MoreThanSmooth
Master Don Juan
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Well, good for you then. But there was still a financial transaction involved in all this.That's cause all you said was peck on the cheek. You didn't mention the rest.
And this girl didn't tell me I'm attractive just because I paid her. It's easy to tell. She also didn't tell me my d1ck was good because I paid her. She also sat there and talked to me for a very long time at the club when I was not giving her tips.
As I said, if that's how you want to do it, fair enough. But I honestly think you'd be better off cutting the drinking back and showing all these flashy clothes off to girls who actually don't expect any financial payment. It would do your confidence some good and you might develop a more normal view of relationships.
Attraction is subjective. Some girl might think you're not her type and another might think you're 10/10 super hot. Likewise, some chick I find smoking hot might be someone you wouldn't like. Or vice versa.Plus, how do I know the girl you're talking about was attractive? Plus, if you're still in school, it's a different ballgame.
She was blonde, long hair, slim, nice boobs, cute face, yoga chick. I thought she was gorgeous and she was great at kissing, so why would I give a f*ck whether some other guy would find her attractive?
I'm not going to post a picture of my ex-girlfriend so you can decide whether she's "hot" or not...because let's face it, you'd just say "I've f*cked hotter chicks than that, I've f*cked hotter chicks than anyone here." No one cares. Life's not a competition. It's only important that you're happy yourself with the girls you're getting with.
Unless she's 2 ton of gelatin the "number" you assign her is pretty much irrelevant from one guy to the next.
(Also I met her on Tinder. So whether I'm in "school" or not was irrelevant in this case).
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I'm not hating on you Richard. I just think the idea of dressing up for breastaurants and strip clubs is kind of redundant. Go to a normal bar, hit on a normal woman.