CBear
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The point of this is to show more options for guys who want to have a good time. This is something I wanted to place a tiny focus on while visiting family and visiting the country in a short amount of time. This is in Poland. Some things I wanted to look at were OLD, difference in egos,& the way women presented themselves. This is not just about women, however. This is includes the men as well.
The one thing to take into consideration and understand before reading this is that:
People tend to be attracted to other people who resemble them in appearance.
As a 6ft 195 lbs, 8-9% bf good looking white male, I've never had trouble with attraction (admittedly, game needs more work!). OLD was never a problem, even when picky though I did find myself swiping left a lot more than I wanted in the U.S.. This isn't necessarily because I'm not attracted to women of different races (although it plays a part, which is why I wrote that you must take that into consideration), it's more so because many women don't take care of themselves (more on that later). In Eastern Europe, I was swiping right to almost every woman. Tons of cute-hot skinny brunettes/blondes with great bodies and a good-great sense of fashion. As a result, I got over 50 matches on tinder (that's mainly what people use in Poland) in 2 weeks as well as a couple of super likes. No woman was below a 6 (IMO but for general references, as an example, I'd say Emilia Clarke is the ideal looking woman for me). They knew that I spoke Polish and English so many tried to write in English to "impress the American boy". They're words not mine. I would have been able to meet plenty of them if I had the time since they were asking for it.
In Eastern Europe, I got stares everywhere I went. I've never experienced so much eye f*cking in America. I say this to all the guys here because I don't look like I'm from Poland. People are generally shocked when I speak in Polish because "I carry myself as an American" and have more of an American look although in America I get asked if I'm Italian the most. But that's a wonderful thing if your an American guy traveling.
Everywhere we went, I saw absolute dimes and that is not something I tend to say. It was actually one of the best parts of being a tourist. It was as if they had COMMON SENSE on how to take care of themselves. With that being said, there are TOO many great looking women. Like there aren't enough decent looking guys for them. In America there are some great looking women but I really feel like you have to try to look to notice a lot of them.
Another thing I want to mention which may not seem important but is are the restaurants. In America, there's fast food absolutely everywhere. In Poland, although there are some fast food restaurants, there are many restaurants that we like to call "home style". In Poland, you rarely see any whales. In America there are way too many of them. Men & women. The worst part is that people from Eastern Europe have a very "fatty" diet that consists of meat and potatoes, yet they look good. Some men get a belly later in life but they're not morbidly obese. This is no coincidence and this has something to do with the difference of the two cultures. This brings me to the last thing I wanted to talk about. The overblown egos in America.
I now understand very well that feminism has created women to have overflown egos. You have absolute whales who don't take care of any aspect of their lives thinking they have a chance with successful model looking guys and its absolutely insane. In Eastern Europe, you have many women who seemingly settle for less since there aren't as many good looking guys or successful guys. The American hookup culture and college parties have to do a lot with the low quality trash who think too highly of themselves and that many guys here convince themselves that they have to impress as a result of less options.
Having looked at all the positives, the one negative I have to admit is that many people smoke cigarettes. This is common in America as well and it should be mentioned that most Eastern European people seem to smoke only during parties or some other social gathering but it's still a negative.
My final statement regarding this topic is that if there are great guys who care about their looks and careers on here but can't seem to get higher quality women, consider traveling to Europe as a tourist for some time and go to some of the major cities. I don't think you'll have a lot of trouble if you're not white as well, just as long as you're a high quality dude who cares about the way he looks as well as fashion but understand that it plays a part. Many men from Europe even travel to the bigger cities with their bros on the weekends just to go to clubs and get laid before coming back to work the next week lol. Yes it's good to adapt to one's environment but if it looks like there are better as well as more options elsewhere, why not take advantage of that and have fun has a side effect of traveling?
The one thing to take into consideration and understand before reading this is that:
People tend to be attracted to other people who resemble them in appearance.
As a 6ft 195 lbs, 8-9% bf good looking white male, I've never had trouble with attraction (admittedly, game needs more work!). OLD was never a problem, even when picky though I did find myself swiping left a lot more than I wanted in the U.S.. This isn't necessarily because I'm not attracted to women of different races (although it plays a part, which is why I wrote that you must take that into consideration), it's more so because many women don't take care of themselves (more on that later). In Eastern Europe, I was swiping right to almost every woman. Tons of cute-hot skinny brunettes/blondes with great bodies and a good-great sense of fashion. As a result, I got over 50 matches on tinder (that's mainly what people use in Poland) in 2 weeks as well as a couple of super likes. No woman was below a 6 (IMO but for general references, as an example, I'd say Emilia Clarke is the ideal looking woman for me). They knew that I spoke Polish and English so many tried to write in English to "impress the American boy". They're words not mine. I would have been able to meet plenty of them if I had the time since they were asking for it.
In Eastern Europe, I got stares everywhere I went. I've never experienced so much eye f*cking in America. I say this to all the guys here because I don't look like I'm from Poland. People are generally shocked when I speak in Polish because "I carry myself as an American" and have more of an American look although in America I get asked if I'm Italian the most. But that's a wonderful thing if your an American guy traveling.
Everywhere we went, I saw absolute dimes and that is not something I tend to say. It was actually one of the best parts of being a tourist. It was as if they had COMMON SENSE on how to take care of themselves. With that being said, there are TOO many great looking women. Like there aren't enough decent looking guys for them. In America there are some great looking women but I really feel like you have to try to look to notice a lot of them.
Another thing I want to mention which may not seem important but is are the restaurants. In America, there's fast food absolutely everywhere. In Poland, although there are some fast food restaurants, there are many restaurants that we like to call "home style". In Poland, you rarely see any whales. In America there are way too many of them. Men & women. The worst part is that people from Eastern Europe have a very "fatty" diet that consists of meat and potatoes, yet they look good. Some men get a belly later in life but they're not morbidly obese. This is no coincidence and this has something to do with the difference of the two cultures. This brings me to the last thing I wanted to talk about. The overblown egos in America.
I now understand very well that feminism has created women to have overflown egos. You have absolute whales who don't take care of any aspect of their lives thinking they have a chance with successful model looking guys and its absolutely insane. In Eastern Europe, you have many women who seemingly settle for less since there aren't as many good looking guys or successful guys. The American hookup culture and college parties have to do a lot with the low quality trash who think too highly of themselves and that many guys here convince themselves that they have to impress as a result of less options.
Having looked at all the positives, the one negative I have to admit is that many people smoke cigarettes. This is common in America as well and it should be mentioned that most Eastern European people seem to smoke only during parties or some other social gathering but it's still a negative.
My final statement regarding this topic is that if there are great guys who care about their looks and careers on here but can't seem to get higher quality women, consider traveling to Europe as a tourist for some time and go to some of the major cities. I don't think you'll have a lot of trouble if you're not white as well, just as long as you're a high quality dude who cares about the way he looks as well as fashion but understand that it plays a part. Many men from Europe even travel to the bigger cities with their bros on the weekends just to go to clubs and get laid before coming back to work the next week lol. Yes it's good to adapt to one's environment but if it looks like there are better as well as more options elsewhere, why not take advantage of that and have fun has a side effect of traveling?
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