Age; how much should it be considered?

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It's not . Don't look at it as needy. Lavish it .

Younger won't do it cause they usually don't appreciate you. Younger is also talking to four other men.

Older might just want a man of her own and she might want to be in love.

Younger just want fun.

Let the older spoil you, you deserve it. Even ONE year older makes a difference.
I love that mentality, thanks mrgoodstuff! Sometimes we just need other men to validate what we already sense. No shame; I'm going to go after them all, 20 or 37, whatever
Have a great day
 

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I love that mentality, thanks mrgoodstuff! Sometimes we just need other men to validate what we already sense. No shame; I'm going to go after them all, 20 or 37, whatever
Have a great day
You should! Just don't ho chase. Don't let no bytch not treat you great .
 

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Depends on your look, a 35 yrs old guy in great shape with a decent hairline fits with young girls in their 20s much more than a 30 yrs old guy with a dad bod and a power donut hairline.

Not trying to be a d1ck to anyone but we should stop telling guys that they "can do everything"..thats what shampoo advertisments for women are.
 

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Good **** man, just what I needed before a kayak date tonight; game on!
When we're in the right frame their gonna want to be extra helpful and nice and always be fvcking with your c0ck, sucking it and putting in them.
 

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I am 52. Last LTR she was 34 (met her when I was 48, she was 30)
I date mostly 10-15 years younger, women seem to want a 10-12yr gap
Occasionally I get a date or encounter with (a 19yo) girls from mid to late 20s

it is how you present yourself (at 35 I dated a 22yo for 6mo, her next relationship went to marriage)
 

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I am 52. Last LTR she was 34 (met her when I was 48, she was 30)
I date mostly 10-15 years younger, women seem to want a 10-12yr gap
Occasionally I get a date or encounter with (a 19yo) girls from mid to late 20s

it is how you present yourself (at 35 I dated a 22yo for 6mo, her next relationship went to marriage)
MrWood,

You sir, are a boss.

Can I ask, how long did it take you to be game aware enough to date like you do now? Was it something you learned, or did you just always get it?

I realize we are all different, but I'm a strategist, and am trying (in vain Im sure) to encourage myself by imagining some sort of time line for my accent out of beta-hood

You are in Scandinavia?! I lived in Norway for 12 years

Thanks
 

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It's not . Don't look at it as needy. Lavish it .

Younger won't do it cause they usually don't appreciate you. Younger is also talking to four other men.

Older might just want a man of her own and she might want to be in love.

Younger just want fun.

Let the older spoil you, you deserve it. Even ONE year older makes a difference.
Get equally spoiled with women 10-20 years your junior. Just get your SMV up.
 

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Get equally spoiled with women 10-20 years your junior. Just get your SMV up.
Younger copy cat more than older so once you get one you can have half of them. SMV should be always improved and be on your purpose. Don't let anyone jerk you around or waste your time .
 

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Thanks.. been in Helsinki for 8 years. Nearly all dates and relationships were introduced/started from OLD (i dont club and not much social circle)
I date nearly exclusivly Russian/Ukrainian

my game got way better using things learned from this site actually
I use social proofs on FB/IG and have HB8-9 following and commenting/likes

have a good opener
dont be needy
imply a sexual interest without being over the top
rarely compliment on looks
be funny without being a comedian
on first date use casual kino

current openers this month:
short/date interest
"Hello GirlName my name is MrWood, an American living in Helsinki.
I came across your profile, and had to stop to introduce myself... something about you, perhaps in your smile, I dont know exactly!
Lets get aquainted, what do you say?"

girls looking for a LTR:
"Hello, I like your profile and your style also, thank you.
I have some opinion of you...
attracted.. perhaps it is your lips, a sincere feature
My name is MrWood. we can chat... get acquainted for introduction. I think you can be honest, friendly, intelligent, polite and to have sense of humor... am I wrong?
My work allows travel to many places and is very technical. Let me say... Yes, I am an American, but live here now in Helsinki
Tell me something about yourself? Or are you serious about finally finding what you want..."
 

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Get equally spoiled with women 10-20 years your junior. Just get your SMV up.
^That is absolutely the goal

The way I see the progression is; get plates spinning first and foremost - because I'm way too thirsty. Then once I have some plates spinning, SMV starts to ascend, and I start going after other prospects, like girls more my junior.
 

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^That is absolutely the goal

The way I see the progression is; get plates spinning first and foremost - because I'm way too thirsty. Then once I have some plates spinning, SMV starts to ascend, and I start going after other prospects, like girls more my junior.
You'll find most often the younger ones are easier to deal with. When women approach 30+, they are in a rush to lock it down, taking all the fun out of the relation and bringing much drama to (unconsciously) test how committed you are.

At 35 yo, you can date 18yo + still. In my 40s, I'm dating 24, 25, 29, 30 right now. All new prospects developed over a few weeks.

I usually build new harems in one weekend.
 

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MrWoods random words of wisdom #623

"if you only go for gold... you get gold"
 

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I've had my share of girls half my age, but once the conquest thrill wears off, I'm left with someone with whom it is difficult to have any sort of conversation. Young women are a lot like money. You think you want it, because you don't have it, and most guys never get either one, so that mindset continues their entire lives. But when you actually get that thing you thought you wanted, you then realize that it's not the paradise you had envisioned. Everyone is a package deal of good and bad, regardless of their age.
 

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You'll find most often the younger ones are easier to deal with. When women approach 30+, they are in a rush to lock it down, taking all the fun out of the relation and bringing much drama to (unconsciously) test how committed you are.

At 35 yo, you can date 18yo + still. In my 40s, I'm dating 24, 25, 29, 30 right now. All new prospects developed over a few weeks.

I usually build new harems in one weekend.
Noted; and I'm experiencing that now. The 37 year old is lavishing me with her attention, but testing me already. Asking what I did when I declined to meet her; who I was with etc. This will grow old fast
 

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I've had my share of girls half my age, but once the conquest thrill wears off, I'm left with someone with whom it is difficult to have any sort of conversation. Young women are a lot like money. You think you want it, because you don't have it, and most guys never get either one, so that mindset continues their entire lives. But when you actually get that thing you thought you wanted, you then realize that it's not the paradise you had envisioned. Everyone is a package deal of good and bad, regardless of their age.
In my mind, I think I want a girl young enough to still look up to me and differ to me to a reasonable degree, but not so young that we are alien to one another
 

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18-26 on OLD - do not changed it
 

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I'm starting to think OLD inst just a word but an acronym. Am I right?
OLINE DATING

Bumble, Tinder = this is your bread and butter from here forth. Match, chat, exchange numbers then either get her to your place or somewhere local. Anything else is failure, go!!!
 
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