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The lost generation in a nutshell

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But, what is there to strive for?

Cratered smv? Raise Chad's baby? Marry Chad's booty call?

A wing of mine is a bit nuts. He pulls from tinder or goes to strip clubs. He pays for the girl to suck him off. They do for the right price.

I believe in God/being. This seems outright insane but, I totally get it. Guys like Dan Bilizarin are similar. Lots of hookers,escorts, call girls, ig ass models.

There's something to be had with putting in work. I definitely get it though. I think it is a dangerous road to take.
If the feminine principle is nature, then the masculine one is transcendence. Men have to be prepared to walk away... not from just one women in particular, but women in general.

This transcendence/ over-coming first involves the rational self over-coming the biological self, which is virtue in a nutshell.

[vir… virile... manliness]
 

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Clever Mr. Columbus

Men are supposed to be transcendence, that's his nature.
 

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A wing of mine is a bit nuts. He pulls from tinder or goes to strip clubs. He pays for the girl to suck him off. They do for the right price.

I believe in God/being. This seems outright insane but, I totally get it. Guys like Dan Bilizarin are similar. Lots of hookers,escorts, call girls, ig ass models.

There's something to be had with putting in work. I definitely get it though. I think it is a dangerous road to take.
Yeah a bit dangerous today. Even yesterday, you'd get syphilis and die. Then it was "legal," and men Didn't have to marry, just work in their meager paltry jobs (not desirable). People back then were POOR to the point of starvation! Starvation or starving, REAL starvation, is no longer a Word. It's been eradicated from the English dictionary where any Western man can get to a place in the 3rd world they will not "Starve." So we subsist, yet they've taken away prostitution to FORCE us to get "married." With regulated prostitution, not exactly sure if everything would be better, but you'd almost be assured no death from it, if regulations ensured monthly testing (on the government dime or not). Surely it'd be taxed severely like cigarettes alcohol. So we've NEVER had that. Back in the old days (the great migration and "Gold Rush" 1850s) we didn't have "assurance" to mess with a skank hoe (aren't ALL of them that though??). Women SHOULD go through peer review EVERYWHERE, they should get tested EVERYWHERE because they catch it all, all the little worms that can get into YOU eventually, all the yeast and various STDs you don't even know about. Sure, your body can clear almost all of them eventually, over time, from staying Away from all women, but do you want walk around unhealthy (no fault of your own, but just some unsuspecting wh0re you just shagged got you there). Abstinence makes a man healthier cause the female is chock-full of these worms and various gunk down there (and up there - her mouth), wh0re or non-wh0re but they're ALL wh0res except for the Omish or severely religicized groups. Even they...
 

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If the feminine principle is nature, then the masculine one is transcendence. Men have to be prepared to walk away... not from just one women in particular, but women in general.

This transcendence/ over-coming first involves the rational self over-coming the biological self, which is virtue in a nutshell.

[vir… virile... manliness]
You sound close to mgtow. No judgements. Just asking?

It's ideal with respect to marriage as a liability and prioritize your masculine path, purpose, and detour from your primal desire for spread the seed. It's far too close for comfort and likely hoso somany men end up trapped in the female biological strategy divorce and or raising Chad's baby. It's normalized. Your emphasis is on 'transcending.' I concur.

Man needs to go beyond 'spread the seed' and women have to go beyond hypergamy preferably before cratering her smv otherwise, she is a liability, and marriage as well as children is fallback.

I next a handful of girls. Back spinning plates always. I will pull them go get more baes. The thoughts of monogamy, marriage or forever is so foreign.

It's troubling. I am seeking self knowledge. I am exploring consciousness. After dmt, I have gone beyond the basic rules and regulations of the confinement that is body. If you ever seen YouTuber psyched substance, dudes doing it right. Travels. Gf. Kid. He trips. She explores consciousness. It's not ig ass pics. Jumping off the D and going nuts until her smv fails her.

This herein lies western women.
 

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Yeah a bit dangerous today. Even yesterday, you'd get syphilis and die. Then it was "legal," and men Didn't have to marry, just work in their meager paltry jobs (not desirable). People back then were POOR to the point of starvation! Starvation or starving, REAL starvation, is no longer a Word. It's been eradicated from the English dictionary where any Western man can get to a place in the 3rd world they will not "Starve." So we subsist, yet they've taken away prostitution to FORCE us to get "married."
My wing is on Gear, test, dbol, anadrol, etc. Could give a **** about laws. He paid a hawt stripper $400. She swallowed. It's scary to me. I have a addiction to stimuli, drugs, alcohol, gambling so, I refrain. Psychedelics are duff as they put the fear of God in you. You're shaken to your core and through the roots of your being.

