Explain this one lol

[The Duke]

To all of the lesser experienced guys:

This is another example of why you can't and should not take women seriously. I wish they would prove me otherwise. As long as they are allowed to run wild like they do these days, the majority behave just like this one. But if you want to believe otherwise, go right ahead!

 

[sazc]

Your silence will get her insecurity hamster wheel spinning.

She'll be texting you again at some point.

 

[guru1000]

To the other men reading: remember, when employing Silence and Distance, you are doing so to train your mind not to invest any more time and attention into unworthy women. Their hamster spinning is a byproduct, not the goal.

 

[Glassguy]

Your silence will get her insecurity hamster wheel spinning.

She'll be texting you again at some point.

Possibly. At which point I will have to consider if I am still interested in her and if its worth to even invest any more time in.

The best offer she would get from me at this point is "going out on the boat......pick up whatever you want to drink and meet at ____"

or.....

"I am free ___ evening. This is my address. Pick up some wine and I will see you at 8".

There wouldnt be any more "dates" unless she started majorly investing and chasing.

Some women are weird. Even at high interest it is hard to get their hamster into overdrive. Even if she reached out, my responses would show a major change in interest level (much lower) and I would probably slow play any offer she made to get together again (unless I just had her come over to smash at my place).

 

[Glassguy]

To the other men reading: remember, when employing Silence and Distance, you are doing so to train your mind not to invest any more time and attention into unworthy women. Their hamster spinning is a byproduct, not the goal.

Very true. It should almost be a conditioned response that comes naturally.

Since I am not really into playing games (I am either interested in a chick or not), the spinning hamster normally does me no favors as my interest has already plummeted and have already moved on to the next one.

 

[17 shots]

Women do that all the time. I think that you were entertaining her too much. She's probably one of those girls who subconsiously likes to chase men, and likes being ignored. So even tho she was the one blowing you up, you came off too available and easy to her. Causing her to get an ego, and think she can say stupid stuff to you like "idk if im ready for a relationship"...I think the text about let me know when you're free again, and im boating Saturday, made her feel that way even more. Like oh wow this guy already wants to make plans with me AGAIN. He must like me a lot. I must of sucked his **** so good that he wants a relationship with me now

 

[Glassguy]

Women do that all the time. I think that you were entertaining her too much. She's probably one of those girls who subconsiously likes to chase men, and likes being ignored. So even tho she was the one blowing you up, you came off too available and easy to her. Causing her to get an ego, and think she can say stupid stuff to you like "idk if im ready for a relationship"...I think the text about let me know when you're free again, and im boating Saturday, made her feel that way even more. Like oh wow this guy already wants to make plans with me AGAIN. He must like me a lot. I must of sucked his **** so good that he wants a relationship with me now

Well wont she be surprised when she doesnt hear anything back from me! Lol.

 

[Glassguy]

She added me on snapchat. 3 hrs later she sends me a pic of 2 wine bottles and tells me she was thinking of me when she bought them. I'm going to toot my own horn here for the mind fvcking that I happily gave her in the following:
Her: I was thinking about you when I bought the wine today
Me: 2 bottles? Nice
Her: it's been a long day and I need them for a hard to watch episode of greys anatomy this evening.
Me: Enjoy
Her: is it ok that I added you on snap and messaged you?
Me: doesn't bother me
Her: I was going to text you today but I figured that you might be mad
Me: I'm not mad. Why would you think that?
Her: because you said you didnt want to text me if we werent going to date because I wasnt sure if I wanted a relationship
Me: I'm not mad. I actually agree with you
Her: you do?
Me: Yes. I clearly somehow gave you the impression that I'm looking for something serious right out of the gate. Not the case
Her: really?
Me: absolutely. I dont have time to see one person right now but I still enjoyed your company
Her: well I still want to see you but I want to slow down a little and not feel rushed.
Me: no rush here. It's all good. I have a busy schedule coming up but I'll let you know down the road when I can break free. But it might be a bit
Her: like when are you thinking?
Me: not sure. I'm probably tied up for the next couple of weeks. Maybe we can try after that
Her: 2 weeks?
Me: yeah. You know that I'm going boating/fishing in Michigan next Friday so maybe the following week.
Her: ok. I really didn't want to wait that long to see you again.
Me: if I get caught up next week maybe before I go on my trip you can pick up some wine, come to my place next Thursday evening and we can just chill out and make pasta
Her: that sounds perfect. I love wine and pasta
Me: no promises on next Thursday though. I'll have to play it by ear and see what is going on. You got lucky by getting to see me twice in one week.
Her: hopefully you can get free next week so we can hang out before you leave.
Me: we'll see
Her: what are you doing this weekend?
Me: golfing and boating. This weekend is not good.
Her: ok. Let's do our best to try for next Thursday then and if you get freed up sooner let me know
Me: ok. Enjoy your wine and have a good evening.

Since she has messaged me several times but I havent responded.

