Get a woman who dumped me back?

[skinnyguy]

Neediness is your worst enemy. Took me 20 years to learn this

 

[Spaz]

I've said this many times; women r allowed 2 hv standards when dating or in an LTR with a man.

If a woman leaves/next you, then you do not meet her standards. You might hv met her initial standards of physical attractions but failed on the long term or character attractions.

Women can either love you or hate you, don't take the middle path; the nice guy path.

The nice guy is actually a needy guy full of insecurities. These insecurity is borne by lack of knowledge and experiences.

Someone mentioned frame in the above posts, that's what u r lacking. Ur current frame is weak but the good news is that it can be strengthen.

There's plenty of guidance and knowledge here for you to achieve what you desire.

 

[R.U.G.]

Grow a pair. Go get money, get game, get a life.

In 3-5yrs she will be fat as ****kkk single mom and you can have baeee(s) late teens early 20s.

There's no sweeter feel then acquiring top form SMV and running into train wreck women from the past.

Its as if, life trolls women harder then you or I ever could have.

Edit: as for money/lifestyle, its not a necessity if you got game or looks. Its more about success markers. About the dominance hierarchy. About winning.

Somewhat agree. No all women in five years or so these days will be single moms or have cratered SMV. Depends on how they take care of themselves. At 25, he should most def. be shooting for 18 - 23's, but who knows. He needs to work on his frame and self-confidence. We've all been there before.

 

[Spaz]

Only cucks chase cratered SMV.

Look, women are simple creatures. Their motivation is hypergamy which is encoded in her DNA. Similar to the TV show Westworld, AI and people follow their code. Its easy as that. Its hardwired and it explains human behavior as not random but in actuality pretty predictable.

Women leave due to hypergamy. Its one if the following. That being, she left for higher value man or be single as in skiing down cawk mountain. Translation? Cratered SMV. Its only when smv had plummeted, when Chad's stop calling, her "epiphany phase" or baby rabies kicks off into overdrive. Its said women who go from ambiguity, vague, hot/cold to, "where is this going?" Pushy, demanding, over bearing all due to failing sex appeal and fertility.

I repeat, only cucks pursue their little cherish after Chad's done with his booty call.

U hv been watching too much youtubes, westworld series and reading god dam red pill bullcraps ideas.

What u sud be doing is living the life of a Don Juan instead of spouting post after post; cratered smv and cuck and hypergamy and whatever the fvck "blame all women" bullcrap ideas roaming in that skull of yours.

Men should learn 1st to be a great motherfvcking man.

And then he can be of use to society.

And don't even bother lying that u hv massive experience with women. Everyone with a modicum of any successes with women knows u r a noob.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I definitely will.. thank you bro gonna be strong im sure she will stick around.

That “bro” is actually a “sis”.

 

[MichaelA]

Somewhat agree. No all women in five years or so these days will be single moms or have cratered SMV. Depends on how they take care of themselves. At 25, he should most def. be shooting for 18 - 23's, but who knows. He needs to work on his frame and self-confidence. We've all been there before.

Thanks definetly i will work on my frame.. one small maybe stupid question.. but.. would it be weak ro re-add her on facebook?

 

[MichaelA]

Neediness is your worst enemy. Took me 20 years to learn this

So true.. at 25 im working so hard on this to be controlable.

 

[Billtx49]

Thanks definetly i will work on my frame.. one small maybe stupid question.. but.. would it be weak ro re-add her on facebook?

Yes.
You deleted her for a good logical reason. A re-add will make you look and feel weak and indecisive. A strong man stands with his decisions if they’re good ones.

 

[R.U.G.]

Thanks definetly i will work on my frame.. one small maybe stupid question.. but.. would it be weak ro re-add her on facebook?

Yes. This will be a good learning experience for you. Forget about her. Next time, always just say, something such as what I posted above. Okay, it is what it is. Take care. If it's via message or voice, it works the same. If it is in person, just look into her eyes, and say, Hey, it's okay. You take care and walk away. That is the only chance you'd have for getting them to reach out to you again. Now, if they reach out to you, do you really want them? That means their replacement for you didn't work out. For me, I'd say no. However, you may be able to get them to come and earn their way back into your rotation. Watch AMS, he goes into this better than I can.

Next, you need to watch my bro, Alpha Male Strategies on Youtube. You should also watch Red Pill Coach. He has some great knowledge on you as well. Do you like to read? Hope so.

The book of pook - Free
Rollo Tomassi's The Rational Male
Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends & Influence People - free online. Use google.

 

[Igetit!]

Thanks definetly i will work on my frame.. one small maybe stupid question.. but.. would it be weak ro re-add her on facebook?

YES......it WOULD be.

If you don't mind my asking....WHY would you want to do this?

For what purpose? What for?

I assume that you made this thread seeking advice. You got A LOT of it,damn good advice....yet,instead of beginning to apply it,your mind is on something POINTLESS like re-adding her on FaceBook. I say just let it be. Don't "re-add" her,in fact,don't do anything.

Your ONLY focus should be on re-wiring your brain. I had to do that YEARS ago....and I'll tell you right now...it IS WORK....work that you won't be able to start while still looking back at this chick. You may not even need to date AT ALL for a short period of time.....I didn't. I tried to,but I couldn't focus on learning,growing,and understanding more about myself and own shortcomings,AND deal with all women's B.S. and head games at the same time.

