article: What Happens to Men Who Can't Have Sex

[skinnyguy]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: the only difference between "incels" and "normal guy just not f*cking right now" (heck, even just "normal guy" in general) is a sense of entitlement and a pathetic lack of interest in developing social skills or self-improvement.

If you sit around crying all day you're not getting laid, strangely enough you're not going to get laid. How about going to the gym, or learning how to talk for 5 minutes without coming across like a total weirdo?

I've seen ex-soldiers with horrific facial injuries get girlfriends, and these goofballs who look pretty good most of the time sit around complaining their looks aren't good enough.

Not to mention that a lot of these guys almost seem to resent women and constantly sit around blaming them for their own inadequacies. And that's such an unattractive worldview even I feel repulsed by their total lack of balls and self-esteem, so women must see it like Kryptonite.

No one wants to date the guy with no social skills. No one wants to date the guy who thinks he's smarter than everyone else but actually he's unemployed and plays videogames for 16 hours every day. No one wants to date the guy who thinks he's really tough but actually he can't lift a 10 kg weight.

In fact: I know a guy who's 25 years old, he still loves Pokemon and dresses up like Pikachu in his FB profile pic, he's 3/10 in looks, he's 5'6", he's got a bad job and he's skinnyfat.

He still got laid.

Self improvement versus self pity. That's the difference between "incels" and "normals".

Any guy can get laid if they drop their standards enough. I would have women lined up to fvck me if I messaged the fat girls who like me on Match.


The way for incels to get laid is drop their standards.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Any guy can get laid if they drop their standards enough. I would have women lined up to fvck me if I messaged the fat girls who like me on Match.


The way for incels to get laid is drop their standards.

I'd rather just pay for hot ones.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Any guy can get laid if they drop their standards enough. I would have women lined up to fvck me if I messaged the fat girls who like me on Match.


The way for incels to get laid is drop their standards.

They gotta work their way up puzzy mountain like anyone else... Having a huge checklist when your not even in the game at all is a fail.

 

[Roober]

Recently heard jordan Peterson talk about people being single. Basically, we are incredibly social creatures, it is unnatural to not be social. Physiologically, it makes sense to be social as a human being. With that, there is a very small percentage of the population who can actually function well being single.

But the issue comes with being single for long periods of time. When your single, you tend to drift towards your weaknesses. This article and the respective website that it speaks about are prime examples of this exact possibility. You can even see it here with men that have been on SS for extended periods of time.

The issue comes when people have too much pride to admit their faults and seek improvement, but instead find equally like-minded individuals who share the same weakness, which then perpetuates the issue further for the group.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I fully agree in self improvement and even more of fixing broken things wheter is bodyfat or anxiety or whatever..however we should stop bullsh1tting each other.

In this particular moment the dating market for the average man is TRASH, wheter we talk about the average girl personality or look, we talk about entitlement, narcisism, fat and tatoo.

At some point the cost benefit ratio of improving or put some work to get a girl its not worth unless you are at least a 7 as a guy.

Right now if you are a 7 in look with all his sh1t togheter you can get a 6 that doesnt drive you insane or a 7 which is a pain in the ass, nothing more than that excluded for rock star status and money.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Recently heard jordan Peterson talk about people being single. Basically, we are incredibly social creatures, it is unnatural to not be social. Physiologically, it makes sense to be social as a human being. With that, there is a very small percentage of the population who can actually function well being single.

But the issue comes with being single for long periods of time. When your single, you tend to drift towards your weaknesses. This article and the respective website that it speaks about are prime examples of this exact possibility. You can even see it here with men that have been on SS for extended periods of time.

The issue comes when people have too much pride to admit their faults and seek improvement, but instead find equally like-minded individuals who share the same weakness, which then perpetuates the issue further for the group.

This just puts further pressure [and social prejudice] on single individuals. This was the great thing about the communities and monasteries of the past where celibacy was celebrated. Now it is near demonized.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'd rather just pay for hot ones.

I'd rather them pay me the money you give them.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I'd rather them pay me the money you give them.

But that's just a fantasy of yours, isn't it?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

But that's just a fantasy of yours, isn't it?

It's not impossible if they your gf. I've had gf strippers before and as long as you don't frame yourself as a provider they can be okay gf's . And some wanna be nice and give their $ .

