Do you use a condom putside LTR?

[Murk]

I have come under a lot of fire from people here for my barebacking ways. I put it down to a desire to please myself at all costs. It's a very dangerous, exciting but ultimately foolish way to live.

I'm curious to how often you use a condom outside of a LTR?

So far in 2018 since splitting with my ex GF I've slept with 12 different women (more than last year) and used a condom once, with a girl I've already barebacked. I just don't really care, I can afford to look after several children, I have my own place and no dependants. Sex without, particularly cumming inside (which I've done on 10/12 women this year) just feels better.

I can't see myself stopping. I don't want to hear any Lovejoy "what about the children" comments. Just real life experiences please.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

For me it'd be pretty much always unless it's LTR. I think entrusting any woman you've known for 2 dates with your DNA is extraordinarily irresponsible, and that's not even counting the STI aspect.

When I say that by the way, I don't mean it as a judgemental sermon. I just mean it as in, for me, it's not really conscionable.

 

[Murk]

1. I've had 2 cancers, including testicular, and I have been clinically advised and counseled that my odds of getting a woman pregnant have gone down a lot

Bro - how did you find that? Are you in remission? Cancer is close to my heart so sorry for personal questions.

 

[Murk]

Love that, enjoy brother!

I also realised women love raw sex just as much as men. Condom is not even in my vocabulary anymore. It never was. I'm like you, morning after pill all the way. I have several plates now on the pill which is great, the 28+ age range sh!t can get hairy and you need to be careful, they want kids man. For all I know I'm infertile. As if I've *** inside 10 random women this year, feels good to be alive.

 

[Murk]

Nice post there, little applies to me though. I usually make my girl *** then **** her (LTR) outside of that I just fvck them and done. I have a large penis, they dry up and get sore real quick, If i'm not in a relationship I have very little desire to please a women selflessly (oral, fingering). I'll go straight for the jugular, *** and feel no regrets. I can range from a 4-5 min quickie to 1 hour ploughing away. I still haven't mastered the art of cumming, I never know what to expect. I wank too much.

 

[Spaz]

Women I've known for sometime; ONS, LTR/Plates - 100% no condom rule.

ONS with women I just met - 100% condom usage. My reasons;

I've known some real life brothers who had ONS with women they barely knew and got infected with some serious STD, then unknowingly spread it to their loves ones causing massive emotional and health damage.

I reasoned that the probability of getting some STD from a stranger is relatively higher then from someone that i know and have intimate knowledge of her behaviours etc.

 

[RangerMIke]

I had a vasectomy years ago, for me it's not about having unwanted children because that won't happen. It is about the knowledge that women screw around as much as I do. I have never had an STD and I want to keep it that way. Since there is no guarantee a chick I'm with won't screw some deceased dude... it's a way to keep myself clean. When you go bareback you are playing a game of russian roulette, good luck.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I had a vasectomy years ago, for me it's not about having unwanted children because that won't happen. It is about the knowledge that women screw around as much as I do. I have never had an STD and I want to keep it that way. Since there is no guarantee a chick I'm with won't screw some deceased dude... it's a way to keep myself clean. When you go bareback you are playing a game of russian roulette, good luck.

Any condom tips? Some of us lose our erection putting them on. Or the feeling is killed by over half .

 

[Red Legg]

I have been with over 250 plus in my womanizing career and can count on one hand the number of women who have even requested that I use one...conclusion ? women love cvm.I have never caught a disease or made a women pregnant (unwanted).My current LTR and I never use one either.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have been with over 250 plus in my womanizing career and can count on one hand the number of women who have even requested that I use one...conclusion ? women love cvm.I have never caught a disease or made a women pregnant (unwanted).My current LTR and I never use one either.

Do you think telling a man to put his bare back c0ck in 250 pvssies is good advise? I put mines in only 48 ( I usually have LTR's ) and I caught crabs once and chlamydia twice. Chlamydia was treatable but was painful as hell.

