How to proceed to the next level?
Here was my standard mode of operation and a few tricks I perfected over a few years:
1. Me and 2 buddies would visit the same club weekly. Sit in the same spot. Eventually they will start reserving your table.
2. Make friends with all the dancers, dj, front desk girls, bathroom attendant, bouncers, bartenders, and the jizz mopper!
3. Dress nice, smell good. Look sexy. Wear a sport jacket sometimes.
4. Be the life of the party. Cause a big scene when you walk in the door every time, make sure everybody knows you had arrived. Give everybody in your group nicknames and introduce yourself this way every time.
5. Have 2 other guys with you. 2 of you need to have game, good convo skills, and fun to talk to. It helps if the 3rd guy is a chump that likes to spend $$$.
6. Don't be a "customer". Let them know that you are there to party.
-We once took a dollar bill and taped some fishing line to it and set it on the main stage. As soon as some girl would bend over to pick it up, I'd pull the string and yank it away from her. Some got really pissed, most thought it was hilarious.
-I once went up to the main stage with a bottle of Jager and told this girl I wanted to do a belly button shot. I poured the booze on her stomach and licked it off. This chic fell in love with me. She thought I was crazy as hell and had big balls because of what I did. We dated for a few months after that.
-Another girl I dated had the same birthday as mine and we hit it off pretty well. We developed a good friendship over a few months. One day she was horny and so was I. She asked me if she could give me a lap dance and I told her I don't buy lap dances. She took my hand and put it down her panties. Girl was super wet. I led her over to the couch area so we could be more comfortable. I am on top of her while she was on her back. I'm sucking on her nipples and fingering her while she has her hand down my unbuttoned pants. After about 10minutes the bouncer comes and taps me on the shoulder and tells me I need to leave. I politely agreed with a big grin knowing I got away with murder! She ends up getting fired but they hired her back after a month. We end up dating after this.
-Another girl I got I simply went up to the main stage and told her I liked her song choice and she should come have a drink at my table when she was done. Later I got her number and the following week we had a first date. We dated for several months and had a ton of fun together.
-When the guy that shines the pole and dance floor comes out get up and throw a few dollars at him. You will be an instant celebrity with the girls! Best money I ever spent at a $trip club.
-I got on one of the side stages and danced on the pole once. The bouncers thru me off quickly but I stayed up there long enough that most of the girls noticed and they got a kick out of it. Definitely scored me some points.
-One girl had a hot pink feather skirt. I pulled it off her little azz and wore it on my head the rest of the night and told everybody I was Chief Poke-a-lotta-puss. Everybody got a big laugh.
7. It takes about 3 visits to get to know a girl before any of us ever asked for a phone number. They have to warm up to you. As always building comfort is important. The only way to skip the building comfort stage is to pull your wallet out. Don't be that guy. There is no skill in that.
8. Its good to be the "entertainment". Once you are, they will all end up hanging out at your table. We always had 3-5 girls hanging out with us. It was a revolving door of women. And what happens is when the other girls see that you constantly have girls at your table your status rises and draws more. Our main draw was the fact that we were fun to hang out with, entertaining, and provided free booze.
9. Go to the BYOB clubs. Bring lots of booze. Pour low quality booze into high dollar bottles. Most wont know the difference.
There are some really interesting names for liquors. One bottle we had was called "CAHK BURN". We got lots of mileage out of that. Then we had another bottle of booze that was in a 2 foot tall bottle shaped like a Tommy gun.
10. Sit at a table that has easy access so you can be approached more often. Always have your chair pointed to the aisle to make it easy for a girl to approach and sit on your lap.
11. Check the gas stations close to the club you visit, a lot of times the clubs pass out free entry coupons so these gas stations will share with their customers.
The only guy from our group that didn't end up dating any girls from the club was the guy who spent big money! He got a few phone numbers and plenty of extras in VIP, but he had to spend money for it. The rest of us got by on no more than $40-$50 each time which included booze expenses, door fee, and a few dollars for tips. So if you think those girls dated us for the money you are sadly mistaken.
They dated us because we were fun, bold, entertaining, cahky, confident, dressed good, and had good conversational skills. Same things that attract non strippers.
If you ever want to get really good and comfortable conversing with women, I urge you to hang out in a $trip club. You can practice on a new girl every 20 minutes. You can't do that anywhere else. Sometimes I made it my goal to see how long I could keep her sitting with me before she asked for a lap dance. You learned what amped attraction and what didn't. I've had some really good conversations with these girls and those skills I developed helped me get non-strippers. The better you are at conversing, the further you get with women, the better the connection, and the less money it takes. I really don't like to spend money, I'm pretty frugal.
If there is one thing I am good at, its 1-on-1 conversations with females and its because of my time spent in $trip clubs.