I thought I played it pretty well. Silence and a little distance, zero initiation, responded when she reached out but scarce availability and set up the next meeting for her to pick up wine, come over and make dinner and ultimately smash. Wash, rinse, repeat.

My bet is she will reach out again tomorrow to see if I have any free time this weekend. Of which I wont. 2 other dates lined up already this weekend.

 

[lizardking82]

@Howiestern every guy here should know not to take women of this time and age seriously. They will jump ship at the slightest sign of insecurity you show and they are absolutely, as you put it, running wild and free up and down, not knowing what the fack they want or what the fack they are doing.

 

[lizardking82]

She added me on snapchat. 3 hrs later she sends me a pic of 2 wine bottles and tells me she was thinking of me when she bought them. I'm going to toot my own horn here for the mind fvcking that I happily gave her in the following:
Her: I was thinking about you when I bought the wine today
Me: 2 bottles? Nice
Her: it's been a long day and I need them for a hard to watch episode of greys anatomy this evening.
Me: Enjoy
Her: is it ok that I added you on snap and messaged you?
Me: doesn't bother me
Her: I was going to text you today but I figured that you might be mad
Me: I'm not mad. Why would you think that?
Her: because you said you didnt want to text me if we werent going to date because I wasnt sure if I wanted a relationship
Me: I'm not mad. I actually agree with you
Her: you do?
Me: Yes. I clearly somehow gave you the impression that I'm looking for something serious right out of the gate. Not the case
Her: really?
Me: absolutely. I dont have time to see one person right now but I still enjoyed your company
Her: well I still want to see you but I want to slow down a little and not feel rushed.
Me: no rush here. It's all good. I have a busy schedule coming up but I'll let you know down the road when I can break free. But it might be a bit
Her: like when are you thinking?
Me: not sure. I'm probably tied up for the next couple of weeks. Maybe we can try after that
Her: 2 weeks?
Me: yeah. You know that I'm going boating/fishing in Michigan next Friday so maybe the following week.
Her: ok. I really didn't want to wait that long to see you again.
Me: if I get caught up next week maybe before I go on my trip you can pick up some wine, come to my place next Thursday evening and we can just chill out and make pasta
Her: that sounds perfect. I love wine and pasta
Me: no promises on next Thursday though. I'll have to play it by ear and see what is going on. You got lucky by getting to see me twice in one week.
Her: hopefully you can get free next week so we can hang out before you leave.
Me: we'll see
Her: what are you doing this weekend?
Me: golfing and boating. This weekend is not good.
Her: ok. Let's do our best to try for next Thursday then and if you get freed up sooner let me know
Me: ok. Enjoy your wine and have a good evening.

Since she has messaged me several times but I havent responded.

I thought I played it pretty well. Silence and a little distance, zero initiation, responded when she reached out but scarce availability and set up the next meeting for her to pick up wine, come over and make dinner and ultimately smash. Wash, rinse, repeat.

My bet is she will reach out again tomorrow to see if I have any free time this weekend. Of which I wont. 2 other dates lined up already this weekend.

Seems like she';s your slave, but she is so unstable nothing is sure with her.

 

[Dash Riprock]

She added me on snapchat. 3 hrs later she sends me a pic of 2 wine bottles and tells me she was thinking of me when she bought them. I'm going to toot my own horn here for the mind fvcking that I happily gave her in the following:
Her: I was thinking about you when I bought the wine today
Me: 2 bottles? Nice
Her: it's been a long day and I need them for a hard to watch episode of greys anatomy this evening.
Me: Enjoy
Her: is it ok that I added you on snap and messaged you?
Me: doesn't bother me
Her: I was going to text you today but I figured that you might be mad
Me: I'm not mad. Why would you think that?
Her: because you said you didnt want to text me if we werent going to date because I wasnt sure if I wanted a relationship
Me: I'm not mad. I actually agree with you
Her: you do?
Me: Yes. I clearly somehow gave you the impression that I'm looking for something serious right out of the gate. Not the case
Her: really?
Me: absolutely. I dont have time to see one person right now but I still enjoyed your company
Her: well I still want to see you but I want to slow down a little and not feel rushed.
Me: no rush here. It's all good. I have a busy schedule coming up but I'll let you know down the road when I can break free. But it might be a bit
Her: like when are you thinking?
Me: not sure. I'm probably tied up for the next couple of weeks. Maybe we can try after that
Her: 2 weeks?
Me: yeah. You know that I'm going boating/fishing in Michigan next Friday so maybe the following week.
Her: ok. I really didn't want to wait that long to see you again.
Me: if I get caught up next week maybe before I go on my trip you can pick up some wine, come to my place next Thursday evening and we can just chill out and make pasta
Her: that sounds perfect. I love wine and pasta
Me: no promises on next Thursday though. I'll have to play it by ear and see what is going on. You got lucky by getting to see me twice in one week.
Her: hopefully you can get free next week so we can hang out before you leave.
Me: we'll see
Her: what are you doing this weekend?
Me: golfing and boating. This weekend is not good.
Her: ok. Let's do our best to try for next Thursday then and if you get freed up sooner let me know
Me: ok. Enjoy your wine and have a good evening.