Course,that was a long time ago for me.

One very,VERY important thing I learned was that,a woman can be sort of a MIRRIOR for a man. She,through her seemingly odd behavior at times can show you YOURSELF. See,I started my so-called "journey" trying to figure out and understand women.....but everything I learned kept pointing back to myself. Then I noticed the more I learned and corrected failings within myself,the more women's behaviors towards me started to change.

You....have to fix YOU. Don't worry about FaceBook,tweetin',texting,instant chat,or any of that nonsense....just go home and start to work on yourself from the inside out. If you want to know where to begin,start with NEEDINESS. The internal work is a little harder,but you can start BEHAVING YOUR WAY to success RIGHT NOW. First.....


Leave this girl ALONE. Don't call her,don't text her,don't chat,don't google,don't "tweet"....don't do sh1t. Don't re-add her to facebook. Don't do anything.

You have to understand that you and YOU ALONE....ARE ENOUGH....that,if you can get one girl,you can get another. You also have to understand that,being needy is A TURN OFF. You need to know that neediness not only likely wrecked this relationship,but if you don't fix this sh1t,it'll likely destroy any future relationships with women you try to have. And if you don't understand that it's neediness within YOU,you'll go from chick to chick thinking the women are the problem.


Just start to work on yourself man. There's plenty of threads here to help,plenty of members here to advise if you need some direction.

 

[MichaelA]

YES......it WOULD be.

If you don't mind my asking....WHY would you want to do this?

For what purpose? What for?

I assume that you made this thread seeking advice. You got A LOT of it,damn good advice....yet,instead of beginning to apply it,your mind is on something POINTLESS like re-adding her on FaceBook. I say just let it be. Don't "re-add" her,in fact,don't do anything.

Your ONLY focus should be on re-wiring your brain. I had to do that YEARS ago....and I'll tell you right now...it IS WORK....work that you won't be able to start while still looking back at this chick. You may not even need to date AT ALL for a short period of time.....I didn't. I tried to,but I couldn't focus on learning,growing,and understanding more about myself and own shortcomings,AND deal with all women's B.S. and head games at the same time.

Course,that was a long time ago for me.

One very,VERY important thing I learned was that,a woman can be sort of a MIRRIOR for a man. She,through her seemingly odd behavior at times can show you YOURSELF. See,I started my so-called "journey" trying to figure out and understand women.....but everything I learned kept pointing back to myself. Then I noticed the more I learned and corrected failings within myself,the more women's behaviors towards me started to change.

You....have to fix YOU. Don't worry about FaceBook,tweetin',texting,instant chat,or any of that nonsense....just go home and start to work on yourself from the inside out. If you want to know where to begin,start with NEEDINESS. The internal work is a little harder,but you can start BEHAVING YOUR WAY to success RIGHT NOW. First.....


Leave this girl ALONE. Don't call her,don't text her,don't chat,don't google,don't "tweet"....don't do sh1t. Don't re-add her to facebook. Don't do anything.

You have to understand that you and YOU ALONE....ARE ENOUGH....that,if you can get one girl,you can get another. You also have to understand that,being needy is A TURN OFF. You need to know that neediness not only likely wrecked this relationship,but if you don't fix this sh1t,it'll likely destroy any future relationships with women you try to have. And if you don't understand that it's neediness within YOU,you'll go from chick to chick thinking the women are the problem.


Just start to work on yourself man. There's plenty of threads here to help,plenty of members here to advise if you need some direction.

Hey thanks a lot for the insights.

I was not needy in the relationship I was too available. I never texted twice if she didn’t responded never called again I’f she didnt call back.

What was the problem I could not make her fall in love with me, she got bored no sex and left.

The purpose is of re-adding her which I will not is to keep some kind of communication but that’s the needy me speaking now, logically I will never call or contact her again.

I tried to force things got rejected time is the best healer.

I don’t need her to be happy I will be happy without her if she ever reaches out trust me you guys will be first to know but till then i ain’t gonna be the same guy I can already feel a change inside me.

The old me 3 years ago would had blown up her phone chase and stalk her house, the new me just left.

Need adjustments that’s what I need. Thanks for the help from each one here. It makes me stronger-smarter.

 

[Spaz]

Go find threads written by POOK, he offers plentiful of insights, I've read some of his postings, it's spot on.

Start off reading it and then progress to read the DJ Bible.

 

[MichaelA]

Go find threads written by POOK, he offers plentiful of insights, I've read some of his postings, it's spot on.

Start off reading it and then progress to read the DJ Bible.

Will do now thanks a lot.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Somewhat agree. No all women in five years or so these days will be single moms or have cratered SMV. Depends on how they take care of themselves. At 25, he should most def. be shooting for 18 - 23's, but who knows. He needs to work on his frame and self-confidence. We've all been there before.

Chick leaves @ age 24. + 5 = 29.

29 ain't top form SMV.

The point is to step it up. Meanwhile, society, girl power, feminism, #metoo, and betas + free drinks be cheering skanks off the cliff.

Every guy should be aiming at early side of twenty. Not **** carousel std mutants.