Do you use a condom putside LTR?

[Mazer]

The way I see it, condoms and pulling out can often be a selfish act on the man's behalf. I know that sounds crazy and would probably draw a lot of scoffs from people....but it's true to an extent.

It's OK to for a man to be selfish sometimes. I have no reservations whatsoever from occasionally walking in to a plate's house when picking her up for a date, throwing her down and having my way with her.... entirely for my own pleasure with no intent to keep going when I am done. I've had plates admit they really like


You cannot keep going with a condom on after orgasm. It will come off. You have to stop, take it off, clean up, put another on, etc. Pulling out is no different and requires cleaning too if you're going back in (there is still sperm there). Both kill the momentum and take a woman out of her "zone" (and yours). Once a man is satisfied and the mood has cooled with the interruption, it can often be a lot of work to get a woman back to that zone and keep going all the way to orgasm from scratch again

Concur! Numerous women have mentioned the same, that we lose the momentum, as we wait for me to put the condom on. All my plates are all on birth control because of this.

 

[AJ84]

Well now I am in an LTR so it really doesn't matter life is full of risks my friend...hell you could be married and your wife could cheat and give you AIDS what is your point ? I could get hit by a bus tomorrow crossing the street.(guess I should stay away from streets huh ?)

Sorry I thought you were causally dating.

Life is full of risks that's true, but risks can be minimized. I'm an advocate for getting tested together if sex is on the table, before forgoing a condom. It's not convenient but neither is an incurable STD lol.

 

[AJ84]

Concur! Numerous women have mentioned the same, that we lose the momentum, as we wait for me to put the condom on. All my plates are all on birth control because of this.

birth control doesn't prevent STDs.

Are we in the 1800s? What's going on here with the no condom/ no care stuff lol.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

If you get herpes good luck selling that to women. That's a hard sell for relationships let alone anything casual, for women who already don't have problems finding men to sleep with.

Exactly this. And putting that burden on a partner for the sake of c*mming harder on a ONS blows my mind.

I think there are valid reasons for going bareback posted here, but I think it's certainly more responsible in an LTR. Heck, sticking to the same girl for 3 months at a time, even.

birth control doesn't prevent STDs.

Are we in the 1800s? What's going on here with the no condom/ no care stuff lol.

It's insanely common now. My ex had this weird opinion of "Well, as long as I don't get pregnant I'm fine."

I found that absolutely bizarre considering she was sleeping with 2 guys she barely knew, who were on Tinder and sleeping around too. She was lucky to "only" get herpes, tbh.

Though she could have HIV or something, she never bothered getting tested properly.

This was my first GF, by the way. What a sh*tshow.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Sorry if I sound harsh but I just can't believe people are so blase about unprotected sex in a time when causal hook ups and multiple sex partners is so commonly practiced..... If you get herpes good luck selling that to women. That's a hard sell for relationships let alone anything casual, for women who already don't have problems finding men to sleep with.

Be responsible for your own health.

The government message about condoms is carefully crafted to avoid any intellectual complexity, in an effort to sway behavior that is better for the collective masses. So they leave out the little details like herpes and hpv being spread through skin to skin contact, therefore making condoms about 50% effective in preventing transmission. Condoms are great for the more serious diseases spread by bodily fluids. But they do have their limitations, most notably HSV and HPV.

The best way to prevent STDs is to be a good judge of the person you fvck. Ideally you want someone who has the intelligence to at least realize they have an std if one occurs, and also cares about you enough to not want to give it to you. Those two little things sound simple, but I'm sure if you applied them on a macro level, most STDs are spread by morons, hookers, and genuinely bad human beings. Keeping your d!ck out of those three classes of people is just as important as using a condom.

 

[RangerMIke]

Any condom tips? Some of us lose our erection putting them on. Or the feeling is killed by over half .

I wish I did.... I just use whatever is available. I buy just regular Trojans... no special kind... never had any problems... I guess I'm lucky. It might explain why I don't complain about them. I suppose if I had problems I wouldn't like them either.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Did anyone else catch the wash the area with rubbing alcohol after sex and bathe? Rubbing alcohol kills a bunch of stuff.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Did anyone else catch the wash the area with rubbing alcohol after sex and bathe? Rubbing alcohol kills a bunch of stuff.

I actually considered this with my herpes GF. Then I realised that jumping up after sex and rubbing my crotch with disinfectant is something of a mood killer, not to mention rather rude and traumatic for her, lol.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I actually considered this with my herpes GF. Then I realised that jumping up after sex and rubbing my crotch with disinfectant is something of a mood killer, not to mention rather rude and traumatic for her, lol.

Do out of eye sight .

 

[Misterchaos]

Condom...cuz clap is a mother*******

 

[Murk]

Actually clap is very easy to get rid of with 1 pill and doesn't cause much issue (for men, ofc).

Did anyone else catch the wash the area with rubbing alcohol after sex and bathe? Rubbing alcohol kills a bunch of stuff.

No but I have started immediately taking a shower and/or scrubbing my d!ck. It's worked - got a clean sexual health test result last week after about 3-4 very risky fvcks in a month

 

[The Duke]

. As a small test I just texted my book club and asked them what they would do if a guy wanted to sleep with them with no protection. All 8 of them, (ages 21 to 43) so they wouldn't do it.

Fella's here is another example of why you can't trust what women say in situations like this. They will always lie when it comes to indicating how much of a dirty wh0re they really are. They always want you to think they are virgin saints but the truth is closer to the polar opposite.

I've fuhked 54 women, and only 1 demanded a condom. The others made no indication that they were concerned. We've had discussions about this on here, and others have echoed the same experiences.

I am highly certain I could fuhk every single one of your book club girls with out a condom! Including you.

So somebody isn't telling the truth........its a flawed question. Its about like asking a bunch of guys if they have a small penis. They aren't going to tell you the truth.

 

[Murk]

Women want it just as much as we do, but they lie about it. The worst part about all the raw sex I've had this year is that hardly any were on birth control (initially) and they all wanted me to come inside them. It's like men and women are exactly the same sexually but men are not afraid to admit it. Women have all told me creampies are more satisfying, they will risk it with randoms and even when not on the pill. 2018 has taught me that. Look at all the abortions, plan B's and unplanned pregnancies. Must be the men forcing it right?

 

[sazc]

www.goodrx.com has Viagra at $24 per pill, at walnart, in my zip code. You still need a perscrprescr but you can log on, search any drug, print your coupon and ask the pharmacist to fill it outside of your medical plan, if you have one, so you can get the cheaper price.

After you fill the script, if you do have medical insurance, you can most likely fill out provider paperwork to get credit against your deductable for the purchase.

This works for any prescription you have, if good rx has a coupon.

I've used it for many things.

Good luck!

 

[R.U.G.]

You guys are nuts not using a condom unless you really trust the other person and a full STD blood test. Most people these days are not loyal. Why would you want to risk your life or at the very least, your health and well being for a sex session? Perhaps I now think more with my brain than with my penis, but it is what it is. Surprised @Amante Silvestre and his unprotected escapades. At your age, you should know better. You're risking a lot for a lay.