what is it with La?

[captain55]

Obviously a true player adapts to his surroundings ...but since I moved to La...One of the biggest problems I face is that many of the women I pursue out here like feminine dudes and the girls play games. I know it’s an La thing because I just met a chick from New York out here recently and everything went exactly how it should go and she’s never made **** difficult.

My ex was from New York I met her two years ago out here and it was the same thing, she never flaked on me... never played games.

How is a huge Italian guy that is used to dating Italian and Spanish women from New York who are very rough ....supposed to connect with soft La white chicks that have dated more feminine guys from La her whole life?

I can’t connect with these white chicks. I can’t go on one date without them doing something to piss me off or turn me off. I see how these guys from La act with their girlfriends and that **** makes me sick. An Italian chick would eat a man alive that pulled that soft ****.

The culture is just different out here. When I was on the east coast I would put a chick in place that disrespected me and she’d just **** me harder and suck my **** harder. If I did that to a chick out here I would be labeled crazy and probably have the cops called on me

 

[captain55]

You moved from easy mode to hard mode that's all. La is not even that bad compared to other place.

It depends on your style of game. If your aren't exactly a dominate guy but you can talk and people like you, you can do ok with women in LA. But LA is the worst city for a single guy with aggressive game that is used to getting what he wants with women.... women don't respond to aggressive game and players out here like they do in other places because guys are just more feminine out here. When I go to Miami I really clean up. And the women are a lot hotter out there as well. The women in LA really aren't that hot in most cases

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Lmao try Seattle bruh. That’s faggot city right there hahahaha

 

[Young OG]

Don't date white girls then. Date other races. White women aren't as great as some people think they are. I'm pretty much done with them. I only date Latinas and mixed girls now. There more submissive and not as westernized.

You might need to tweak your game. Players are getting laid there, so you can too.

 

[Tilex]

New York and Los Angeles are two different cultures.

Los Angeles thrives on car culture, celebrity culture, barbie culture, surfer culture, and everything being spread out.
You have less physical proximity of people in contact on a daily basis.

New York is everything opposite of LA.
Constant proximity, walking culture, compact density, four seasons, fashion culture, hustle culture

 

[btownbuck2012]

Have lived in LA for about a year now
Lived in NYC for 3 years previously.

Getting laid in NYC was much easier than here in LA and the main reason is proximity. LA is so f*cking spread out it's almost unbelievable. There are women in Hermosa Beach who ghosted me after great first & second dates because I lived in Pasadena.

Whereas in NYC you can get anywhere you want rather quickly.

Now I'm talking about in sheer terms of just getting laid. Trying to find a quality LTR in either one of these cities? Forget about it. Total disillusionment on my end that in regard. But that's the case in a-lot of other cities too from what I can glean from what I read on here.

I've heard southern cities are a bit more favorable: Charlotte, Atlanta, even Houston? But f*ck that. If I move again it'll be back home to good old Indiana.

 

[Macaframalama]

It's getting this way in the southern states too. There are still plenty of women into masculine men, but allot of the younger chicks are going for the soy boys. I think it's maybe the convenience of being able to share jeans and feminine hygiene products.

 

[Toddz]

Don't date white girls then. Date other races. White women aren't as great as some people think they are. I'm pretty much done with them. I only date Latinas and mixed girls now. There more submissive and not as westernized.

You might need to tweak your game. Players are getting laid there, so you can too.

Bro me too.

Brazilian women are where it's at. Dominican and Venezuelan women are nice too though...