Get a woman who dumped me back?

[MichaelA]

Hey people..

Wondering how to get a woman who dumped me for the nice guy no attraction left type of situation.

Been dating her for around 7 to 8 months.

I said to her if she changes her mind to get in touch.

Deleted her from facebook also not really because im pissed of or anything is just easily for me to move on.

Last time we talked tried to force a date but didnt work got some nice guy excuses.

 

[anon00]

You got a long way to go bud, get started on reading the rational male by rollo tomassi, and you have to accept right now that the breakup is going to be long, she most likely will have sex with others guys in this time and that there is no such thing as a investment, so move on to the next girl when you have your game on.

Its likely something you dont wanna hear, i didnt myself, but will have to swallow the pill bro. Get busy, got a lot of work to do.

 

[MichaelA]

You got a long way to go bud, get started on reading the rational male by rollo tomassi, and you have to accept right now that the breakup is going to be long, she most likely will have sex with others guys in this time and that there is no such thing as a investment, so move on to the next girl when you have your game on.

Its likely something you dont wanna hear, i didnt myself, but will have to swallow the pill bro. Get busy, got a lot of work to do.

Thanks mate I already know the reality.. lots of work to do. Will check out rollo tomassi.

 

[MichaelA]

You got a long way to go bud, get started on reading the rational male by rollo tomassi, and you have to accept right now that the breakup is going to be long, she most likely will have sex with others guys in this time and that there is no such thing as a investment, so move on to the next girl when you have your game on.

Its likely something you dont wanna hear, i didnt myself, but will have to swallow the pill bro. Get busy, got a lot of work to do.

Wondering if deleting her from the social place will see it as weakness?

 

[R.U.G.]

Depends. I'd let it sit for a bit as long as it doesn't bother you. Don't delete or block her. She may come around and say hi. Then, you can invite her back to your place for sex. If she contacts you, it gives you the power.

 

[MichaelA]

Depends. I'd let it sit for a bit as long as it doesn't bother you. Don't delete or block her. She may come around and say hi. Then, you can invite her back to your place for sex. If she contacts you, it gives you the power.

I did delete her from fb yesterday.

 

[R.U.G.]

Oh well. Soldier on and don't look back. Next time, when this happens, don't over react. Just so, okay, no problem and take care. You responding like you don't give a fvck will have an effect on her hamster brain. Thus, she may come back on your turns at a later date when her new fvck buddy fizzles out.

Stay strong.

 

[MichaelA]

Oh well. Soldier on and don't look back. Next time, when this happens, don't over react. Just so, okay, no problem and take care. You responding like you don't give a fvck will have an effect on her hamster brain. Thus, she may come back on your turns at a later date when her new fvck buddy fizzles out.

Stay strong.

I am strong.. ain’t reaching out that’s for sure. Problem is in a moment of emotional weakness when she texted the dumbing message I replied with call me if u change ur mind response.

Should have said take care.

Bad way to go, I’m sure deleting her on fb doesn’t matters that much she has my phone number.

 

[sazc]

Deleting then from social media sends the message that you are totally butthurt. It's better to leave them connected, have a GREAT life, and post all about it. IMO.

But you also have to temper that with your own emotional well well being. If you need to NC to get distance so you can move on, then don't worry about what she thinks, put yourself first and do you and don't give a fvk.

If you are ever questioned on why you disconnected on social media, you can respond "we dated. I have no use for her as a "friend" so I deleted her"

Yes, it can be as simple as that.

If you are ever questioned as to why you stay friends on social media you can respond "her? I don't think of her at all, I forgot we were connected"

So then we consider the larger question of "deleting, but not from all platforms" remains. Yea, that looks strange. I'd go all or none.

 

[MichaelA]

Deleting then from social media sends the message that you are totally butthurt. It's better to leave them connected, have a GREAT life, and post all about it. IMO.

But you also have to temper that with your own emotional well well being. If you need to NC to get distance so you can move on, then don't worry about what she thinks, put yourself first and do you and don't give a fvk.

If you are ever questioned on why you disconnected on social media, you can respond "we dated. I have no use for her as a "friend" so I deleted her"

Yes, it can be as simple as that.

