I'm 25, she's 18, need some serious advice

[PhilippeUrielAmancio]

She's like a moldable piece of clay in my hands that I can shape however I want! I'm exaggerating obviously but you get the idea.
That's pretty much what I would like to do is cultivate something with her and see what happens. If it turns out she's too immature, or not at all who I thought she was, then so be it. At least I checked it out, I'd rather be able to say that than to look at her when she's mega hot and successful a few years down the road and wonder what could have been. Because she WILL get a top tier dude, whether it's me or someone else.

Jaxon, This is one of the single creepiest things I've ever heard in my life. After reading your original post, and the posts to follow, you clearly need more guidance than can be provided in this thread.

You aren't a "top tier" dude yet, and anyone who tells you to "go for it" is absolutely clueless. Once you start to "get it" in your own mind, you won't have to settle for 18-year-olds.

 

[PhilippeUrielAmancio]

god dammit am I the only sane person here?


what's next? We gonna go to the Nusery ward at the hospital and start judging charcaters of cute baby girl newborns?

HOW ****ING CLEARER DO I HAVE TO BE. CHARACTER IS NOT SOMETHING YOU ARE BORN WITH. IT'S SOMETHING THAT IS DEVELOPED



Think of Character like Tits. Exect a woman doesn't start growing until she's in her low 20's.


Character isn't built at home, while your parents are watching TV and youa re on AIM. and she says all the right things, because she's not dumb.


Character is built (At the extreme earlist) when there is a keg party and her friends are all ****ing random guys, what is she doing?


Moreso, character is built when the protected envrioment of school is over. when she gets out there and has to fight for herself. when mommy and daddy are not looking over her every move to see is she doing right or wrong. That's when you start to see a person for who they are


not when they are ****ing 18.



If you are 25, I'm 24. I know some SMOKIN HOT 25 year olds. some would argue that that's when a woman "peeks". there is alot of 25 year old ass out there.

however, the quality 25 year old ass is out of your league. so you have to step down to the quality 18 year old ass, or so you think is quality.


This isn't a situtation where you are 40 and you are dating a 24 year old. both of you in that case have lived a little.

there isn't a catch I know, guy wise, including myself, that would touch an 18 year old with a 10 foot pole.

21 maybe. actually if she seems to ahve her head on straight, I'd give it a shot.

18? **** no.


the only reason you are in this situtation is because she's your only plate and you are not good enough, man enough, quality enough, to attract catches of your own age.

Backbreaker, SPOT ON.

 

[Omen]

I've dated 19 year olds too this year. This guy is talking about MARRYING a 19 year old he barely knows at 25. There IS a difference.

True, and then this makes it almost like that puppy love kind of thing. I see, and work with young girls and I dont say that.

I was at this reception Sat for a wedding, and it was a blast, but all the girls were lame, they sat in the back, or with boyfriends and just were sore losers.

I thought to myself... Man I wish X was here with me. She'd be breaking it down on the dance floor with me. She's so full of energy. Now this one is young as well, but the point is that i'd be out having fun with them, not thinking about marrying them.

MOST aren't going to be marriage material for quite a bit longer. Most until they are prob out of college unless your as young as they are, have dated them for years and now want to get married AFTER school.

But yeah, there is a big difference. I dont plan on marrying one. I mean heck if I dated one and it lasted years and it worked, so be it, but that is NOT my plan.

In fact I even broke up with a girl back in high school cause I was going to college and she was just a freshman. I did it more out of the fact that she was starting a new life (high school) and I was starting a new life (college)

I just couldn't see it working as a REAL relationship.

 

[Reyaj]

you all need to stop getting on Jaxon. YOu are totally misunderstanding. He isn't about to marry this girl or anything... he was just writing about the opportunity of pursuing something romantically that may eventually end in marriage... or maybe it won't... just like with any girl. The debate on this is the age of the girl and whether it should matter. I say it's ok to date someone that is at least 18 and you can very well "mold" a relationship that can be fufilling. Im not saying its a gimmie and everything is going to be a fairy tale, but life is all about taking risks.

You all need to read "The Road Not Taken"

 

[Omen]

I think what first needs to be done is to just see if she is interested.

I think too often guys get this thing where everything rushes through their head before anything happens.

Before you have 100 ideas making you crazy, and all of these "what ifs" at least have an idea she likes you, then slowly progress.

Now not that he is doing it, but there are guys that worry about all sorts of stuff before they even have the chick. What if her parents dont like me, what if I dont like her siblings, what if she has crappy friends, could I marry her, what would our kids look like, would she cheat on me behind my back........

Its like... HOLD ON COWBOY, dont even worry about any of that yet.

But yes, update us Jaxson. Just be calm and dont get yourself in over your head with too much thinking yet.

 

[ligyron]

this is beyond creepy. thinking about this ONE chick WAY too much, dont you have other things to do? forget about her before you hurt the girl

 

[Last Man Standing]

The most likely viable candidate for marriage is an 18 year old -- considering that the older ones have already had many penises in their orifices!!

Character is developed in childhood!! An 18 year old female who is committed to her principles and her virginity is of the highest character of all women!!

You fvcktards are loving and marrying hors -- it is your character that is lacking!!!!

 

[hbxdoode]

damn bro your **** is way too long... i cant read it all

 

[Omen]

damn bro your **** is way too long... i cant read it all

Get use to it. There are MANY posts on this forum that are long, and if you cant read it all, then guess what? You dont have too. That's the luxury of a board. Post where you want, and respond at what you want too. So if you didn't want to read his post, why even bother mentioning it? If you did that with every long post on here, you'd be busy all day long saying you cant read them all.

People dont need others telling them their posts are long. We know that already, and some even mention it before you get started.

 

[Luveno]

You have no game. You must work on that.

Your thought process is the typical fairy tale mindset of your average guy from the USA. You have to overcome this before you even think about trying to date around.

 

[Lostbeauties]

Omg I just saw this post! I read all of it and if you're still here I'm so curious to find out what happened after 11 years! Are you and her married now?? You were 25 when you wrote this so you must be around 36 now! How crazy is that! Anyway, if you're still on this forum I would love to hear what happened between you two.

 

[marmel75]

It sounds like you have already pedastalized this chick and these situations usually dont turn out well.

But if you want it go for it. Things could get really weird if she doesnt see you I the same way tho...

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

It sounds like you have already pedastalized this chick and these situations usually dont turn out well.

But if you want it go for it. Things could get really weird if she doesnt see you I the same way tho...

This was 11 years ago bud....

 

[marmel75]

This was 11 years ago bud....

Lol...I dont look at dates....maybe I should..

 

[RichardTheFrog]

This is one of the single creepiest things I've ever heard in my life

What if I told you about my hidden camera that looks like a smoke detector?

Wait nm. I didn't say that.

Or my other one that looks like a watch. Or my other one that looks like a USB drive.