The whole USA is an horrific sausage fest

[MatureDJ]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/busi...bd74ee-1041-11e8-8ea1-c1d91fcec3fe_story.html

There were about 150 men for every 100 women, compared with about 125 to 100 nationwide, of never-married young people between 25 and 34 in San Jose, U.S. Census Bureau data from 2016 shows.

my opinion:

 

[marmel75]

And? Out of the 150, at least half are the type of dudes most women nothing to do with. The higher you raise your SMV the less competition you have.

Guys who complain about this stuff are guys who have low SMV. I got news for you...there could be half the dudes to "compete" against and you'd still be in the same situation you are now.

Raise your SMV and stop worrying about this nonsense.

 

[R.U.G.]

This is a cute excerpt:

Tech-industry professionals, Andersen said, are often some of the least comfortable pouring their personal desires into a dating app. Some are also staggeringly hyper-selective: When some singles come in to tell Andersen about their type, “their list is so exaggerated: They’re looking for this 6-foot-tall Adonis who also happens to be a billionaire. And I tell them: What you are looking for does not exist. It’s a unicorn,” Andersen said. “It’s like an invincible mentality: I’ve achieved all these things in my life and career. Why can’t I have this, too?”

And women want to know why they cannot find a relationship? Anything you give this gender control of heads for the crapper.

 

[Who Dares Win]

And? Out of the 150, at least half are the type of dudes most women nothing to do with. The higher you raise your SMV the less competition you have.

Guys who complain about this stuff are guys who have low SMV. I got news for you...there could be half the dudes to "compete" against and you'd still be in the same situation you are now.

Raise your SMV and stop worrying about this nonsense.

Doesnt matter if half of those men are not attractive, they can still spam message and likes through facebook and tinder turning warpigs into divas.

Also if there are 100 workers but only two industries, what happens is that those industries only hire MIT bachelors to clean toilets while offering few bucks cause they have other options available.

In that case I dont believe getting a postgraduate is the numer one priority.

No matter how tight your game is or how great you are, playing in such market is a losing bet even if you are the more qualified of the slaves.

You guys should spend a couple of months in a estern european country to see how demading and worthless western women are nowadays.

I swear on god you cant imagine what the life of the average men there is in terms of dating and relationships...the same difference between a middle eastern man and a western one in terms of civil rights and salary.

 

[marmel75]

Doesnt matter if half of those men are not attractive, they can still spam message and likes through facebook and tinder turning warpigs into divas.

Also if there are 100 workers but only two industries, what happens is that those industries only hire MIT bachelors to clean toilets while offering few bucks cause they have other options available.

In that case I dont believe getting a postgraduate is the numer one priority.

No matter how tight your game is or how great you are, playing in such market is a losing bet even if you are the more qualified of the slaves.

You guys should spend a couple of months in a estern european country to see how demading and worthless western women are nowadays.

I swear on god you cant imagine what the life of the average men there is in terms of dating and relationships...the same difference between a middle eastern man and a western one in terms of civil rights and salary.

Yup, guys will blame everyone and eveything instead of taking responsibility for their own results...sounds like most guys these days...

its always someone else's or something else's fault as to why they cant succeed.

They have a defeatist mentality and then wonder why they don't succeed.

 

[MatureDJ]

And? Out of the 150, at least half are the type of dudes most women nothing to do with. The higher you raise your SMV the less competition you have.

Guys who complain about this stuff are guys who have low SMV. I got news for you...there could be half the dudes to "compete" against and you'd still be in the same situation you are now.

Raise your SMV and stop worrying about this nonsense.

And so how does someone who is short raise his SMV?

 

[oldmanofthesea]

And so how does someone who is short raise his SMV?

By focusing on all the other aspects you can control:
Hair
Diet
Muscles
Clothes
Humor
Game
Confidence

 

[Billtx49]

And so how does someone who is short raise his SMV?

Worrying about your height that you can not control only causes personal insecurity. It is Not the mindset you want to have trying to pick up chicks…

 

[marmel75]

And so how does someone who is short raise his SMV?

