How do you be mean?

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If you sit silently, they will assume you're nice. Should I go out of my way to be mean for no specific reason?

The only ways I've ever been "mean" is not tipping, but that's kind of passive aggressive, and I walk out the door before she even sees the $0 tip in most cases.

Someone mentioned kicking them out of your car in the middle of nowhere, but that would assume they were already interested and hanging out with you in the first place.
 
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No. Why would you be mean? You can be alpha without being a jerk. Yes, jerks are alphas, but why do that if you don't have to?
Because I do have to.

It's the only way I'll get any for free.

Have you read all the misogynistic, hate-filled things I've said about females on here? I've never said any of that to their face.
 

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Because I do have to.

It's the only way I'll get any for free.

Have you read all the misogynistic, hate-filled things I've said about females on here? I've never said any of that to their face.
No, you don't have to. I've been the jerk and trust me, the great guy alpha has a way better time of it than the jerk alpha. It's my personal preference, sure, but you get the choice.
 

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Because I do have to.

It's the only way I'll get any for free.

Have you read all the misogynistic, hate-filled things I've said about females on here? I've never said any of that to their face.
Yes because you're a pvssy that lives inside your own head.

You want to kick them out of your car and leave them somewhere? Richard, for that to be possible you need 3 things, 1. a women 2. a car and 3. a date.

Why are you even giving this thought? Learn to attract a women first.
 
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Yes because you're a pvssy that lives inside your own head.

You want to kick them out of your car and leave them somewhere? Richard, for that to be possible you need 3 things, 1. a women 2. a car and 3. a date.

Why are you even giving this thought? Learn to attract a women first.
You obviously don't know me if you're calling me a pvssy.

That is the last I want to hear from your pathetic self. You are lucky the law protects you.

You are not tough in any way.

Aren't you the guy who claims to be a player, but then talks about girls he knew 15 years ago, or whines about a girl that left him 4 months ago that was probably an ugly drug addict in the first place.
 

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You obviously don't know me if you're calling me a pvssy.

That is the last I want to hear from your pathetic self. You are lucky the law protects you.

You are not tough in any way.

Aren't you the guy who claims to be a player, but then talks about girls he knew 15 years ago, or whines about a girl that left him 4 months ago that was probably an ugly drug addict in the first place.
Yes that's me, although I've never claimed to be a player - I just give an honest account of my self and I regularly ask for advice. I've had sex with 7 different women this year Richard, since breaking up with my ex, despite all my defects.

Good luck.
 
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Yes that's me, although I've never claimed to be a player - I just give an honest account of my self and I regularly ask for advice. I've had sex with 7 different women this year Richard, since breaking up with my ex, despite all my defects.

Good luck.
And the hottest one was average.

Pus$y.
 

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No the worst was the HB5 I made a thread about 1 week after my break up, then they got progressively better. I have various pics from whatsapp chats here, I have nothing to hide.

The girl I've known 15 years ago is a solid 8.5

Anyway this is all nonsense, you carry on paying for it and whining on here picking fights.
 
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No the worst was the HB5 I made a thread about 1 week after my break up, then they got progressively better. I have various pics from whatsapp chats here, I have nothing to hide.

The girl I've known 15 years ago is a solid 8.5

Anyway this is all nonsense, you carry on paying for it and whining on here picking fights.
No YOU picked the fight here.
 

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If you sit silently, they will assume you're nice.
Nonsense, it's about body langue and eye contact.
I never say anything, b!tches at work look at the ground when they pass me.
 

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If you sit silently, they will assume you're nice. Should I go out of my way to be mean for no specific reason?
No, absolutely not. Are you incapable of socializing? Do you only have 2 modes, passive or aggressive? There is something called being assertive and that way you don't look either like a pathetic loser or insane madman.

The only ways I've ever been "mean" is not tipping, but that's kind of passive aggressive, and I walk out the door before she even sees the $0 tip in most cases.
Only mean if they deserved a tip, if you didn't tip because their service wasn't good enough then that's not mean.

