My ex is "giving up men"?

[RichardTheFrog]

Maybe because I had a meaningful human connection with her, and I'm emotionally mature enough to look at my ex's fun photos of her cool life without having a total mental breakdown?

Do you know what a romantic connection is? Have you ever had a girlfriend in your life? An actual girl who likes you because you're you, not because Daddy gives you money and you give it to her and pretend you earned it yourself?

What's "pathetic" is you traipsing around the boards acting like a total c**t towards people in every thread you participate in, while bragging about going to prison, being an alcoholic and having sex with prostitutes.

But I guess it beats actually learning how to date women or starting the big house flipping business you keep talking about that doesn't actually exist.

Keep posting your garbage in my thread if you want, I'm not going to deign you with a response anymore. You just enjoy the attention I give you because you don't have a life.

@Reykhel I remember you said this guy doesn't look for BS arguments and we all just pick on him. Check out his behaviour in this thread, dude

Actually I just decided to start harassing your comments because you've done it to me for so long.

I work 7 days/week. I'm at Home Depot right now, loser.

Good luck studying your atoms.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

She's giving up men in the same regard as "I'm not ready for a relationship".

Did she say "men" or "boys?"

Because she probably meant she hates little boys like him.

 

[Von]

She's giving up men in the same regard as "I'm not ready for a relationship".

She'll be back once she see's a LTR option... unless she turns lesbians... still until she finds a LTR option

 

[Who Dares Win]

Yep, same way. The fact that she knew and didn't tell me really drove me crazy. Then, she said she'd go on the anti-virals. Got the RX and everything. She never took one pill. Pure evil. Yet, she's not the exception, she's the rule.

Herpes is a tricky little bugger. It's a skin disease, so a person can be shedding anywhere on the body, and not even know it unless they are tested. My b!tch's excuse was that her doctor told her it wasn't a big deal, everyone has it. Well, I didn't and thank God I do not now. Supposedly 80% have HSV-1 and 25% have GHSV-1 or HSV-2. Always always always cover your member with a latex or polyurethane condom. Also, never lick them until you have a full panel STI/STD test. You can get herpes whitlow via fingering, however, it's very rare.

You did the right thing.

You seem educated in the subject, can you tell me which are the standard procedures to get tested?

I had my share of raw dog sex with women far from being good girls and I'm kinda concerned about it.

Does it get checked through blood test or what? what about those antivirals, do they relly fix it?

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I had my share of raw dog sex with women far from being good girls and I'm kinda concerned about it.

Does it get checked through blood test or what? what about those antivirals, do they relly fix it?

In that case you probably already have it asymptomatic. Casual sex without a condom is insanely high risk for it (esp without antivirals), it's like 90% transmission rate in one sex sesh if she has herpes with symptoms, something like 50% if the symptoms aren't showing.

Swabs of sores can be taken, or if you don't have sores a blood test will show antibodies for it in your blood if you've had it for a couple of months. Blood test is better anyway because it will give you the type.

The antivirals don't "fix" it, they just lower infectivity rates. They vary in effectiveness, but the latest one (Vacyclovir if memory serves me correctly) when taken daily reduces the female --> male transmission rate to around 1% per year of protected sex. It's higher if you don't use a condom. If you get unlucky you can get it with condom + antivirals.

Men who don't bother with condoms are actually the biggest reason herpes is even a problem (not trying to whine here, but it's frustrating from my perspective). The male --> female transmission rate without condom is insanely high. It's how my ex got it - one stupid one night stand with one ****head who wouldn't rubber up, and after 5 minutes she has herpes forever. Guy dumped her right after infecting her like a piece of sh*t.

Anyway, unfortunately it can still be transmitted without symptoms, so the traditional advice of "just avoid breakouts" is BS.

 

[R.U.G.]

You seem educated in the subject, can you tell me which are the standard procedures to get tested?

I had my share of raw dog sex with women far from being good girls and I'm kinda concerned about it.

Does it get checked through blood test or what? what about those antivirals, do they relly fix it?

The golden standard is the western blot test. It's by far the most on point from false negatives or false positives. Or, you can just start with a standard blood panel from your GP which is 100% covered by insurance. However, just remember to check if the lab is also covered with your plan. Best to use Quest in the States.

 

[R.U.G.]