By not worrying about what you cant control and instead fixing what you can control. I know short guys that kill it. Hell I'm only 5'8" and do pretty well for myself.

In many cases these "problems" you think you have are nothing more than barriers you have erected in your own mind that have no basis in reality or at least far less basis than what you think.

 

[drakeisfire]

And? Out of the 150, at least half are the type of dudes most women nothing to do with. The higher you raise your SMV the less competition you have.

Guys who complain about this stuff are guys who have low SMV. I got news for you...there could be half the dudes to "compete" against and you'd still be in the same situation you are now.

Raise your SMV and stop worrying about this nonsense.

Except you are dead wrong about one thing, SMV is NOT OBJECTIVE.

Women choose deadbeat losers with no career over handsome guys with six figures salaries all the time for nothing other than the fact that in a given area, that is what is "cool". Same with status, that is not objective either.

You can lift all the weights you want and do whatever but if you are in the wrong area, have fun jerking it while you use some glutten free guacamole for lubrication.

Believe me, I know. I live in Atlanta, GA where fat bubbas get hot girls over handsome Chris Hemsworth lookalikes for nothing other than the fact that hot girls want someone who used to be in an SEC frat, what's the point of competing anyways?

And a lot of low SMV dudes in a society is horrible, because they inflate the egos of ugly women and make them see themselves as 9s while actual 9s now become untouchable because they see themselves as goddesses.

 

[drakeisfire]

OP, you are 100% right, this is a massive epidemic and it needs to be fixed, IMO at least half of guys out there are just taking up space, that is all they are good for. These are the same losers that flood dating apps, spam girls on social media and whiteknight the heck out of girls in real life which gives women massive egos and lets them feel like they can get away with anything.

I feel like we are experiencing the misery because of the fact that there are too many men on this planet and especially the US who are good for nothing other than taking up space, we would be far better off with significantly less men and that is a fact.

 

[marmel75]

Except you are dead wrong about one thing, SMV is NOT OBJECTIVE.

Women choose deadbeat losers with no career over handsome guys with six figures salaries all the time for nothing other than the fact that in a given area, that is what is "cool". Same with status, that is not objective either.

You can lift all the weights you want and do whatever but if you are in the wrong area, have fun jerking it while you use some glutten free guacamole for lubrication.

Believe me, I know. I live in Atlanta, GA where fat bubbas get hot girls over handsome Chris Hemsworth lookalikes for nothing other than the fact that hot girls want someone who used to be in an SEC frat, what's the point of competing anyways?

And a lot of low SMV dudes in a society is horrible, because they inflate the egos of ugly women and make them see themselves as 9s while actual 9s now become untouchable because they see themselves as goddesses.

Another excuse maker...kick rocks bro...no excuses just results.

 

[Alvafe]

Except you are dead wrong about one thing, SMV is NOT OBJECTIVE.

Women choose deadbeat losers with no career over handsome guys with six figures salaries all the time for nothing other than the fact that in a given area, that is what is "cool". Same with status, that is not objective either.

You can lift all the weights you want and do whatever but if you are in the wrong area, have fun jerking it while you use some glutten free guacamole for lubrication.

Believe me, I know. I live in Atlanta, GA where fat bubbas get hot girls over handsome Chris Hemsworth lookalikes for nothing other than the fact that hot girls want someone who used to be in an SEC frat, what's the point of competing anyways?

And a lot of low SMV dudes in a society is horrible, because they inflate the egos of ugly women and make them see themselves as 9s while actual 9s now become untouchable because they see themselves as goddesses.

if he makes good money and is like you said handsome and some woman trade him for a deadbeat, i'm pretty sure the rich handsome dude will have no problem to pull someone else, he possible already did, but of course the problem is not if a random girl trade a a radom dude for another random dude, the problem here is you are or scared of that happening to you or already did, with make the whole handsome and rich pretty much a moot point.

you can't control others, you can only control what you do and will do, so tell me you will be worried about a random female dumping a random dude, or you will be out doing what you want to do? that is all to it actually, ask yourself what you want to do and do it, if you keep that mentality of all woman are goddess then you are dead, don't matter if she herself think she is a goddess, what matter is if you will dare to do something to that goddess no mortal men had the balls to do so

 

[Who Dares Win]

Yup, guys will blame everyone and eveything instead of taking responsibility for their own results...sounds like most guys these days...

its always someone else's or something else's fault as to why they cant succeed.

