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Master Don Juan
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Why is *MY* perspective so very important, lol. 
Essentially I concur with @AJ84 in what she has stated in this thread.
One of the very best lovers I ever had was actually anatomically the smallest. He was the most confident MF you ever saw however, and he still is today, dates ridiculously gorgeous women half his age routinely and they all want to tie him down. His secret? He knew he was not as blessed in the size department so he learned how to pleasure a woman's body with his hands, his mouth, but even before that? He knows how to get a woman hot and bothered using just his mind and his presence through his intent, his words and his voice. Sexy as fvck that guy.
My ex husband was the best lover I ever had tbh. But there were other things that created the demise of the relationship that were outside the bedroom. His anatomy was perfect for me. Nice girth, good length, knew how to excite a woman with or without penetration, always a great experience. Very sexy man.
A man's build does not always give clues to his package. I've seen men over 6' tall that were smaller below the belt than everything about their physical make-up would indicate, and I've seen men at 5'7" or so with impressive packages. It's all over the place. I concur that girth is more important than length, and there actually is such a thing as too long (as in it can be too "pokey" in certain positions).
So I do not agree that penis size is everything. Not at all. Skills at being a good lover are MUCH more important. And those skills have to do with confidence, and knowing a woman's body and how to trigger a woman's sexual response. Men that only care about their own pleasure and just want to go to pound town are selfish in bed as a rule. Selfish lovers are without exception bad lovers. Slow and down and learn what gets a woman wet or gets a woman off besides PIV and you'll become a lover a woman will not want to let go. Much of that involves patience, emotional involvement, sensuality and yes, knowing (or being willing to learn) your lover's specific physical needs. Penis size is a distant second to all that if it matters at all. A woman who is into you is going to love whatever physiology you happen to have, especially if you are a lover worth having.
Essentially I concur with @AJ84 in what she has stated in this thread.One of the very best lovers I ever had was actually anatomically the smallest. He was the most confident MF you ever saw however, and he still is today, dates ridiculously gorgeous women half his age routinely and they all want to tie him down. His secret? He knew he was not as blessed in the size department so he learned how to pleasure a woman's body with his hands, his mouth, but even before that? He knows how to get a woman hot and bothered using just his mind and his presence through his intent, his words and his voice. Sexy as fvck that guy.
My ex husband was the best lover I ever had tbh. But there were other things that created the demise of the relationship that were outside the bedroom. His anatomy was perfect for me. Nice girth, good length, knew how to excite a woman with or without penetration, always a great experience. Very sexy man.
A man's build does not always give clues to his package. I've seen men over 6' tall that were smaller below the belt than everything about their physical make-up would indicate, and I've seen men at 5'7" or so with impressive packages. It's all over the place. I concur that girth is more important than length, and there actually is such a thing as too long (as in it can be too "pokey" in certain positions).
So I do not agree that penis size is everything. Not at all. Skills at being a good lover are MUCH more important. And those skills have to do with confidence, and knowing a woman's body and how to trigger a woman's sexual response. Men that only care about their own pleasure and just want to go to pound town are selfish in bed as a rule. Selfish lovers are without exception bad lovers. Slow and down and learn what gets a woman wet or gets a woman off besides PIV and you'll become a lover a woman will not want to let go. Much of that involves patience, emotional involvement, sensuality and yes, knowing (or being willing to learn) your lover's specific physical needs. Penis size is a distant second to all that if it matters at all. A woman who is into you is going to love whatever physiology you happen to have, especially if you are a lover worth having.