In that case you probably already have it asymptomatic. Casual sex without a condom is insanely high risk for it (esp without antivirals), it's like 90% transmission rate in one sex sesh if she has herpes with symptoms, something like 50% if the symptoms aren't showing.

Swabs of sores can be taken, or if you don't have sores a blood test will show antibodies for it in your blood if you've had it for a couple of months. Blood test is better anyway because it will give you the type.

The antivirals don't "fix" it, they just lower infectivity rates. They vary in effectiveness, but the latest one (Vacyclovir if memory serves me correctly) when taken daily reduces the female --> male transmission rate to around 1% per year of protected sex. It's higher if you don't use a condom. If you get unlucky you can get it with condom + antivirals.

Men who don't bother with condoms are actually the biggest reason herpes is even a problem (not trying to whine here, but it's frustrating from my perspective). The male --> female transmission rate without condom is insanely high. It's how my ex got it - one stupid one night stand with one ****head who wouldn't rubber up, and after 5 minutes she has herpes forever. Guy dumped her right after infecting her like a piece of sh*t.

Anyway, unfortunately it can still be transmitted without symptoms, so the traditional advice of "just avoid breakouts" is BS.

So true. Always best to protect your junk. The 001 condoms are amazing. Very strong and thin and you can feel everything. No need to take risks. It would be bad enough to catch it, even worse to spread it unknowingly. If a person spread it knowingly, we'll that's pretty sh!tty.

 

[Who Dares Win]

The golden standard is the western blot test. It's by far the most on point from false negatives or false positives. Or, you can just start with a standard blood panel from your GP which is 100% covered by insurance. However, just remember to check if the lab is also covered with your plan. Best to use Quest in the States.

I'm european so no concern about insurance, its either free or low cost, what is this blot test?

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Great post i agree but this wasnt a thing before internet it seems

it's been a thing since to roman empire created monogamous laws

lawl.

woman arnt attracted to psychos because their psychos..

theyre attracted to them because people who have mental disorders arnt as prone to social conditioning.

so a narcissistic badazz isn't getting azz because he's a narcissistic badazz, he's getting azz because his true desires as a man weren't directly affected and shamed by social conditioning. every individual has the degree to which they were affected by societal pressure.

so the greater and more mentally keen a person is growing up, the more fvcked up and betaized he/she will be when their older.

the more mentally unaware someone is growing up(add, bpd, sociopath, psychotic traits) the more they will be in tune with their desires as a human, but the downside is they're fvxked up.

social conditioning and awareness is needed and crucially imporant for survival reasons.

unfortunately this modern society we live in that survif a mechanism has been high jacked %100 completely to turn us into beta male, team players, monogamous husband with absolutly zero game.

but when humans lived before all of this, their was a time where the great men and woman were naturally able to have great relationships because their weren't growing up in a backward old fashioned styled church society that shames them for having sexual thoughts at 5 years old hahaha

 

[Dingo]

She said BOYS...

Referring to you.

Yeah....I was kinda thinking this...^

She's giving up "boys".... looking for "men".... Whatever ever that means in her head.

But... She's an ex.... Forget her.... Sarge on.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

the more mentally unaware someone is growing up(add, bpd, sociopath, psychotic traits) the more they will be in tune with their desires as a human, but the downside is they're fvxked up.

The modern/ post-modern Freudian narrative pits our real nature [our Id, our sexuality] against society [the super-ego]. This schizophrenic view of culture is in large measure an outcome of Puritanism [a reaction to it].. and the increasing contradictions that were being felt in a more individualistic and scientific culture.

BUT the real point of culture is a rational restraint [not a repression] on our instinctual nature so we can live a free and self-determined life. Without this, we become a slave to our passions... with all the problems this ensues.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

Yeah....I was kinda thinking this...^

She's giving up "boys".... looking for "men".... Whatever ever that means in her head.

But... She's an ex.... Forget her.... Sarge on.

Nah, she's always referred to "boys" when talking dating. Never heard her talk "men" - she's only in her early twenties, girls just use that vernacular (hell, I'm even saying "girls" not "women"). I think she's just a bit immature in general, one reason we split. If she'd been a bit more adult with handling the whole sexual health thing we would have had a much easier ride.

You're right though, no point dwelling on the past. I just feel sorry for her I guess, she was high quality but kind of cratered herself - but she's a grown woman and doesn't need me looking out for her.