Since she has messaged me several times but I havent responded.

I thought I played it pretty well. Silence and a little distance, zero initiation, responded when she reached out but scarce availability and set up the next meeting for her to pick up wine, come over and make dinner and ultimately smash. Wash, rinse, repeat.

My bet is she will reach out again tomorrow to see if I have any free time this weekend. Of which I wont. 2 other dates lined up already this weekend.

This exchange my SS friends, is the epitome of pitching the "perfect game."

Well played GG, well played.

~Dash

 

[sazc]

The hamster wheel rotation is strong with this one....

 

[flowtheory]

Damn @Glassguy that was good

 

[marmel75]

Really is no explanation other than her ex is still in the picture or she is actually still with him but actively looking for new d!ck(surprisingly common) and got caught.

Might be worth hitting back up in a few months out of the blue and see if you can turn it into a fvck buddy situation at that point. That has worked for me in the past a few times.

 

[marmel75]

She added me on snapchat. 3 hrs later she sends me a pic of 2 wine bottles and tells me she was thinking of me when she bought them. I'm going to toot my own horn here for the mind fvcking that I happily gave her in the following:
Her: I was thinking about you when I bought the wine today
Me: 2 bottles? Nice
Her: it's been a long day and I need them for a hard to watch episode of greys anatomy this evening.
Me: Enjoy
Her: is it ok that I added you on snap and messaged you?
Me: doesn't bother me
Her: I was going to text you today but I figured that you might be mad
Me: I'm not mad. Why would you think that?
Her: because you said you didnt want to text me if we werent going to date because I wasnt sure if I wanted a relationship
Me: I'm not mad. I actually agree with you
Her: you do?
Me: Yes. I clearly somehow gave you the impression that I'm looking for something serious right out of the gate. Not the case
Her: really?
Me: absolutely. I dont have time to see one person right now but I still enjoyed your company
Her: well I still want to see you but I want to slow down a little and not feel rushed.
Me: no rush here. It's all good. I have a busy schedule coming up but I'll let you know down the road when I can break free. But it might be a bit
Her: like when are you thinking?
Me: not sure. I'm probably tied up for the next couple of weeks. Maybe we can try after that
Her: 2 weeks?
Me: yeah. You know that I'm going boating/fishing in Michigan next Friday so maybe the following week.
Her: ok. I really didn't want to wait that long to see you again.
Me: if I get caught up next week maybe before I go on my trip you can pick up some wine, come to my place next Thursday evening and we can just chill out and make pasta
Her: that sounds perfect. I love wine and pasta
Me: no promises on next Thursday though. I'll have to play it by ear and see what is going on. You got lucky by getting to see me twice in one week.
Her: hopefully you can get free next week so we can hang out before you leave.
Me: we'll see
Her: what are you doing this weekend?
Me: golfing and boating. This weekend is not good.
Her: ok. Let's do our best to try for next Thursday then and if you get freed up sooner let me know
Me: ok. Enjoy your wine and have a good evening.

Since she has messaged me several times but I havent responded.

I thought I played it pretty well. Silence and a little distance, zero initiation, responded when she reached out but scarce availability and set up the next meeting for her to pick up wine, come over and make dinner and ultimately smash. Wash, rinse, repeat.

My bet is she will reach out again tomorrow to see if I have any free time this weekend. Of which I wont. 2 other dates lined up already this weekend.

She wants that d!ck. Make sure you punish her in the bedroom for that BS she tried

 

[marmel75]

@Howiestern every guy here should know not to take women of this time and age seriously. They will jump ship at the slightest sign of insecurity you show and they are absolutely, as you put it, running wild and free up and down, not knowing what the fack they want or what the fack they are doing.

Pretty much true...women will make 100% decisions with 2% information and often times these jumps to conclusions they make based on the smallest little insignificant thing has absolutely no basis in reality and are so ridiculous they boggle your mind.

But that's what happens when they have hundreds of guys thirsty for them online...they can always just find a new and improved version they think.

 

[marmel75]

Yeah, I'm out. This is exactly why I'm going Monk mode. I'll be damned if I'm making out with a chick and a few hours before she just had a dude bust in her mouth. F*ck that. That b*tch probably didn't even brush her teeth before kissing her daughter on the forehead. Nah, I'm cool.

Great job though Glass.

So the plan is to jack off the rest of your life? As if this is suddenly not going to be happening in a year from now? Sounds like a pretty dumb plan to me.

 

[Toddz]

Her: I think you are great but I just dont think I am ready for a relationship. Its all so new to me. I'm sorry.

A chick that even mentions the words "I think you're a great guy" and "relationship" after 2 dates you know is a head case.

I would've just written back "Haha okay"