Girl with BF is attracted to me?

seanpersaud91

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Long story short , I’m 27 met HB 7.5 through a friend at an event . Following TRP just under a year .Asked a lot of questions about myself etc good flow going between me and her . Mentioned her bf casually but I continued talking to her as I ignored it. Didn’t number close but didn’t really care. A couple days later , we end up at a birthday party as she was there with her bf but I didn’t make eye contact . I decided to not go out of my way and say hi . I greeted and mingled around with everyone almost except her. She comes around later asking me why I haven’t come and said hi. I told her I didn’t recognize her and she was a bit surprised! (She’s an 7.5) but then complimented her outfit ONLY . There was champagne being popped off so in order to avoid getting wet I grab her waist and move her in front of me . She allowed me to do so. Later in the night she introduces her friend (HB 6) So here’s the fun part , I start flirting with her and what’s funny is this girl is attracted to me . Body language playing with hair laughing all that is being displayed . I went for a smoke with my buddies and he was telling me how HB 7.5 kept looking back continuously at me while I flirting with her friend and giving her attention as HB 7.5 was with her BF (jealousy ploy ?;))Later on , everyone’s lounging and BF of HB 7.5 makes a comment how young we all (he’s 8 years older). He asks us to guess his age , I stated 40 . He got offended and said he was 35 . We’re about to leave , HB 7.5 gives me a hug , BF no where to be seen . I then head to the parking lot , we meet up some other friends . HB 7.5 is coming with BF and her sister and cousin. Asked everyone who would be down to hit a club HB 7.5 then abruptly asks me if I’m actually gonna go out. Told her night is young and I wanted to enjoy tonight by going to a club my friend promotes . She was taken back as it seemed she wanted me to go home just like her and everyone else. Said good bye but this time gave her a more solid hug as she was waiting for another hug from me .

Couple questions for the veteran DJs. The fact that there seemed to be some attraction by me ignoring her got her hamster wheel to spin ? I guess she introduced me to her friend kind of backfired as she didn’t expect I'd be flirting with her friend AND she reciprocating interest. Does she want me to make a move next time I see her ? If I do should I ignore her or this time give her a bit of attention ?

What I learned:
She got offended as I wasn't able to give her attention like the rest of the men. To throw salt on the wound, I flirted and attracted her friend who isn't as hot which must've got her to be more jealous. I know there would be a lot drama if I was to proceed. Should I keep not giving her attention but slowly start teasing her ?

If you were going to proceed how would you do it if you proceed .
Any feedback and errors I made greatly appreciated ! And possibly my next steps

Cheers :D
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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She's being a attention *****. Either setting up a plan B or just sucking your attention. Pay her no mind and tell her to introduce her hawt slutty young friends. Emphasize young.
 

RedScorpion

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She's being a attention *****. Either setting up a plan B or just sucking your attention. Pay her no mind and tell her to introduce her hawt slutty young friends. Emphasize young.
My personal experience is that dealing with girls with BFs is nothing more than a waste of time. They will flirt more aggressively and harder than those that are single... but I believe that’s because they have nothing to lose if the interaction goes sour. They always have their BF to fall back on. I also find their interest can be very periodic - intense, then you don’t exist/don’t matter, back to high intensity... probably the first sign they’re not actually interested (as far as dating). You’re good for your attention and validation.

My advice is to not consider them a viable option at all.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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My personal experience is that dealing with girls with BFs is nothing more than a waste of time. They will flirt more aggressively and harder than those that are single... but I believe that’s because they have nothing to lose if the interaction goes sour. They always have their BF to fall back on. I also find their interest can be very periodic - intense, then you don’t exist/don’t matter, back to high intensity... probably the first sign they’re not actually interested (as far as dating). You’re good for your attention and validation.

My advice is to not consider them a viable option at all.
I want yo smash period. No exception.

Her ltr status is of no concern to me nor her marriage status.

Shut me down. Its not my biz to police her. I wm out for #1.


The scenario is hypergamy. Women always looking for the better prize.
 
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