Do women sabotage guys?

[alx]

Sometimes I ask a girl out and it feels like she takes so much offense by it that she will sabotage my chances with other girls. E.g. at a dance once a girl barged past me to whisk her friend away whom I was dancing with.

This girl had rejected me and we didn't speak to each other, so it's kind of weird of her to literally run into me when I'm the last person she actually wants to run into. It seemed to me like she would prefer I didn't succeed with anyone.

Do women do this or am I paranoid?

 

[ItsFate451]

Sometimes I ask a girl out and it feels like she takes so much offense by it that she will sabotage my chances with other girls. E.g. at a dance once a girl barged past me to whisk her friend away whom I was dancing with.

This girl had rejected me and we didn't speak to each other, so it's kind of weird of her to literally run into me when I'm the last person she actually wants to run into. It seemed to me like she would prefer I didn't succeed with anyone.

Do women do this or am I paranoid?

No you’re not paranoid. Women have this mentality of “I don’t want him, but I don’t want other girls to like him either” you just gotta shrug it off sometimes.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sometimes I ask a girl out and it feels like she takes so much offense by it that she will sabotage my chances with other girls. E.g. at a dance once a girl barged past me to whisk her friend away whom I was dancing with.

This girl had rejected me and we didn't speak to each other, so it's kind of weird of her to literally run into me when I'm the last person she actually wants to run into. It seemed to me like she would prefer I didn't succeed with anyone.

Do women do this or am I paranoid?

They will do this, you can't care though . As soon as one choose you others will.

 

[lizardking82]

Let me tell you what happened to me recently when I went to eat at a student's restaurant here in my city together with my main plate for now, about two weeks ago:

We enter the restaurant and there I am, with my main plate, going to eat two full PLATES of food LOL

At the same place, I see this girl who I banged once about two months ago, but then she went cold completely for whatever reason (probably thinking I would call and go after her, but she doesn't know who she's dealing with LOL) and there she is, together with her best friend. She sees me walking in with my plate who doesn't even notice the girl and she talks to me like nothing happened. Remember it had been more than a month since I last saw her. She probably understood I was with the girl that I entered the restaurant with and smiled at me, started talking to me in a way that my plate could hear.

HER: "Hey lizardking... Look (talks to her best friend) this is that guy I told you about..."
Her friend looks at me, smiles back and looks at me in a weird way. I keep my calm and salute them both. They were apparently there to get something to eat with them back home, but strangely got nothing and started heading for the exit. The girl comes back to me (while my plate is looking curiously, but calmly LOL) and tells me "Lizardking, are you with that girl now..?" and I calmly answer, with a smile in my face "Yes, she is." She grinds her teeth and says "Ok, goodbye then" and leaves, looking back like twice.

Now, I can tell you she tried to play games right there and then, but she can't pull that sh1t with me.

My friend, women are highly emotional creatures capable of the ugliest things you might imagine. Be prepared for it all.

 

[wifehunter]

Women also sabotage themselves. Aka shoot themselves in the foot.

 

[resilient]

Women sabotage themselves by chasing validation and fishing for attention online via social media. Posting selfies, bragging, showing off, etc.

I don't see many single women these days updating their status with how they built up their community by volunteering, getting involved at church, or quality family time, watched someone else's kids... The ones that are taken or in committed relationships are more likely to show more well-rounded interests in my experience.

I feel like they're more concerned with showing off their bodies and faces to develop interest and compete with other attractive women.

They get addicted to men sliding into their DMs and dating apps for dates and the ego trip from rejecting men that they shrug off a quality guy that may seem somewhat boring from the outset, yet may very well likely be more responsible, financially stable, good leader, husband/father material than the guys just chasing skirt and hookups.

In other words, it seems like they're addicted to the fleeting attention and casual flings depending on age than holding off or back for a quality mate.

Attention is a powerful drug...