Milano
Senior Don Juan
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- Dec 21, 2016
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Was at a party yesterday with mostly girls. There was ofc just a couple of good looking girls single, as most are always taken.
When talking about dating and one of the unprettier ones mentioned tinder, I suggested a few things and just said that most girls (I ofc mean girls who are attractive, ugly ones- who cares, but I cant say that in this setting) sitting around this table, have probably met their current bofriend through their social circle, because it feels more natural and convenient for them. Ofc ALL had met their current boyfriend through a social circle, one of the prettiest fuked her current boyfriends friend until she met him.
So I went after the one I liked the most, we all went out, just danced a little and had played it safe as it was my first time in this group of girls (who had a strong friendship together so I had to be a little bit careful). Got her snapchat, next day I text her first on snapchat, then on face just for the heck of it. Got ignored on both platforms.
Did some snooking unfortunately, found out her ex was one of the least attractive humans you could put in a picture. Point is, they went to the same school and probably and hopefully he is a smart guy who has other things to offer than a horribly skinnyfat body and a 3/10 face. Now I am very cautious about where I put myself, but I am leagues ahead of this guy in looks, and thats not even my strongest side. When I go to parties, girls often tell me I should do standup, heard it for years so socially I feel pretty good and get invited to several new social circles.
My point is, in many places, smaller communities, cities, even cultures, ATTRACTIVE GIRLS JUST DONT GIVE A **** about tinder or "dating" at all. Some even say they think its for losers, in 2018 that just shockes me! These are "smart" attractive women I have spoken to, or the closest thing you get, who are engineers etc.
It seems to me, quality women, girls who are in long term relationships, seem to hang around in a relatively small social environment where they have so many guys to pick from its actually hard to fathom. IT IS INSANE lol. A cutie could move to a new country, work at a supermarket, next month she knows 1000 new guys and is rocking it at several parties. Whats the point of crying here? FIND THE SOURCE, where are all these girls going!?
My advice to myself and others who are thinking about elite social circle game, is to enter a university, be serious about grades AND party a lot, be unneedy and have fun, meaning you need to pick something you would enjoy doing hard work in, at least not hate. The opportunities you get just from being around women "naturally", "NATURALLY" guys, is a life hack.
I would say to a young guy 20-30 who REALLY wants to invest into this sht, pick a study out of the ones girls typically enjoy most that you could also like, and go for it. This is one of the few chances you get to rebuild a social circle if you move to new cities, and your attractiveness increases just because you are one of the few guys on the parties. Ofc look attractive, be fun and confident, and offer value into these social circles when you enter them. Nothing is handed to you obviously unless you are genetically blessed.
Now that you have enjoyed at least a bachelors degree and build up a great social circle, you might think you just spent 3 years chasing pssy? It doesnt stop there, a big social circle has no ending. You have unlimited access to parties where you meet even more attractive people.
I believe this is the game that needs to be played hard, while ofc doing tinder and all that on the side. Find a social circle or die
When talking about dating and one of the unprettier ones mentioned tinder, I suggested a few things and just said that most girls (I ofc mean girls who are attractive, ugly ones- who cares, but I cant say that in this setting) sitting around this table, have probably met their current bofriend through their social circle, because it feels more natural and convenient for them. Ofc ALL had met their current boyfriend through a social circle, one of the prettiest fuked her current boyfriends friend until she met him.
So I went after the one I liked the most, we all went out, just danced a little and had played it safe as it was my first time in this group of girls (who had a strong friendship together so I had to be a little bit careful). Got her snapchat, next day I text her first on snapchat, then on face just for the heck of it. Got ignored on both platforms.
Did some snooking unfortunately, found out her ex was one of the least attractive humans you could put in a picture. Point is, they went to the same school and probably and hopefully he is a smart guy who has other things to offer than a horribly skinnyfat body and a 3/10 face. Now I am very cautious about where I put myself, but I am leagues ahead of this guy in looks, and thats not even my strongest side. When I go to parties, girls often tell me I should do standup, heard it for years so socially I feel pretty good and get invited to several new social circles.
My point is, in many places, smaller communities, cities, even cultures, ATTRACTIVE GIRLS JUST DONT GIVE A **** about tinder or "dating" at all. Some even say they think its for losers, in 2018 that just shockes me! These are "smart" attractive women I have spoken to, or the closest thing you get, who are engineers etc.
It seems to me, quality women, girls who are in long term relationships, seem to hang around in a relatively small social environment where they have so many guys to pick from its actually hard to fathom. IT IS INSANE lol. A cutie could move to a new country, work at a supermarket, next month she knows 1000 new guys and is rocking it at several parties. Whats the point of crying here? FIND THE SOURCE, where are all these girls going!?
My advice to myself and others who are thinking about elite social circle game, is to enter a university, be serious about grades AND party a lot, be unneedy and have fun, meaning you need to pick something you would enjoy doing hard work in, at least not hate. The opportunities you get just from being around women "naturally", "NATURALLY" guys, is a life hack.
I would say to a young guy 20-30 who REALLY wants to invest into this sht, pick a study out of the ones girls typically enjoy most that you could also like, and go for it. This is one of the few chances you get to rebuild a social circle if you move to new cities, and your attractiveness increases just because you are one of the few guys on the parties. Ofc look attractive, be fun and confident, and offer value into these social circles when you enter them. Nothing is handed to you obviously unless you are genetically blessed.
Now that you have enjoyed at least a bachelors degree and build up a great social circle, you might think you just spent 3 years chasing pssy? It doesnt stop there, a big social circle has no ending. You have unlimited access to parties where you meet even more attractive people.
I believe this is the game that needs to be played hard, while ofc doing tinder and all that on the side. Find a social circle or die