With regulated prostitution, not exactly sure if everything would be better, but you'd almost be assured no death from it, if regulations ensured monthly testing (on the government dime or not). Surely it'd be taxed severely like cigarettes alcohol. So we've NEVER had that. Back in the old days (the great migration and "Gold Rush" 1850s) we didn't have "assurance" to mess with a skank hoe (aren't ALL of them that though??). Women SHOULD go through peer review EVERYWHERE, they should get tested EVERYWHERE because they catch it all, all the little worms that can get into YOU eventually, all the yeast and various STDs you don't even know about. Sure, your body can clear almost all of them eventually, over time, from staying Away from all women, but do you want walk around unhealthy (no fault of your own, but just some unsuspecting wh0re you just shagged got you there). Abstinence makes a man healthier cause the female is chock-full of these worms and various gunk down there (and up there - her mouth), wh0re or non-wh0re but they're ALL wh0res except for the Omish or severely religicized groups. Even they...
It's ****ed. My wing fears cold approaching but fearless with gear, injectables, throater from strippers (condom usually), and escorts.

It's a religion years of catholic up bringing they likely me has me seeing it as evil and wrong. A sin. As in missing the mark.

If I think of aiming for the highest good, that isn't it but, nor is a divorce, single moms, sluts, marrying cratered SMV, and low hanging fruit.

It's fallback but, it's a slippery slope. What incentive for my wing is to go do cold approach if hot girls will suck him for money. He swipes on tinder. Through gear he's getting more confident but, they need to give approach invitations. Check him out even then he's pretty soft.

For incels, it should be regulated, and legal.


If not for the highest good, what is there worth pursuing?


It's what I am pursuing with self knowledge, exploring consciousness, being, and DJ lifestyle. Aim for the highest good. Overcome fears. Strongest version of self. Self actualization.

There's a growing problem and it's hit me hard. It's men being disillusioned with the black pill. Fate. Cratered smv, single moms, divorce, etc awaiting them.

It's crushing to acknowledge what awaits you as a man by not having purpose and aiming for the highest good. It's why our culture is such a mess and why my genes will be weeded out of existence if not for acquiring that which I seek.

Because we are all doomed, that we will die, all we have is taking a stand, and going out on our shield willingly or kicking and screaming.

A woman can come along or get left behind.
 

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Here is the best part...

Within the next 10-20 years this useless generation that will dominate the political, economic and social future of this country.

Demographics is Destiny... We are doomed.
No. The people behind the scenes that you don’t know about are still gonna be there doing just that. Most politicians are puppets anyway.
 

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Generally I agree that no sane man able to work and provide for himself should stay at his parents home for no reason.

Anyway we have to consider something which is especially true in many european countries, the average job nowdays has crappy condition in terms of rewards, paycheck and chances to grow.

Many retired that you doing nothing get as retirement more than the average worker gets as salary, this fact alone is a red alarm.

Now what are the incentives for young men given that all the leadership position are still taken from old dinosaurs that see them as slaves and nothing else, old men with problems with the future and progress who dislike technology cause it would require them to put some work in it.

Wanna talk about dating? well no need for me to tell you that the average joe moves from dry spell to dry spell and when it breaks it is usually with a land whale...ofc I'm not talking about the guys in this forum that have a queue of 10s bombing their cellphone with nudes as we are reminded every 5 minutes.

Wanna talk about marriage? If I had to pick jail or marriage I would pick jail, the company is better and is surely less demanding on my mental health plus once out I still have my money.

As you can see its a two sided coin, guess why such things dont happen in countries like poland or hungary.
 

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Generally I agree that no sane man able to work and provide for himself should stay at his parents home for no reason.

Anyway we have to consider something which is especially true in many european countries, the average job nowdays has crappy condition in terms of rewards, paycheck and chances to grow.

Many retired that you doing nothing get as retirement more than the average worker gets as salary, this fact alone is a red alarm.

Now what are the incentives for young men given that all the leadership position are still taken from old dinosaurs that see them as slaves and nothing else, old men with problems with the future and progress who dislike technology cause it would require them to put some work in it.

Wanna talk about dating? well no need for me to tell you that the average joe moves from dry spell to dry spell and when it breaks it is usually with a land whale...ofc I'm not talking about the guys in this forum that have a queue of 10s bombing their cellphone with nudes as we are reminded every 5 minutes.

Wanna talk about marriage? If I had to pick jail or marriage I would pick jail, the company is better and is surely less demanding on my mental health plus once out I still have my money.

