40 year old harridan tells men under 5'11", "I probably won't be attracted/interested"

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Same way I would tell a chick who is more than 15 lbs heavy i wouldnt be interested. Its her personal preference, so what? Now a person cant decide what they do and don't like in another person? So you should just go out with a person you know has traits you arnt attracte to just because??

If you've been on enough dates you'll know there is nothing worse than being on a date with a woman who has no interest in you. Why would you want a woman to go on a date when she isn't interested regardless of the reason??

Everyone has them. I find chicks with rolls of fat repulsive and csnt even get hard. I would literally pay them to put their clothes back on. Even some chicks you look at and are like "she might not be THAT bad" while dressed are just disgusting to look at naked for me.

Some guys love big chicks...I don't. It's my preference, just like its her preference guys are 6 foot tall.
 

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Normally I would say "until you meet a confident short dude with a harem around him". The problem is, no man worth his weight is going to be interested in this old hag because he'll be able to land younger and hotter women.

These are the women who ruined the relationships of their late teens/early 20s and then rode the c0ck carousel. Now they're feeling the pinch. I know lots of women like this, and they aren't worth the hassle it is to date them. Toss her in the trash, find something better.
 

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Yes because God forbid people get to choose who they want/find attractive?
 

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What I find more interesting are the responses from all of the incels: Angry. Bitter. Trashing the woman like she's the most delusional, entitled wh0re on the planet....

Now, granted, there are certainly women out there who go a little overboard with the height requirements...they're 5'2" and wont date someone shorter than 6'4", or something ridiculous.

But, when a woman throws out a seemingly arbitrary number like 5'11", odds are she's probably about 5'7" herself and stands roughly close to her height requirement when in heels. I would say the odds are very good that by the time a woman is 40, such as the one in question here, she has at some point dated a few men here and there who were shorter than 5'11" or 5'10"; probably even men who were as tall as herself at 5'7" or so. men who she had discovered already had some sort of complex about their height and couldn't quite handle her standing taller then them when she wore heels. Men who wanted them to stop wearing heeled shoes. Men who felt threatened every time a taller man was nearby. Whatever.

Sometimes it's not the height the women are screening against. It's the complex. And that incel site is TEAMING with it.
Women are insecure by nature. They don't want something that they KNOW makes them insecure(many have a thing with height...not all but a lot).
 

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Is this what this incel stuff is all about? realizing that some women have certain tastes or have certain physical qualities that they'd like they're partner to have as well and then getting mad as if it's affecting them somehow? too many f*cks are being given.

Yes, some women are 5'7-5'9 and admit that height is a big deal to them. 5'7-5'9 is also the average height of men in the U.S. It's pretty sensible to want a guy who's taller than them even in heels. IMO it almost always looks ridiculous when a guy's by a woman that's towering him. It doesn't have to be a big deal though. As mentioned, most guys don't want an overweight woman. That's pretty sensible too.

Regardless, if people have crazy stupid requirements, they probably won't find someone for a long while. This goes for both guys and girls. I can think of someone on this forum like that.
 

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Normally I would say "until you meet a confident short dude with a harem around him". The problem is, no man worth his weight is going to be interested in this old hag because he'll be able to land younger and hotter women.
+1

Assuming he handled his ****.

Big ups @Rollo Tomassi for emphasis on frame control.

These are the women who ruined the relationships of their late teens/early 20s and then rode the c0ck carousel. Now they're feeling the pinch. I know lots of women like this, and they aren't worth the hassle it is to date them. Toss her in the trash, find something better.
+1

Again, its a projection as to why she's single. Her frame is make height, the 3 sixes (6 inches, six foot, 6 figures). Said woman is cratered SMV. Its game over.

But, guys, she's a career woman with her man hate YouTube channel and green hair and is obese.
 

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Obviously height (something you literally can't improve yet an idiosyncratic instant-next for a huge number of women) is going to be a lightning rod for that.
Well, there is leg-lengthening:


my opinion: :mad::mad::mad:
 

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Girl I know that was a good head taller than that was attracted to me but screened me out because I didn't like Kendrick Lamar...like her attraction dropped to zero immediately lol.

Anyway, I get the mindset because yes height can be huge. Keep in mind, the incel believes he should be accepted for who he is and not have to self improve, nor does he believe he is capable of extreme self improvement. Obviously height (something you literally can't improve yet an idiosyncratic instant-next for a huge number of women) is going to be a lightning rod for that.
That's because incel's are everything wrong with men today. Whining and crying about what they don't have instead of focusing on improving what they do have til the best of their ability. No confidence, no ambition, no passion for life. I'd bet 95% are suffering from clinically low Testosterone levels.