They have a defeatist mentality and then wonder why they don't succeed.

Mate if you have to improve yourself and get 5 bachelor degrees to get paid 5 euros per hour but then brag that you belong to the 10% of employed people, its fine to me.

I would rather get a bachelor degree then move to a country where companies value me and respect me as a worker, pay me 50 euros per hours while keeping me happy.

Feel free to brag about being the one who "wins" in a hard market while others make excuses and move to greener pastures for better conditions.

Wish everyone would follow your suggestions so my greener pastures will remain greener than yours.

If you guys will ever see what the dating life of the average eastern european man is...you would start a global strike against the western market not any different than romenians when they found out what economy outside comunism was ...comrade marmel

The market sucks?....well just improve yourself till you are an overqualified wage slave, no thanks I pass

You may get the "job" but you are still underpaid and tapped in a crappy market.

 

[drakeisfire]

if he makes good money and is like you said handsome and some woman trade him for a deadbeat, i'm pretty sure the rich handsome dude will have no problem to pull someone else, he possible already did, but of course the problem is not if a random girl trade a a radom dude for another random dude, the problem here is you are or scared of that happening to you or already did, with make the whole handsome and rich pretty much a moot point.

you can't control others, you can only control what you do and will do, so tell me you will be worried about a random female dumping a random dude, or you will be out doing what you want to do? that is all to it actually, ask yourself what you want to do and do it, if you keep that mentality of all woman are goddess then you are dead, don't matter if she herself think she is a goddess, what matter is if you will dare to do something to that goddess no mortal men had the balls to do so

That's a cute post man but come out into the real world when you get the chance okay?

Your society, its rules and norms determine your dating success. If you want the hottest girls, being in the right location matters a lot. If in a given area, dating deadbeats with no jobs is "cool" while hating the educated man making six figures because "smart people suck" is horrible, then you are screwed.

You are free to try and run game in places where this is the case, I'll be in NYC by then sleeping with super models who appreciate a handsome guy with a nice salary. All the while, you can try chasing miss Former Zeta that thinks educated men are evil while deadbeats are cool.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Eh, why do so many guys here talk about money as a factor in getting women? I honestly haven't seen any correlation there in my personal experience and my observations. It's 100% game and appearance. Being dirt poor does make it more difficult, of course, but I think we've all seen a lot of dirt-bag guys with strong game get tons of women.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

And? Out of the 150, at least half are the type of dudes most women nothing to do with. The higher you raise your SMV the less competition you have.

Guys who complain about this stuff are guys who have low SMV. I got news for you...there could be half the dudes to "compete" against and you'd still be in the same situation you are now.

Raise your SMV and stop worrying about this nonsense.

What makes you think you're so valuable?

All you do is go to the gym. Any idiot could do that.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Eh, why do so many guys here talk about money as a factor in getting women? I honestly haven't seen any correlation there in my personal experience and my observations. It's 100% game and appearance. Being dirt poor does make it more difficult, of course, but I think we've all seen a lot of dirt-bag guys with strong game get tons of women.

Wtf are you talking about?

 

[Dingo]

And so how does someone who is short raise his SMV?

You set your sights and date the knock out gorgeous short girls....

 

[skinnyguy]

Eh, why do so many guys here talk about money as a factor in getting women? I honestly haven't seen any correlation there in my personal experience and my observations. It's 100% game and appearance. Being dirt poor does make it more difficult, of course, but I think we've all seen a lot of dirt-bag guys with strong game get tons of women.

I agree.

When I have been broke I’ve done better with women than when I’ve had plenty of money.

Money only attracts gold diggers and *****s. I see guys with no job getting the hottest women.