I'm gonna follow y'alls advice to a t for once in my life.

[Ryan Adams]

ok met another plate at the concert last night. danced made out etc. we have some mutual friends but this is the first time I've ever met her. is it weird to add her social media snapchat etc? I rlly wanna fvck perfect little body.

 

[lizardking82]

Men, you must have not been laid in quite a while. Your mindset seems kinda weak and it's gonna be hard to get any girl with the "I wanna fack her little perfect body" kinda mindset.

 

[Ryan Adams]

what? lol she has a hot body and I would love to smash is that weird?

 

[fanatic22]

Yeah don’t start adding on social media, what could that possibly get you? Text her, banter a bit, then ask for drinks.

 

[Ryan Adams]

I don't have her number though

 

[sazc]

If you had a great time with her and didn't ask for her number you already lost a few alpha points. Don't start seeking her out in social media or asking her friends for her number, you will just look beta and needy.

The best scenario is that she will seek you out on social media, or seek your number out, then respond. If she sells you out on social media, add her but get her number and only deal with her thru that medium.

If she doesn't seek you out then either consider it a sign that she's not interested, or try to place yourself in a social situation where you randomly run in to her. Then let her come to you.

 

[lizardking82]

If you had a great time with her and didn't ask for her number you already lost a few alpha points. Don't start seeking her out in social media or asking her friends for her number, you will just look beta and needy.

The best scenario is that she will seek you out on social media, or seek your number out, then respond. If she sells you out on social media, add her but get her number and only deal with her thru that medium.

If she doesn't seek you out then either consider it a sign that she's not interested, or try to place yourself in a social situation where you randomly run in to her. Then let her come to you.

Flexibility, girl, flexibility. Why you teaching him to ONLY use the phone? It's 2018, texting is quite used nowadays. Don't be so one-dimensional.

 

[sazc]

Flexibility, girl, flexibility. Why you teaching him to ONLY use the phone? It's 2018, texting is quite used nowadays. Don't be so one-dimensional.

Lol b/c this is RYAN ..... Hes still learning restraint...he WILL over text.

Based on what I've read, and what I gather about him, he won't over call her because he'll know know thats obviously too much.

I'd love to see him use the phone to set up a date and then only respond to her texts, keeping it simple, and use text to confirm the date, the day of the date. That would be my ideal.

Otherwise I feel like Ryan would be an over texter, and lose her that way.

 

[lizardking82]

Lol b/c this is RYAN ..... Hes still learning restraint...he WILL over text.

Based on what I've read, and what I gather about him, he won't over call her because he'll know know thats obviously too much.

I'd love to see him use the phone to set up a date and then only respond to her texts, keeping it simple, and use text to confirm the date, the day of the date. That would be my ideal.

Otherwise I feel like Ryan would be an over texter, and lose her that way.

He won't learn to text properly without overtexting first and losing a couple of targets. Practice and errors make better. Let him get into the mud and play.

 

[sazc]

He won't learn to text properly without overtexting first and losing a couple of targets. Practice and errors make better. Let him get into the mud and play.

yea, ur right. Plus then it will be ingrained

Good luck Ryan!

 

[JohnChops]

If you had a great time with her and didn't ask for her number you already lost a few alpha points. Don't start seeking her out in social media or asking her friends for her number, you will just look beta and needy.

The best scenario is that she will seek you out on social media, or seek your number out, then respond. If she sells you out on social media, add her but get her number and only deal with her thru that medium.

If she doesn't seek you out then either consider it a sign that she's not interested, or try to place yourself in a social situation where you randomly run in to her. Then let her come to you.

I agree with this. ASking for a number by adding a girl on social media usually never ends well. Nut up and ask for it in person while you were with her.

 

[Dingo]

I don't have her number though

Ugh... Give it a shot at reaching out. Nothing ventured nothing gained...

 

[fanatic22]

Add her on social media with the message “hey! You forgot to ask for my number “

Your chances are way lower than they were in person but at least its something

 

[Murk]

Why did you not get her number?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You have to treat her like any other female. So don't even worry about that hot little body till it's yours.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Men, you must have not been laid in quite a while. Your mindset seems kinda weak and it's gonna be hard to get any girl with the "I wanna fack her little perfect body" kinda mindset.

So should he jagging off or should he get with that okay looking girl that'll fvck and suck him when he feels like?

 

[Ryan Adams]

so she added me on social media.

 

[Ryan Adams]

ok so I told her to text me. she sent me a message saying just text me and have me her num

 

[Igetit!]

ok so I told her to text me. she sent me a message saying just text me and have me her num

Well that's cool. Since you say you're finally going to listen to the forum's advice for once in your life,my only suggestion are....

For one,you have to be the AGGRESSOR. In other words,don't keep telling her to text you.....YOU text and reach out to her FIRST. Don't keep telling her to text you. Also,FLIRT A LITTLE in the texts...ask her what she's been up to,tell her what you've been up to (make it something fun),then suggest getting together and going out to do something.

And just text her EVERY NOW AND THEN.....not everyday. Skip a day or two between texting. And don't text 4 or 5 times a day.....(I mean reaching out to her first...not responding to a text)....and don't spend all day texting,end it at some point.

And the last thing.....

If this chick happens to tell you that she DOESN'T drink and that her father is an alcoholic,DON'T BRING BEER ON THE DATE.