As you can see its a two sided coin, guess why such things dont happen in countries like poland or hungary.
Lol

I wish I were like guys on this site who are banging 10’s every day and driving Ferrari’s. Wonder how they get so much time to post on SS!

Marriage is more or less jail. I get lonely now but it’s better than dealing with a woman who can’t stand me.
 

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Lol

I wish I were like guys on this site who are banging 10’s every day and driving Ferrari’s. Wonder how they get so much time to post on SS!

Marriage is more or less jail. I get lonely now but it’s better than dealing with a woman who can’t stand me.
I wish it too, they are middle aged yet they have teenage 9s and 10s chasing them and pushing their bf away when they are nearby, they are in the single digit when it comes of bodyfat and their testosterone level is 150% of the level of the average guy 20 yrs younger.

Needless to say that if the average guy doesnt get matches on tinder its not cause entitled spoiled girls, its because the fails to do something, being 5'7 is no problem as long as your game is tight.

Now seriously, I just cant stand the bashing of average joes for facts that are environmental and way beyond their reach, wheter its dating or economics as if we could bash a guy in the 2008 crysis to lose his job.

Not that I want to remove responsibilities to lazy individuals but at some point this showing off of hyper masculinity know it all mac gyver style gets ridicolous.
 

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They r not useless lmao.

They do need guidance, I'll grant you that.

Ive often spoken the on role of mentoring and that's where gen X must play an important role; to pass on the baton.

Edit: With proper leadership, you can lead a fvcked up crew to win.
And what is my payoff if I lead them?

I'm going to take my money and retire in Mexico, buy a mansion, live on the beach, and have 3 or 4 hot Mexican girls sitting around my pool in bikini's all day while Jose & Manny manicure the lawn.
 

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And what is my payoff if I lead them?

I'm going to take my money and retire in Mexico, buy a mansion, live on the beach, and have 3 or 4 hot Mexican girls sitting around my pool in bikini's all day while Jose & Manny manicure the lawn.
And then have the drug cartels come kidnap you, hold you for ransom and then when they get it, cut you up in pieces and throw you in the dumpster anyways...
 

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And then have the drug cartels come kidnap you, hold you for ransom and then when they get it, cut you up in pieces and throw you in the dumpster anyways...
Lol.

Plenty of countries to settle in, the grass always looks greener over there.
 

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Lol

I wish I were like guys on this site who are banging 10’s every day and driving Ferrari’s. Wonder how they get so much time to post on SS!

Marriage is more or less jail. I get lonely now but it’s better than dealing with a woman who can’t stand me.
Forget the can't stand you. She extracts your resources and decimates your rep. You're not man enough, big enough, tall enough, rich enough etc. It's hypergamy 101 but at the core it's her own discontent.
 

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I’m 30 and a millennial, all I ****ing want us s chance to prove myself. I work 14-16 hour days and run around like a chicken with my head cut off

I think the main problem is the opposite. Most millennials had parents that said we could be anything, but didn’t teach us to hold off on gratification and work for it. That mindset also with crippling school debt loans is what’s causing today’s kids to be like they are.
 

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I’m 30 and a millennial, all I ****ing want us s chance to prove myself. I work 14-16 hour days and run around like a chicken with my head cut off

I think the main problem is the opposite. Most millennials had parents that said we could be anything, but didn’t teach us to hold off on gratification and work for it. That mindset also with crippling school debt loans is what’s causing today’s kids to be like they are.
Student loan debt shouldnt be crippling...look into the IBR program. Fixed payment based on your income and after 20 or 25 years in it the loan is wiped out regardless of how much is left.
 

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All this can be explained by the Fourth Turning as well as understanding how a fiat reserve currency works.

Essentially, boomers, and to an extent Gen X'ers were born AFTER the "greatest generation" saved the world. That's when King Dollar was born. So boomers grew up not really having to sacrifice much, having the world handed to them on a platter.

So their kids, were TWO GENERATIONS removed from any idea of "if you want success you gotta bust your ass to even get close."

At the same time, NAFTA, etc. was outsourcing all jobs and just showing up and getting A's wasn't enough.

So Millenials have the worst of everything. Parents who didn't have to struggle, AND the only decent jobs are available to those who are either genetically gifted with intelligence OR willing to bust arse just to get a decent paycheck.

ON TOP OF THAT

They came through an increasingly crappy educational system that gives medals for being average.

To say the deck is stacked against them is an understatement. Sh*tty parenting. Sh*tty educational system. Sh*tty economy. Sh*tty role models.
 
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