]woman arnt attracted to psychos because their psychos..

theyre attracted to them because people who have mental disorders arnt as prone to social conditioning.

the more mentally unaware someone is growing up(add, bpd, sociopath, psychotic traits) the more they will be in tune with their desires as a human, but the downside is they're fvxked up.

Interesting train of thought. An even more interesting thought is how much of that being "f*cked up" is down to simply expressing their natural human desires rather than being psychotic? Without impulse control I think most humans are f*cked up creatures by nature. Lack of inhibitions pushes us to the baser urges of desiring power, greed for money, greed for sex. Impulse control is what separates a lunatic with an explosive temper or a compulsive addict from a regular in-control human being.

Anyway, I think even if you are "confident" as a sociopath, it's false confidence. It may confer you immunity to social conditioning and some benefits from that, but you're not confident in the way a regular, well-adjusted person is. That's why these people snap and get nasty when that "confidence" is challenged, rather than just not being bothered.

but when humans lived before all of this, their was a time where the great men and woman were naturally able to have great relationships because their weren't growing up in a backward old fashioned styled church society that shames them for having sexual thoughts at 5 years old hahaha

Honestly, the more I think about it, the more I think mass media and the Internet is one of the worst things to happen to humanity as well as one of the best.

People in the past just lived their lives. They didn't have to worry about their FB, Insta, texting, WhatsApp, Tinder. You'd actually talk to strangers in RL because you wouldn't all be plugged into your phones.

We're also now constantly subjected to this BS Far-Left propaganda (in addition the Far-Right getting a dangerous platform too). These lefties spend all their time shaming straight men and get a huge audience. Previously that was never hanging over everyone's heads like the Sword of Damocles.

I even saw some complete c**t posting on twitter earlier about how he hates men so much (his own freaking gender) that he wishes he could "take us all by the hand and run off a cliff". What an absolute bell-end.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Men do it all the time. They give up on women. They are called MGTOW and Incels. LOL. In all honesty, she prob. has a low sex drive or is asexual. I am told that some women do not put a high priority for sex; at least not as high as men.

LOL how naive.

It's called, she's a attention *****. She will get pig roasted before I finish this post. Betas and cucks will be white knight ING.

There's Joey King too form smv. Ie 18+ meanwhile, like buffaloes, women being cheered off the cliff in th disguise of girl power feminism, and victimhood.

This girl is letting smv slip away. She's not seeking self knowledge and exploring consciousness. She's pedaling victimhood and doing so via social media.

#nextset

 

[R.U.G.]

I'm european so no concern about insurance, its either free or low cost, what is this blot test?

Western Blot Test was developed at University of Washington. It's the most accurate blood test one can get. I am sure there is something similar in Europe. Here's the lowdown:

https://depts.washington.edu/herpes/pages/frequently_asked_questions.

 

[R.U.G.]

LOL how naive.

It's called, she's a attention *****. She will get pig roasted before I finish this post. Betas and cucks will be white knight ING.

There's Joey King too form smv. Ie 18+ meanwhile, like buffaloes, women being cheered off the cliff in th disguise of girl power feminism, and victimhood.

This girl is letting smv slip away. She's not seeking self knowledge and exploring consciousness. She's pedaling victimhood and doing so via social media.

#nextset

Not always. Could just have a few screws loose or hormonal problem. You'd be surprised how common this is nowadays.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Not always. Could just have a few screws loose or hormonal problem. You'd be surprised how common this is nowadays.

Excuses.

Women have a shorter shelf life. Mental health or retardation in its many forms (feminist, SJW, single mom household, reformed slut, etc)!

The clock is ticking. I don't care about the premise of society, pc culture or the indoctrination of the female sex both perpetrator and victim.

Free choice goes a long way. As a young boy and preteen, I knew a gem, a solid 15/10 free thinker was a rarity. If you attempt to extrapolate something of common sense and rational thought from a young American woman, you won't get far.

It's Chad's until smv craters. It's then evolutionary the woman puts on the good girl shtick to rope in beta cuck male provider. The amount of cucks these days mind blowing. Phaghitree to the absolute max.

Commitment to the girl with the ig ass pics. It takes attention ***** to the next level. The only thing that is evident ITT is that lack of boundaries man has.

Op ain't doing it right.

Should be too busy out getting Baes to give a ****kkk what she's doing.

#nextset