 

[Red Legg]

Do you think telling a man to put his bare back c0ck in 250 pvssies is good advise? I put mines in only 48 ( I usually have LTR's ) and I caught crabs once and chlamydia twice. Chlamydia was treatable but was painful as hell.

Other men can do whatever the fvck they want,as for me and my house we shall not use condoms.I have a hard time nutting with one on TBH..I have known friends who's girlfriends have herpes and fvcked them raw dog and caught nothing,personally I think the threat is overblown but to each his own.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Other men can do whatever the fvck they want,as for me and my house we shall not use condoms.I have a hard time nutting with one on TBH..I have known friends who's girlfriends have herpes and fvcked them raw dog and caught nothing,personally I think the threat is overblown but to each his own.

Have you seen herpes? I have doesn't look like fun.

Hey so I did have a idea. Wipe down with alcohol immediately after and bathe . Alcohol kills alot of shyt .

Condomless sex is irresponsible but it is a risk for a man to choose.

I'm also a barebacker but I mostly have sex in long relationship. Though I was thinking about upping my game and build it to pound several new chicks a week . The risk scares me .lots of aids here .

 

[QuadDeuces]

I cant stay hard with a plastic bag over my dck.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I cant stay hard with a plastic bag over my dck.

I lose it right away. That's why I asked for advice.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I have been with over 250 plus in my womanizing career and can count on one hand the number of women who have even requested that I use one...conclusion ? women love cvm.I have never caught a disease or made a women pregnant (unwanted).My current LTR and I never use one either.

That's insanely lucky then, because something like 1 in 6 or 1 in 5 women have herpes - not even counting other STIs. You probably have it but have just never shown symptoms. Some STIs are asymptomatic, and it's pretty implausible to go bareback with 250 women and not get anything.

In fact given those odds, you should have got herpes ~50 times.

My last decent relationship was ended because some c*nt of a guy f*cked the chick bareback once and gave her herpes, because he just didn't care enough to wear a rubber even though he knew he had it. For her it was really badly symptomatic and she looked like she had burns on her vagina or something. Game over and she's not dated since (2 years now). I didn't even get to have sex with her.

Really opened my eyes to how sh*tty that behaviour can be - 5 minutes of fun can f*ck over someone else's sexual health forever...but people don't even care. If I'd met the guy I would have put him in the hospital for being such a colossal pr*ck.

If you believe in any kind of bro code, I think rubbering up should be pretty much mandatory when you're having casual sex with so many women. It's just lame to give someone a bunch of STIs and then f*ck off, certainly not behaviour befitting a decent man.

Not that I'm accusing you of spreading s**t, but I've seen second hand the pain it causes people, all so someone can "get off" better for 5 minutes.

If you can't get it up with a condom, I'd recommend just abstaining for like 2 weeks, then using a rubber when you do. It's like if you watch porn constantly - it's going to impact your performance negatively if you do it all the time. So you have to re-acclimatise.

 

[Red Legg]

That's insanely lucky then, because something like 1 in 6 or 1 in 5 women have herpes - not even counting other STIs. You probably have it but have just never shown symptoms. Some STIs are asymptomatic, and it's pretty implausible to go bareback with 250 women and not get anything.

In fact given those odds, you should have got herpes ~50 times.

My last decent relationship was ended because some c*nt of a guy f*cked the chick bareback once and gave her herpes, because he just didn't care enough to wear a rubber even though he knew he had it. For her it was really badly symptomatic and she looked like she had burns on her vagina or something. Game over and she's not dated since (2 years now). I didn't even get to have sex with her.

Really opened my eyes to how sh*tty that behaviour can be - 5 minutes of fun can f*ck over someone else's sexual health forever...but people don't even care. If I'd met the guy I would have put him in the hospital for being such a colossal pr*ck.

If you believe in any kind of bro code, I think rubbering up should be pretty much mandatory when you're having casual sex with so many women. It's just lame to give someone a bunch of STIs and then f*ck off, certainly not behaviour befitting a decent man.