Someone mentioned kicking them out of your car in the middle of nowhere, but that would assume they were already interested and hanging out with you in the first place.
That would be a fvcking horrible thing to do, unless they treat you like sh!t while you drive them, which would make such an action justifiable.
 

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Funny story about kicking a woman out of your car - my cousin did that on the expressway in St Louis. She was at his apartment when he got home....with the cops and a made-up domestic violence story. They threw him in jail for three days, and then let him go without filing any charges. That happens a lot in the city. He still lost his good job for missing work, then lost his apartment and had to move back in with his parents.

Being a little mean is ok, but expect repercussions if you take it too far.
 
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No, absolutely not. Are you incapable of socializing? Do you only have 2 modes, passive or aggressive? There is something called being assertive and that way you don't look either like a pathetic loser or insane madman.

Only mean if they deserved a tip, if you didn't tip because their service wasn't good enough then that's not mean.

That would be a fvcking horrible thing to do, unless they treat you like sh!t while you drive them, which would make such an action justifiable.
Nobody deserves a tip. That's a stupid custom of the lazy USA. People in Europe don't tip for anything.

Why does someone deserve money to fill up a fvcking cup and hand it to me? Let alone to think she's the queen of the Universe. While other people slave their a$$ off in the Sun every day.
 

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If you sit silently, they will assume you're nice. Should I go out of my way to be mean for no specific reason?

The only ways I've ever been "mean" is not tipping, but that's kind of passive aggressive, and I walk out the door before she even sees the $0 tip in most cases.

Someone mentioned kicking them out of your car in the middle of nowhere, but that would assume they were already interested and hanging out with you in the first place.
Being mean doesn't create initial attraction. Sitting silently doesn't create interest and they'll likely think you are weird. Kicking them out of your car after they have shown bad behavior creates attraction because they see value in strength and appreciate the fact that you stood up to them and yourself.

You have to find a way to like conversing with women or relegate yourself to paid girls. Social skills are very important. They will also be important in your house flipping ventures if you ever want to be a millionaire.

What is it that you dislike about talking to girls?
 

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Put your self interest before all other things.

You will seem like an @sshole to some people and mean to a lot of people. You're not going out everyday trying to fuk other people over. You're just taking what you want from the world.
 
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Put your self interest before all other things.

You will seem like an @sshole to some people and mean to a lot of people. You're not going out everyday trying to fuk other people over. You're just taking what you want from the world.
I already do that.
 
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Being mean doesn't create initial attraction. Sitting silently doesn't create interest and they'll likely think you are weird. Kicking them out of your car after they have shown bad behavior creates attraction because they see value in strength and appreciate the fact that you stood up to them and yourself.

You have to find a way to like conversing with women or relegate yourself to paid girls. Social skills are very important. They will also be important in your house flipping ventures if you ever want to be a millionaire.

What is it that you dislike about talking to girls?
I believe I have all the social skills necessary to do house flipping successfully. Talking business is easy. Doesn't matter if it's with a male or female. I can talk all day with a female worker at the bank about lending options, etc.

If I could pick one thing about females that I don't like, it's their pretentiousness. It's as if they think they are "special" just because they were born female, even if they're unemployed, drug addict, etc. All they have to do is color their hair and put on makeup and they're "special" again, and the object of so many men's desire.
 

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I believe I have all the social skills necessary to do house flipping successfully. Talking business is easy. Doesn't matter if it's with a male or female. I can talk all day with a female worker at the bank about lending options, etc.

If I could pick one thing about females that I don't like, it's their pretentiousness. It's as if they think they are "special" just because they were born female, even if they're unemployed, drug addict, etc. All they have to do is color their hair and put on makeup and they're "special" again, and the object of so many men's desire.
Yeah, I do not understand the pretentiousness at all. No doubt that plenty of women should get over themselves lol.
 

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To start, you could be mean to start developing that thick skin with women. But as time goes by, you'll need to balance the act out because most women will see you as someone not be around.
 
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