 

[RichardTheFrog]

It's not impossible if they your gf. I've had gf strippers before and as long as you don't frame yourself as a provider they can be on gf's . And some wanna be nice and give their $ .

How is she your gf if she's fvcking other guys?

If a girl thinks she's "playing me" while my d1ck is in her throat, she can think whatever she wants.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

How is she your gf if she's fvcking other guys?

If a girl thinks she's "playing me" while my d1ck is in her throat, she can think whatever she wants.

Just cause it's a gf dont mean she won't cheat . At the least strippers will show their body and hustle dudes out of $. If your banging her every night or whenever you want she probably isn't taking alot of side dyck .

 

[marmel75]

Yes, all this 'victimhood', whether first order [feminism] or second order [reaction to feminism] is built on the premise that I deserve to be happy [lacking here is any expression of gratitude and piety]. People simply do not understand that life is suffering [thanks to ideology], and the whole point of culture is to overcome this suffering. It really is a sad state of affairs.

Life is suffering? Ok Anthony Bourdain...guess we won't be heating from you much longer.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Life is suffering? Ok Anthony Bourdain...guess we won't be heating from you much longer.

That life is suffering is the insight of all the great religions, and why they all sought systems of virtue to deal with the reality of suffering. Of course, this is heresy when the current orthodoxy is that all should pursue happiness.... and that happiness, or rather pleasure, consists in giving in to our vices. To say that life is suffering is simply to state that we must grapple with such emotions as boredom, anxiety, fear etc that often define the human condition.... and can in the end be life-destroying.

The whole point of technology and social media is to distract ourselves from our real condition. It fuels restless addictive states of mind, that always desires to consume, and that creates the very opposite of happiness. If people were happy, they wouldn't feel the need to constantly consume.

 

[marmel75]

That life is suffering is the insight of all the great religions, and why they all sought systems of virtue to deal with the reality of suffering. Of course, this is heresy when the current orthodoxy is that all should pursue happiness.... and that happiness, or rather pleasure, consists in giving in to our vices. To say that life is suffering is simply to state that we must grapple with such emotions as boredom, anxiety, fear etc that often define the human condition.... and can in the end be life-destroying.

The whole point of technology and social media is to distract ourselves from our real condition. It fuels restless addictive states of mind, that always desires to consume, and that creates the very opposite of happiness. If people were happy, they wouldn't feel the need to constantly consume.

The whole point of technology is to allow us do things that were never possible and now are. Look at what has happened in the last 50 years...hell just the last 20...

Technology drives us forward as a civilization but it comes with consequences...some of which we don't even know or understand yet. In the end our drive for ever improving technology will likely be our own undoing.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Could easily have been me and was me until I had looks and status.

Same

 

[Epicwinguy]

I would say two reasons.

1. They want a girl that genuinely likes them and is attracted to them. When they see other guys hooking up or having gfs, the idea of paying someone just doesn’t seem like the same thing.

2. A lot of these guys are really nervous around women, so paying for it and having to perform during a quick one hour session terrifies them.

3. Sting operations

 

[Epicwinguy]

Any guy can get laid if they drop their standards enough. I would have women lined up to fvck me if I messaged the fat girls who like me on Match.


The way for incels to get laid is drop their standards.

These days, fat chicks have the same standards as supermodels. The only time they don't is if they are a granny 50+ years old or a homeless crack head.

 

[R.U.G.]

These days, fat chicks have the same standards as supermodels. The only time they don't is if they are a granny 50+ years old or a homeless crack head.

So true. This woman messaged me, but didn't have their full body pics. I did some research and found them on another site. She's a big one and has a big entitled attitude to go with it. Not sure where it comes from. A fatty with an entitlement complex... What a world we live in.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

To quote Hill Street Blues 'it's a war out there' [realize the culture has collapsed.. that we are living in barbarous conditions]. Accordingly, we need to take both offensive and defensive positions. On the offensive, we can develop certain skills of game, a suit of armor of sorts to protect from eros gone awry. On the defensive, we can look at ourselves and restrain the erotic impulse to a certain extent. And once it is under self-control, we can practice the art of war more tactically... knowing when to make a sortie or not.

inner/ subjective/ frame - strategy
outer/ objective/ game - tactics