly, otherwise that happens all the time lol).

 

[MatureDJ]

But the women that approach me are fat.

 

[Billtx49]

If a woman sits down next to me at a not fully crowded bar, it’s game on. That’s all I need to know.

 

[bigdave17]

probably 4-8 times a month

 

[skinnyguy]

But the women that approach me are fat.

Yup. I got all these OLD whales who are messaging me first.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I mean she initiates talking or touching.

"Forcing" you to talk or touch you (by invading body space or staring for indefinite period of time) also counts.

Vote.

It happens but, A) not as attractive as I am into or B) not nearly enough to count on dismissing the active dating role (good approach) C) masculine women don't get my **** hard.

Women are always invading male spaces be it the gym, firefighting, men's groups, gaming etc. Its what women do.

Op, IMHO most guys who focus on this have AA and don't go get baeee

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

But the women that approach me are fat.

A little secret. They are all fat or nearing fat.

Honda Rouuuseeeeeey was bulking season. She got thin with 24/7 trainers, nutrition's, and intense training. She looks at carbs and her ass is getting fat.

Most women hold on till like 23 and then its downhill.

 

[flowtheory]

Never. I often feel invisible. Then again I don’t go to bars, clubs, etc.
Do women even approach in normal public places where alcohol doesn’t apply?

 

[IKO69]

Never. I often feel invisible. Then again I don’t go to bars, clubs, etc.
Do women even approach in normal public places where alcohol doesn’t apply?

You probably just don't notice it.

Yes, women are always "on" but in those places you listed they are more likely to try to make things happen. It's a more appropriate environment.

 

[Albert Steam]

I should've been more clear. I was referring more to times when you're in a social situation, esp. clubs and bars, but also social mixers, happy hours, parties, concerts, anything of a strictly social nature.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I'm not that goodlooking to actually have women approaching me but it happens to me sometime the same Blitx said in post 9.

Subtle signs of interest to facilitate my approach, needless to say it happens often in certain countries and almost never in others.

Im counting only attractive girls.

 

[IKO69]

You also need to clarify "approach" because the way women and men think about approaching are two different things. For a woman, being within like 10 ft of a guy is an approach and it is up to the guy to sense it and make things happen.

If you mean the woman actually comes up to you and starts talking or something that is a different story. The last time I had a woman "approach" me was at a bar about a month ago. She sat right next to me - there were many other seats she could've taken and I was sitting at the end so it wasn't even really the best place to sit at a bar if that makes sense (the tv was infront and I just wanted to see the World Cup game). I know she "approached" me because I talked to her and she was into it, defenses were down etc. you can just tell when a woman likes you and is talking to you.

The last time I have actually had a woman flat out boldly approach me was like a few days before Halloween. There was a Halloween themed pub crawl that day and I had stopped into this lounge with a friend of mine. My Michael Myers dressed ass (lol, didn't have the mask on, just the coveralls) was sitting at a table and I was having a mixed drink when not far from me there was this group of what I think were friends, they were hanging in the dance floor part of the lounge. One of them came up to me and asked if I could take a photo of them and I did. Afterwards when I gave the girl here phone back and was about to go back to my table the girl said you have to take a picture with my friends, can you be in the group photo? And I thought well this doesn't usually happen and I took one, then I started to talk to with a couple of the girls a bit. They were very young like 20, so too young for me, but I was pretty sure one of them at least liked me. This should give you an idea of how they operate; they are never direct and usually talk to you on the grounds of some other purpose - you have to be quick to decode the situation.

 

[flowtheory]

You probably just don't notice it.

Yes, women are always "on" but in those places you listed they are more likely to try to make things happen. It's a more appropriate environment.

I think when women approach and want to be noticed, they make damn sure the man knows. Most women glance at me then look away at break neck speed and don’t look back.
Or turn there head away from me, when coming close, or immediately look down if walking head on down the road.

 

[IKO69]

I think when women approach and want to be noticed, they make damn sure the man knows. Most women glance at me then look away at break neck speed and don’t look back.
Or turn there head away from me, when coming close, or immediately look down if walking head on down the road.

That's your perception of things but it could very well be the opposite. Of those women, some could actually like you, esp. the one's doing the last thing you wrote. Now aday's I just look right at women but there used to be a time when I was a teenager and I'd see a woman i'd like I wouldn't look at them and would find myself looking down as I approached them.

Because of the fact it is 50/50 I mainly only will approach women who when they look at me they'll smile.

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

It depends where I am. In Portland I get approached at least once each time I go to a club. Here in Ohio where I go to graduate school I get approached alot less. I base this on everyone having their own "market".

 

[lizardking82]

probably 4-8 times a month

If women approach you 4-8 times a month and you post what you post here, then there is something seriously wrong with you.

 

[MatureDJ]

It depends where I am. In Portland I get approached at least once each time I go to a club. Here in Ohio where I go to graduate school I get approached alot less. I base this on everyone having their own "market".

I presume you mean Portland, OR. They seem to be well-fed there.

 

[Albert Steam]

Survey says AT LEAST 83% of you are never approached or approached infrequently.

Yet, you all espouse no contact and going your own way. That means at least 83% of the board are incels. And that would be the minimum percentage.