Why is she ignoring me after ons/first hook up

flowtheory

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Keep banging her obv..:
If it’s just sex... there’s sooooo many other options out there that can give that to you while not playing games with your time. You are what made the experience good for you by the sounds of it, she was just there and happened to have a good time because of what you did. Go experience something new.
 

sazc

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In her eyes your SMV is low.

Who knows what combination of LMS and or sexual prowess and or personality caused this.

Thing is, you shouldn't be investing all this worry and concern into a ONS.

I understand that your goal is to spin the type of plates that call you for hookups, instead of you calling them, but this chick ain't that girl.

Time to move on.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

machoMax

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In her eyes your SMV is low.

Who knows what combination of LMS and or sexual prowess and or personality caused this.

Thing is, you shouldn't be investing all this worry and concern into a ONS.

I understand that your goal is to spin the type of plates that call you for hookups, instead of you calling them, but this chick ain't that girl.

Time to move on.

I am Sharing your opinion 101%.
 
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