This is not much different from a couple of Star Wars geeks arguing about which imaginary character (which isn't even in any movies but exists in the fan fiction universe) would beat up another imaginary character.
The Woman
She knows she's past her prime. So she throws out an unobtainable desire just so she can blame "the world" for not fulling her self-entitled right to a man.
The Incels
They've given up. If they tried (exercise, social skills, toastmasters, etc.) they could reasonably bang a 5-6 in a year's time. But they are just as entitled as the old woman.
There's probably 20 percent of normal folks who are in the game and getting laid like crazy.
Then there's probably another 40 or so on the fringes, that are potential players or monogamous people.
Then there are the people (incels, mgtows, ugly feminsits, past the prime ladies) who are TOO TERRIFIED to play the game, and spend their time shouting at each other. BOTH ignoring the majority of people who are playing and WINNING the game of money and ex.