Sex diary...a great read to see how women think...

[marmel75]

This is a great read for new guys who dont understand women well...pay special attention when she goes into details about the date with the guy who is too nice and what happens...

Then pay attention how she acts with a guy she is really interested in...

Notice the difference??

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/humanitarian-worker-contemplating-group-sex-003952584.html

 

[zekko]

It sounds like she was pretty apathetic about the "nice" guy from the get go. When she starts talking about him, he's "a guy" or "my date". She doesn't bother to reveal his name (Leo) until she actually gets to the bar. Meanwhile, she calls Sam by his name the first time she brings him up.

 

[spred]

It only comes to validate the stories we see on this forum, late 30s woman riding the carousel while keeping nice guys blue balled.

 

[Tilex]

For someone that lives in NYC she doesn't seem to go out much.
Her idea of a fun venue was the wine bar. She sounded boring.
If she had to use online dating apps to meet men in NYC, I'm already assuming she has major flaws.

 

[MrWood]

this is all you need:

Leo... high SMV / LMS

9:30 p.m. "Nearly an hour in and I’m bored. Leo is exaggeratedly courteous.
When I get up to use the restroom he stands.
When he suggests food, he asks me if it’s okay to order.
He even asks my permission to use the restroom.
Is this guy for real?"

Leo is for real, he is you... trying to nice-guy himself into the pvssy

 

[JohnChops]

this is all you need:

Leo... high SMV / LMS

9:30 p.m. "Nearly an hour in and I’m bored. Leo is exaggeratedly courteous.
When I get up to use the restroom he stands.
When he suggests food, he asks me if it’s okay to order.
He even asks my permission to use the restroom.
Is this guy for real?"

Leo is for real, he is you... trying to nice-guy himself into the pvssy

Asks for my permission to use the bathroom ... jesus christ that guy is either clueless or the best god damn dating troll I have ever seen.

 

[spred]

Being a diary most likely the author took some liberty with the actual facts, embellishing and minimizing ...
But the message is clear, all the guys who come to this forum to complain about middle age women wanting to ride the carousel instead of setlling are correct.

 

[marmel75]

Being a diary most likely the author took some liberty with the actual facts, embellishing and minimizing ...
But the message is clear, all the guys who come to this forum to complain about middle age women wanting to ride the carousel instead of setlling are correct.

That should make it easier for them not harder. How does a woman who wants to fvck cause their issues of not being able to fvck? She doesn't...they cause their own issues.

The issue is they are a lot more like Leo and a lot less like Sam.

 

[spred]

I was Leo most of my life, now at 40 I am becoming Sam, it never was so easy to be Sam

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It only comes to validate the stories we see on this forum, late 30s woman riding the carousel while keeping nice guys blue balled.

They use the nice guys for free labor, help and support and companionship when they need that . The other guys when they want to get smashed .

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I was Leo most of my life, now at 40 I am becoming Sam, it never was so easy to be Sam

What made it easy? What? Realizing women's true nature?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Asks for my permission to use the bathroom ... jesus christ that guy is either clueless or the best god damn dating troll I have ever seen.

It's no problem with him. He's a nice gentleman that doesn't understand women.

 

[Glassguy]

There are 2 good lessons here:

1.) When Sam blew her off and didnt show up, he had her by the n!pples lol. Notice that he is random in how he messages and communicates. They hung out very little before he fvcked her. He escalated. He hit it and bounced and wasnt blowing his phone up, yet he was still cool when he did communicate with her. Old Sam is a challenge and she knows it and that makes her wet.

2.) Sam knows what he wants and goes after it. Talk about big b@lls.....he asked her to be the fourth and didnt bat an eye, knowing if she didnt want to join the fun he would find someone else to do it and still keep this chick in his rotation.

This is how you keep a woman on edge, get her thinking about you and ultimately craving you and being at your beckon call. Still being nice while with her, but also staying mysterious and edgy. Its very important to do this before and most importantly after you bang a chick so that she comes into your frame and not vise versa.

 

[spred]

What made it easy? What? Realizing women's true nature?

Seeing how women flock after a guy with a little game, leaving their boyfriends in the dust...
It was a shock when I stumbled upon this forum 10 years ago and finding explanations for this kind of stupid actions from women.
It was like Whoaaaa

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Seeing how women flock after a guy with a little game, leaving their boyfriends in the dust...
It was a shock when I stumbled upon this forum 10 years ago and finding explanations for this kind of stupid actions from women.
It was like Whoaaaa

All bytches aren't reactionary, but 95% of hot girls ARE . They stay true to the rules of the game. It kills me how easily they will flip flop. All the complaints of guys on her are due to dealing with female bytches and female players.

 

[Von]

That article is a perfect summary of:

1. Hookup culture
2. Damaged women (first line: she sees a therapist)
3. Nice guy finish last
4. Its hard living on your own, especially if you dont love yourself and aging
5. Urban Cities can be quite lonely
6. You will get laid, if you have a abondance/dont care mentality and confidence (Sam the waiter, failed actor)
7. Its not cause you have money, you will be happy (she a upper east side, likely work for the UN)
8. Dating apps are part of life / dating
9. Forgot what point 9 but here something:.. Oh Yahoo is now doing Penthouse letters.. Some of the comments in the réaction section are genius.

9.1: Actions over words

9.2: She will need cats

9.3: People who travel alot for work or living.. Tends to have promiscuous (none attachement issues)... I know .. Its not a bad think but it does play your sex drive in overdrive due to detachment/lack of social life outside of work/loneliness/adventure without attachment cause they dont want emotional hurt when they leave (so they avoid friends too).

Anyway, being mysterious also play in your favor (sam).

In short: Damaged Good being played by a Guy who knows his stuff and has a life, and the nice guy lose

 

[skinnyguy]

If you’re a 37 year old single woman in NY, you’re automatically damaged

 

[zekko]

.In short: Damaged Good being played by a Guy who knows his stuff and has a life, and the nice guy lose

Good summary. Leo makes a lot of mistakes here in a short time, but this chick is hardly an example of a prize herself.

I suppose there are some women who might appreciate his table manners. He's definitely overdoing it for the location they are in though. I've never heard of asking permission to go to the bathroom. Sounds like Morgan Freeman in The Shawshank Redemption: "Forty years I been asking permission to p!ss. I can't squeeze a drop without say-so".

Another big mistake: Standing up is for when ladies leave the table, not for trash bag hos like this girl.

Anyone here ever been to a dinner and there's some yahoo there who stands when a woman leaves the table? And then all the other guys reluctantly and awkwardly follow suit, like "Are we really doing this?".

One more thing: She says she was sore from the anal sex, but it was "a good sore". The only time I've ever heard the expression "a good sore" is in relation to working out, I've never heard it applied to anal sex before. I guess she's happy that it's getting opened up back there.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

A polyamorous relationship. Just ****ing sick, what a cuck ass husband. Dude should cut his own balls off already.

 

[AJ84]

This is a great read for new guys who dont understand women well...pay special attention when she goes into details about the date with the guy who is too nice and what happens...

Then pay attention how she acts with a guy she is really interested in...

Notice the difference??

https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/humanitarian-worker-contemplating-group-sex-003952584.html

It's an interesting read that probably represents a decent sample of single women in NYC and other major cities.

And the guy that bored her? She said his look wasn't her type right from the beginning so she likely wrote him off at that point regardless of his behaviour.

If he gave her the tingles at first sight believe me she would of interpreted his politeness and grace as being a gentlemen, and loved it lol.

All that aside, will there be a part two? She left us hanging on the whole foursome proposition....