You want something that can completely change your mindset, attitude and mood? No drug can compete with Testosterone...it literally defines you.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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This is what I was trying to get at in the MGTOW thread. I fully support the idea of men turning the tide on the biases of systematic feminism, but when an angry man who calls all women garbage wh0res who should be pumped and dumped, all I hear is a man who is drawing from personal past experiences with women; a man who failed for too long to get what he wanted and has become consumed by those frustrations.
Once met a guy at work who is actually a pretty big figure in the Youtube MGTOW community. He was a single father of twins so you definitely have to feel for him...BUT he gave off this very strange vibe. The only thing he talked about on our break was how women are all wh0res. He was seemingly obsessed with this, telling me that since I'm young, I need to disregard all of them in the future especially black women because they're only in it for the money. My point is that he seemed to radiate negativity and didn't seem to be like a guy I'd drink a beer with or a dude I'd get involved with to better myself. Whenever I saw him after that, he always seemed to be in his own world and seemed sort of awkward? I think you're right that they are consumed by their frustrations.

That's really the only thing I can say about MGTOW now, that I had a convo with a big figure of theirs' and it involved a lot of frustration on every single member from a group of people. So yes, I agree with everything you have said on that matter.
 

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I believe anyone should be allowed to keep his set or preferences, what I dont like are double standards...meaning she can go after line backer but I'm an assh0le if I dont (land whales).

Regarding height, as I said they are free to pick whatever they want, at the same time Im free to find ridicolous a short fat women mocking short men and making it clear she wants nothing less than said line backer.

Generally speaking I keep saying that modern dating market for the average man sucks, women have never been worse than now from any point of view while their demands have never been higher and unreasonable.

There is such imbalance in the market that only the government, the law and the media acting all togheter could have manage to create.
 

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That's because incel's are everything wrong with men today. Whining and crying about what they don't have instead of focusing on improving what they do have til the best of their ability. No confidence, no ambition, no passion for life. I'd bet 95% are suffering from clinically low Testosterone levels.

You want something that can completely change your mindset, attitude and mood? No drug can compete with Testosterone...it literally defines you.
I have a good sex drive but can be low energy or unmotivated to go the gym. Sometimes I get depressed without a great reason. Is it worth getting testosterone checked to potentially get prescribed testosterone? Are there concerns that increasing testosterone can make you more prone to baldness? (So far at 30 no baldness but my father started balding young while my mom's side didn't bald until old)
 

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I am 6'3 and every woman I have ever been with especially the HB7's and above said one of the main things that attracted her to me was my height.Also short guys have a "Napoleon complex" about height VERY unattractive to women.
 

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This is not much different from a couple of Star Wars geeks arguing about which imaginary character (which isn't even in any movies but exists in the fan fiction universe) would beat up another imaginary character.

The Woman

She knows she's past her prime. So she throws out an unobtainable desire just so she can blame "the world" for not fulling her self-entitled right to a man.

The Incels

They've given up. If they tried (exercise, social skills, toastmasters, etc.) they could reasonably bang a 5-6 in a year's time. But they are just as entitled as the old woman.

There's probably 20 percent of normal folks who are in the game and getting laid like crazy.

Then there's probably another 40 or so on the fringes, that are potential players or monogamous people.

Then there are the people (incels, mgtows, ugly feminsits, past the prime ladies) who are TOO TERRIFIED to play the game, and spend their time shouting at each other. BOTH ignoring the majority of people who are playing and WINNING the game of money and ex.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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Of course women can have any preferences they want. But the, “What if I wear heels?” thing is silly imo.

She has to chose a partner that has a height compatible with a certain SHOE type that she may SOMETIMES wear. You can’t make this stuff up lol.

They should just be honest and say, “I think tall guys are hot.”
 

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I mean, it's stupid but whatever floats their boat. They want X, Y and Z? Sure, they'll drastically reduce their chance of reproducing for every requirement they add. I'm fine with that, we don't need copies of that sh!t.

Men do the same thing and incels are the fvcking worst of us all, they will always find something to hate about women.
 

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Of course women can have any preferences they want. But the, “What if I wear heels?” thing is silly imo.

She has to chose a partner that has a height compatible with a certain SHOE type that she may SOMETIMES wear. You can’t make this stuff up lol.

They should just be honest and say, “I think tall guys are hot.”
Their conflict avoiding directive that comes any time something could make them look any less "spectacular" than what they think they deserve to look.

I'm not superficial to chose a guy over an other based on his height...I chose a tall one just so I can wear fashion schoes, you see I'm a good girl.

Anyway I had many girls talking with total honesty to me, many said that a certain guy was goodlooking and cool but way too short so they couldnt take him (guy was taller than them btw).

I'm 5'11 which is average in most northern europe and above average in southern one, yet many girls make a point to tell me that I'm the lowest level possible they accept in terms of height.

Never had any problem like that while dating eastern european girls as tall as me...the most obsessed are short southern european girls, I think its them to experience the napoleon complex via proxy.
 

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I'm 5'11 which is average in most northern europe and above average in southern one, yet many girls make a point to tell me that I'm the lowest level possible they accept in terms of height.
So what's someone like me, at 6" shorter than that, supposed to do? :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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