If you are ever questioned as to why you stay friends on social media you can respond "her? I don't think of her at all, I forgot we were connected"

So then we consider the larger question of "deleting, but not from all platforms" remains. Yea, that looks strange. I'd go all or none.

yeah well what is done is done, i deleted her point being is that if she wants to reach out she has my number.

i know i probably should have not done that but now aint going back.

I realized today that my statement saying call me if u change your mind and then deleting her from facebook is not working well together.

 

[sazc]

yeah well what is done is done, i deleted her point being is that if she wants to reach out she has my number.

i know i probably should have not done that but now aint going back.

I realized today that my statement saying call me if u change your mind and then deleting her from facebook is not working well together.

Don't get too focused on the "shoulda, woulda, coulda" don't beat yourself up for how you handled things in the past. Now is the time to start defining who you want to be moving forward, how you want to be treated moving forward, and sticking to those standards.

 

[MichaelA]

Don't get too focused on the "shoulda, woulda, coulda" don't beat yourself up for how you handled things in the past. Now is the time to start defining who you want to be moving forward, how you want to be treated moving forward, and sticking to those standards.

I definitely will.. thank you bro gonna be strong im sure she will stick around.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I definitely will.. thank you bro gonna be strong im sure she will stick around.

Run towards your purpose .The interested babes will pursue you. For now worry about yourself.

 

[Banelord]

So she dump you and said your a nice guy? Dude u need to work on that. If u dont it will keep on happening...u need to learn to create spark.

 

[MichaelA]

So she dump you and said your a nice guy? Dude u need to work on that. If u dont it will keep on happening...u need to learn to create spark.

What would be the best way to create the spark in your opinion?

Would like to see the point of view.

 

[R.U.G.]

I am strong.. ain’t reaching out that’s for sure. Problem is in a moment of emotional weakness when she texted the dumbing message I replied with call me if u change ur mind response.

Should have said take care.

Bad way to go, I’m sure deleting her on fb doesn’t matters that much she has my phone number.

Bro, you're still butt hurt from her nexting you. You need to learn some game. How old are you?

 

[MichaelA]

Bro, you're still butt hurt from her nexting you. You need to learn some game. How old are you?

I am 25 years old bro.

 

[R.U.G.]

I am 25 years old bro.

Need to work on your frame. Never let a woman see you care. The one who cares the least in the relationship has the most power. In the future, should this happen again, and it will, you just say, okay, no problem. It is what it is, take care. That statement has more effect than deleting or getting upset with any of them. Never show your cards (I.E. emotions). You want to be perceived like you don't care if she comes or goes in your life.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Hey people..

Wondering how to get a woman who dumped me for the nice guy no attraction left type of situation.

Been dating her for around 7 to 8 months.

I said to her if she changes her mind to get in touch.

Deleted her from facebook also not really because im pissed of or anything is just easily for me to move on.

Last time we talked tried to force a date but didnt work got some nice guy excuses.

Only cucks chase cratered SMV.

Look, women are simple creatures. Their motivation is hypergamy which is encoded in her DNA. Similar to the TV show Westworld, AI and people follow their code. Its easy as that. Its hardwired and it explains human behavior as not random but in actuality pretty predictable.

Women leave due to hypergamy. Its one if the following. That being, she left for higher value man or be single as in skiing down cawk mountain. Translation? Cratered SMV. Its only when smv had plummeted, when Chad's stop calling, her "epiphany phase" or baby rabies kicks off into overdrive. Its said women who go from ambiguity, vague, hot/cold to, "where is this going?" Pushy, demanding, over bearing all due to failing sex appeal and fertility.

I repeat, only cucks pursue their little cherish after Chad's done with his booty call.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I am 25 years old bro.

Grow a pair. Go get money, get game, get a life.

In 3-5yrs she will be fat as ****kkk single mom and you can have baeee(s) late teens early 20s.

There's no sweeter feel then acquiring top form SMV and running into train wreck women from the past.

Its as if, life trolls women harder then you or I ever could have.

Edit: as for money/lifestyle, its not a necessity if you got game or looks. Its more about success markers. About the dominance hierarchy. About winning.