Not that I'm accusing you of spreading s**t, but I've seen second hand the pain it causes people, all so someone can "get off" better for 5 minutes.

If you can't get it up with a condom, I'd recommend just abstaining for like 2 weeks, then using a rubber when you do. It's like if you watch porn constantly - it's going to impact your performance negatively if you do it all the time. So you have to re-acclimatise.

I have been tested and I am clean as a whistle.I have spoken to other men here who never use a condom (on SS) with the same results as me so I don't think it is that common and think that the medical community has overblown the problem (you only know this secret if you have fvcked hundreds and hundreds of women and 99 percent of men have not).And believe it or not I do kind of screen (not sleeping with total skanks helps) but it's no bulls!t that 98% of the women I have picked up in the past NEVER even brought the topic of a condom up before Fvckin...and a lot of women you will turn off and look like a pvssy (rightfully so ) if you demand to wear one.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Being a puzzy cause you value your health? 250 babes without a condom ain't wise unless each one is tested right before you smash.

 

[Red Legg]

Being a puzzy cause you value your health? 250 babes without a condom ain't wise unless each one is tested right before you smash.

Well now I am in an LTR so it really doesn't matter life is full of risks my friend...hell you could be married and your wife could cheat and give you AIDS what is your point ? I could get hit by a bus tomorrow crossing the street.(guess I should stay away from streets huh ?)

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well now I am in an LTR so it really doesn't matter life is full of risks my friend...hell you could be married and your wife could cheat and give you AIDS what is your point ? I could get hit by a bus tomorrow crossing the street.(guess I should stay away from streets huh ?)

Right! Give you AIDS. Get a couple of kids outta you. Cuck you and take half your shyt .

 

[AJ84]

I have been tested and I am clean as a whistle.I have spoken to other men here who never use a condom (on SS) with the same results as me so I don't think it is that common and think that the medical community has overblown the problem (you only know this secret if you have fvcked hundreds and hundreds of women and 99 percent of men have not).And believe it or not I do kind of screen (not sleeping with total skanks helps) but it's no bulls!t that 98% of the women I have picked up in the past NEVER even brought the topic of a condom up before Fvckin...and a lot of women you will turn off and look like a pvssy (rightfully so ) if you demand to wear one.

No, women don't think a guy is a p**y for wanting to wear a condom, at least no sensible women I can think of. As a small test I just texted my book club and asked them what they would do if a guy wanted to sleep with them with no protection. All 8 of them, (ages 21 to 43) so they wouldn't do it. I said what if they were in the throws of a heavy make out and were ready to go/ drunk and horny/ guy was super hot etc. One asked me if I was ok lol. They all said hell no, one asked what kind of guy would have sex with a new girl without a condom and four asked what kind of woman would do that. Again, small random sample. Maybe, depending on where some of you are from, unprotected sex is not seen as a big deal. But I think anyone who works in healthcare or has personal experience with an STD, either having it or knowing someone who does would see things differently.

It's easy to feel removed from a situation you haven't experienced, until you experience it. I hope you don't have to but you are increasing your chances of catching something by basically dipping your d**k into every guy she had unprotected sex with, everytime you sleep with her without using protection. And no, as anyone in the developed world past the age of 10 knows, you can't tell if someone is 'clean' just by looking at them.

And that's just STDs, never mind unwanted pregnancies and the abortion of unwanted babies because two people wanted to get off better.

Sorry if I sound harsh but I just can't believe people are so blase about unprotected sex in a time when causal hook ups and multiple sex partners is so commonly practiced.

If there's an issue with keeping it up with a condon buy viagra or try different condoms on your own and train your d**k to get used to them or get tested together. No, none of those options are fun, spontaneous and sexy but you're not some 17 yr old trying to hit it quick in the back of your Dad's car before curfew are you? If you get herpes good luck selling that to women. That's a hard sell for relationships let alone anything casual, for women who already don't have problems finding men to sleep with.

Be responsible for your own health.